StranjeGirl
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So dd has just turned 15 months yesterday and I have been a bit worried as she does not point yet. She is now pretty consistent at following a point, but won't do it herself. I know that is a flag for autism so I have been a bit nervous about it. I just today read that an even bigger flag is hand leading. I guess autistic children don't usually point, so instead they take your hand and put it on what they want. DD does this with the front door. She wants to go outside and will will grab our hand and walk over to the door and put our hand on the knob. She is usually crying but this point because she has already been to the door and we have not let her out. She also wants to clap my hands rather than her own. She still does not clap. She did it once a couple weeks ago, and then would bring them together when we did the "if you're happy and you know it song" but now she went back to not really doing that either. She just smiles and gets excited, but doesn't clap. The other example of hand leading is she has a toy that you spin. DH made it spin really really fast one time and this amused her, so she took his hand and put it on the toy to do it again. I guess she doesn't do it in every instance, but she does do it, especially with clapping and the front door. She has no words yet. She is very vocal and babbles a lot, but no meaningful words. It's hard to tell if she says mama or dada, because she babbles these words all day long and I'm not sure if when she says them to us on the rare instance if it is just babble, or if she is calling us by name. If I say "can you say mama" she will, but again, not sure if she realizes what she is saying..so I don't count it as a word. Other than that she seems pretty typical. Not the most affectionate child as she is always busy, but she does give us enough attention to keep us happy. Do other toddlers do this "hand leading." Do these things seem concerning for 15 months, or just typical?