heres my rant. so i am having a c section. i was at the hospital this past weekend for contractions but the hospital wound up stopping them- we told my MIL to stay home and if by chance i would deliver we would call her. 2 seconds after me and hubby left for hospital shes calling all the family saying i am gonna have a baby, wakes up my 18 month old son and drops him off at the neighbors and heads to the hospital. UGH! well needless to say i told you so. so i told her today that when i do go into labor and have my c section that if its during the day- i dont want any visitors for at least 4-5 hours after surgery so me and DH can bond with baby and i can relax and get my feeling back in my legs and stuff, or if i deliver at night that me and DH wont want any visitors until the next morning- that way since its at night, we can sleep. well she started balling her eyes out saying that how can i be so rude and ignore other people feelings, and that this was her grand kid and she has every right to see him right when he comes out, and that its not fair that me and DH are requesting alone time with no visitors, and how dare we.....mind you last night she told my husband right in front of my face oh you can always get a new wife and baby..... wtf after that why the hell would i want her there anyway. but she thinks my delivery should be all about her, and heaven forbid i am having a major abdominal surgery but that doesnt matter. well i spoke with my doctor today and he even said that he would block off any visitors for at least 12 hours after surgery because last year my c section i hemorrhaged and wound up getting an infection a few hours after which he is trying to avoid , so i told my MIL that its doctors orders for no visitors and she was like we will see about that. i tell you what if that bitch tries to make my delivery all about her, shes got another thing comming.