Will he keep it up...?

[x-dannielle]

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[littlekitten8]

Hi hun I don't really have any advice for you cos I've only been on my own for a month. FOB has already lost interest and decided not to see LO anymore but then he was always uninterested anyway and was too young really. He has another kid and is carrying on seeing him. Just wanted to give you hugs and wish you best of luck and hope things work out for the best x

 

[MissEfendi]

It really does depend on the man and how committed and devoted he is. A few will stick to their word and see their kids because their kids are their lives so they will willingly travel miles to spend time with the little ones. BUT most men will get bored, meet someone else, have another child, lose interest etc and not bother as much.

 

[suzanne108]

My fob lives 2 and a half hours away, Lola is nearly 7 weeks old and he's been to see her 3 times. He was supposed to be coming tomorrow but has cancelled. Says he'll come on saturday but we'll see. I do think he'll get bored eventually. Difference between our fobs though is that mine doesn't have a bond with LO, she has no idea who he is!

Sorry not really advice, just my experience xx

 

[bloodbinds]

My FOB lives 3 hours away and came for LOs birth and hasn't seen her since, despite me asking him to!

 

[sweetlullaby]

My FOB showed up again at the end of my pregnancy with his mother in tow ( she took over) and they threatened me, harrassed me and ruined the end of my pregnancy. They have been once to see LO. He's now nearly 9 weeks old.

But im not sure, i think most guys move on, lose interest etc but if your now ex has a bond with your daughter etc then he might not lose interest but then again if he hasnt really done much before now then he could lose interest

guess you just gotta see how it goes xx

 

[lou_w34]

You can never really tell... you just have to play it out and see how it goes. Every situation is different, though most of the girls fob's on here dont play any kinda role in their babies lives, mine included.... so who knows really

Hopefully youll have one of the good ones!

xx

 

[Linz88]

If your live 3 and a half miles away.. And he has no job i can imagine he'll probably make excuses about money if he's showin not alot off interests already. But hopefully his love for her will keep him around

 

[x-dannielle]

ive got a feeling he might be all intrested for the first few months then start the whole excuses thing.

but if he fails to turn up he'll get one more chance and that is it, if he fails to attend again he will not be seeing her, i will not put my daughter threw it.

is that harsh?