Ugh...i'm stressing out. Today is the day that I get to bring up my decision to the DH. He is NOT going to be happy. I just know it's going to turn into this huge fight, but if I stay quiet about it then I'm going to end up resenting DH, MIL, and the uncle. I just keep telling myself. It's my house and I shouldn't have to feel uncomfortable in my own home. If bridges are burned because I refuse to be taken advantage of, then so be it. She never asked me before inviting these people, and had she taken the time to get my take on it, I would have told her up front that that's not a good idea. It's funny how the tables are turned though...I was just thinking how a few Christmas's ago, she invited my mother over to celebrate the holiday with that side of the family, but when DH's sisters found out they flipped their shiite. So MIL made me go to my mom and take back the invitation. I can't tell you how much it sucked to say, yea, you know how they invited you...well, sorry, they don't want you there after all. So I don't have any sympathy for the conversation that MIL is going to have to have with her brother.
But...because I'm a nice person, I'm not going to tell them that they can't stay. I'm going to express how rude it was, and that next time, they should include the people who actually pay the bills before making decisions like these. Then I'm gonna tell them that as a compromise, they can stay, but they're not sleeping on my bed. They'll sleep on an air mattress in the office, and if they don't like it there's a hotel down the road.
OMG it's just making me mad talking about it again. I mean, it's not like they're coming to visit us. That might be a different story... but they're not. They're coming to visit MIL bc they're too -- whatever -- to visit MIL at her own damn house..or vice versa. These are two adults capable of travelling on their own so why they're looking for a free ride while I'm away is frickin beyond me.
Ok...my rant is over. Thanks everyone for hearing me out...again.