would u make a complaint about doc that said this?

[bump_wanted]

id want to complain and i think you should but in real life i probably wouldnt get round to it and my rage would subside xx

 

[tessica123]

i would complain to me he should have asked if everything was ok as there could have been another reason why you cried very insensitive

 

[Lu28]

That would have annoyed me but not enough to complain about it x

BTW, I'm saying this having lost my mum to cancer. It may well have been a stupid and insensitive one off comment, if it's not it'll start to filter through

 

[IvyBaby]

They used to teach doctors and nurses about empathy in school, maybe now they don't

 

[RJsMum]

I would personally say to just look past it. Yes, it was out of line...but I don't think it was meant to intentionally upset you. It seems he was maybe taken back by your reaction. But I agree that complaining won't likely make a difference.

 

[pheobe]

I'd of poked the'Dr' in the eye never mind complained!
Hope you feel better soon
x

 

[Thedon]

No, we all have bad days, even doctors. If he fondled your breasts than that would be different (unless checking for lumps or other woman things)

 

[special_kala]

Hes only human so maybe he was just having a bad day.

I wouldnt complain

 

[XcupcakeX]

What a ridiculous thing to say i would definately complain x

 

[tinyme77]

I wouldn't complain. They may have been trying to be kind and it came out wrong. There are more important things to spend your time on.

 

[dani_tinks]

What he said was pretty insensitive, but I wouldn't complain. I probably would of said something sarcy back to him if it was me though!
Gps have a pretty grueling job and I guess sometimes it will get ontop of them. Theyre only humans at the end of the day. We all say things we shouldn't sometimes.

 

[Abigailly]

What he said was rude, unprofessional, insensitive and down right careless. And yes, I would have complained. How knows nothing about your situation and to say that was completely inappropriate! For example, he'd of got a right shock if he'd of said that to my OH, my OH would have jamp over the desk and given him a black eye and several broken bones as his best mate has just been told he has very little time left and what is left he'll be in a wheel chair for!

But I know I'm letting my situation cloud my judgement here.