will they tell my H the gender at 20 week scan if I don't want to know?

[Decemberbride]

H REALLY wants to know the gender - I do not and feel strongly about this. He said his friend found out at the 20 week scan even though his wife didn't want to know and the sonographer wrote the gender on some paper and put it in an envelope for him.

I've joked if he tries this I tell them he's just a friend and not the father so they won't tell him!

 

[Pixxie]

I've heard of a few people doing this, if you ask for it they will do it for you xxx