kates84
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Hi all,
I'm afraid I just had a heated discussion with a neighbour/friend.
Not to get in to a debate about the rights or wrongs she basically said that the two boys who killed little Jamie Bulger should have been hung straight away. I said that under no circumstances could I condone hanging a 10 year old.
Her response?
"Well I hope you never have any children you just don't deserve them".
Ouch. I don't think she really thought about what she said but it feels like she put a curse on me.
Although she wants this person she never wants to have children to babysit her 10 month old twins tonight (again).
How do you guys control yourselves when people make comments that sting? I just said "I wont dignify that with a response" but now I'm wondering how I could handle things better if I get more careless comments.
I honestly don't think I would ever tell a woman she didn't deserve children unless I caught her eating babies or something.
I'm afraid I just had a heated discussion with a neighbour/friend.
Not to get in to a debate about the rights or wrongs she basically said that the two boys who killed little Jamie Bulger should have been hung straight away. I said that under no circumstances could I condone hanging a 10 year old.
Her response?
"Well I hope you never have any children you just don't deserve them".
Ouch. I don't think she really thought about what she said but it feels like she put a curse on me.
Although she wants this person she never wants to have children to babysit her 10 month old twins tonight (again).
How do you guys control yourselves when people make comments that sting? I just said "I wont dignify that with a response" but now I'm wondering how I could handle things better if I get more careless comments.
I honestly don't think I would ever tell a woman she didn't deserve children unless I caught her eating babies or something.