Hi guys, Hope everyone is doin ok.
I have gone throuhg all the emotions possible, first was deep upset and crying, then i got really angry and thought it would totally consume me.
now i'm just really really low, i feel so sad.
I desperately want to start trying for a baby again, but my husband is saying he wants to wait a while so we can grieve properly, (i m/c on xmas day 08) and put this behind us. my head tells me he is right, but my heart won't quite listen to what my head is doing!
i feel totally heartbroken- and am scared that i am going to start resenting my hubby for making me wait, i keep having to tell myself he is right and he has both our interests at heart- but it doesn't stop me hurting.
does anyone has any advice on how to deal with me and hubby being in totally different places at the mo?
I have gone throuhg all the emotions possible, first was deep upset and crying, then i got really angry and thought it would totally consume me.
now i'm just really really low, i feel so sad.
I desperately want to start trying for a baby again, but my husband is saying he wants to wait a while so we can grieve properly, (i m/c on xmas day 08) and put this behind us. my head tells me he is right, but my heart won't quite listen to what my head is doing!
i feel totally heartbroken- and am scared that i am going to start resenting my hubby for making me wait, i keep having to tell myself he is right and he has both our interests at heart- but it doesn't stop me hurting.
does anyone has any advice on how to deal with me and hubby being in totally different places at the mo?