cebethel
mama of 2 boys
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Not having a good day today ladies. Found out this afternoon that my 7 year old will be having another surgery next Tuesday (21st)
It's making me think about things. I blame myself for his traumatic birth. He was born at 28 weeks because I developed pre-ecampsia. It was touch & go for him a few times. Thankfully, after 3 months he came home........with oxygen & an apnea monitor, but he was HOME!
My issue is, what if I get pre-eclampsia again & put another child through all that mess of the NICU? Should I keep ttc because of that?
It's making me think about things. I blame myself for his traumatic birth. He was born at 28 weeks because I developed pre-ecampsia. It was touch & go for him a few times. Thankfully, after 3 months he came home........with oxygen & an apnea monitor, but he was HOME!
My issue is, what if I get pre-eclampsia again & put another child through all that mess of the NICU? Should I keep ttc because of that?