WTT with a view to TTC in Sept/Oct/Nov - looking for a TTC buddy!

[PreshFest]

Hey miss m, hope your ok? As dot lumps in your breasts, there are four different types so don't just think it's the worst! Hope they get you seen ASAP. and that heat sounds awful! Keep smiling and thinking of that baby! Is there no bumps and baby groups around to stop you from feeling lonely?

Sunshine how an you not test? Really hope you get that bfp
And you too Elz!

Almost, sorry to hear that news. Hope your both coping ok and keep positive

Xxx

Had my scan today baby was a wiggler, and is due 2 Feb! So five days later than my lmp, but I knew I ovulated late so the dates are actually two days ahead that what I thought
Juat got to tel family before we announce.

Hope your all ok xxx
Miss Broody's baby is gorgeous!

Yayyy Jem!! You're just about 3 wks behind me!!

 

[Soniamillie01]

Glad the scan went well Jem!

Almost - sorry to hear that but it only takes one swimmer. It will happen x

Sunshine - I would be going mad not knowing so well for for not testing

I have my 16 week check up tomorrow with my midwife then next is 20 week scan on August 22 which seems like ages away

 

[almosthere]

wow elz and sunshine you are both so close to finding out if your preg or not! afm in the tww....just trying to relax and think positive. DH had to go in to get checked for a UTI or something b.c urologist found bacteria in his urine sample...we should have got results today but they tested his urine for the wrong thing, ugh! so he went back today.....also, dh has his second s.a. tomorrow, so I will call next mon or tuesday to hear results...SUPER nervous....but fx it comes back good and that his first was a fluke thing! If it comes back bad then we will be sure to finish all needed tests, bloodwork, FS appt and paperwork and get the ball rolling for IVF which makes me excited to get closer to our BFP! Glad to hear all are well and still waiting for our first threads baby pics missbroody, yay!!

 

[iow_bird]

miss m : They will do ultrasound and will also be able to do a needle biopsy or aspiration if needed to find out what it is. I work in breast screening, and the odds are definately in your favour, but you definately need it checked. So many things it could be other than anything nasty, especially with all the breast changes during pregnancy. Take care xxx

 

[miss malteser]

Iow - thanks so much for your comments. I´m trying not to get to stressed about it as I know its doesn´t have to be anything serious necessarily but its still a bit scary not knowing. It´s good to know that they can do more than just a scan if needs be. I´ll let you know what they say next thurs.

Jem - glad to see that everything is fine with LO. Unfortunately mother and baby groups don´t seem to exist around here but I´m thinking about looking to see if there are any other english speaking mums in the area (don´t know of any at the moment!) who would fancy meeting up so that Emma doesn´t only hear english from me.

MissBroody - congratulations!!!

Everyone - sorry for the moan the other day!!

 

[Soniamillie01]

Well I feel very cheated re my 16 week midwife appointment.
Probably my fault as I was 2 mins late but when I booked they didn't tell me it would be with someone else as my midwife is away. Had I known I would have booked before she went or when she came back.

The midwife who did my apt then got shitty because I hadn't brought a urine sample - no one told me I had to! So went to pee in a cup and hardly nothing as I'd already been, which annoyed her even more! Oh well, I have a small amount of protein in my urine but she said that was normal.

Took my blood pressure at 100/70 said it was fine.
She then found baby on Doppler for about 15 seconds and that was it. Asked if I had any questions and sent me packing.

I'm really annoyed as feel she should have been more welcoming and I would have got more out of it and asked all the questioned I wanted to. She probably spoke about 20 words to be for the whole appointment!

ARGH ! Sorry ladies don't mean to vent but feel cheated of the apt. X

 

[PreshFest]

Sonia, I hate it when that happens!!! Do you know when your midwife gets back? Maybe give her a call when she is back to ask all of your questions. But at least you got to hear the heartbeat! YAY!!

I'm sure you've all heard about the shooting here in Denver last night.. My hormones can't handle it!! It's just so sad

 

[Soniamillie01]

Presh - I know it's horrible, I was in tears reading it on the news earlier.

I might do that actually, thanks for suggesting it. I'll ring in a week or so and see if she is back and then ask to see her, I'm sure she wouldn't mind. I'll definitely be checking web I book in future. X

 

[Emz1982_in_uk]

Horrible new Presh. RIP to those who have lost their lives

Sorry you hada rubbish appt Sonia. You'll need a urine sample every visit. Well I do anyway. Glad you heard baby's HB x

 

[Soniamillie01]

Yeah, got some pots so can so can go prepared now, just wish they tell you these thinks rather than getting all shirty with you.

 

[sunshine82]

Hiya ladies hope you are all okay sorry your appt was such a bad experience Sonia they shouldn't be like that that's unfair.

Well I just relented and Poas and bfn on a *frer fmu- bought a digi too guess I won't need that now but with frer and being cd35 that's it for me this month I think now so sad especially after those two potential bfps I'm thinking cp and that makes me so upset:'(
we just want this baby so much we are so ready! Im starting to think there is something wrong with me.

*Last bd was on cd 21 now cd 34 so if was going to show bfp I'm sure it would now.... May have another few days to be totally sure but prob just clutching straws there!

Been a cruel month really *full of dashed hopes. I am having a long cycle again it seems just after thinking they had regulated. I'm so sorry to be so miserable just absolutely gutted. Just need af to arrive now so can move on to next cycle I turn 30 on aug 24th so im going to be positive and aim for the birthday bfp that would just be the best present ever.

So sorry for moaning *

 

[Soniamillie01]

Morning Sunshine. Sorry to hear about the bfn, I can imagine that it is frustrating especially when no sign of AF. I hope it happens for you real soon and would be an amazing present. Though bfn you're not out until AF arrives, say positive (I know that is hard).

Xxxx

 

[Soniamillie01]

So I went back swimming this morning, didn't do as much as I would normal do but want to build up again. So there I am casually swimming along to be joined by the Barbadian Olympic swim squad - it was epic! The rest of us 'normal' swimmers just watched in sheer amazement!

We are not too far from London and our poor is state of the art 50m, one of only are outside of London and think they and the USA squads are based there. Was so amazing.

 

[almosthere]

so sorry sunshine...please do not think something is wrong with you-it may not be you at all....I thought it was me, turns out, it is DH!! Not that it makes it that much better....but I would feel worse if it was me! Anywho....just waiting for DH's second sperm analysis....we both think IVF will still be what is needed and if so, I want to start ASAP if possible which would mean I would need to get on BCPs ASAP next af....due July 30...or a bit earlier or later, so may have to wait and do ivf end of aug/beg of sept :/

 

[almosthere]

and sonia that sounds amazing!!!

 

[MissBroody]

hi ladies, I have lots to catch up on on this thread. I had my baby boy early hours of last Sunday morning and have been AWOL on here but wanted to say i'm still thinking of you all and when I get chance will read up all I missed and reply. I hope everyone is doing great xxx

 

[Soniamillie01]

Congrats again hun. He is adorable. X

 

[sunshine82]

Many congratulations Miss Broody- he is absolutely gorgeous. So happy for you

Thank you so much Almost- its been a very tearful kind of day- but ill pick myself up and we will get there, oh is offshore for next two weeks so im on my lonesome and ive had too much time to think about everything today I just need af to arrive now so I can start a fresh page and hope get that aug bfp for my birthday!

I wish you all the best with your preparations for the ivf if thats indeed the way forward after results- im so pleased you are getting some answers and a plan of action with the ivf and im sure you will get that bfp very soon, i can see why you would want to get started with it asap, i would be the same and keen to get going and have lots of fresh optimism.

Sonia- thanks for your reply too hun- and that sounds brill about the olympic squad, we dont get anything exciting like that happen in our town! Hope you are keeping well and having a good weekend.

Hope everyone else is keeping well and having a nice weekend.

Lots of love xxx

 

[MissBroody]

Hi ladies,

Hope you're all ok today.

I can't wait for the announcement of the birth of our little girl Emz!
Can't wait to hear what genders some of you are having too - very exciting!!

Sonia - I remember not having a urine sample at my first appt with DS1 and they got shirty - what did the want me to pee in?! and why not say?! After that you realise that you will need one at everrryy appointment - so ask for a pot thingy and take that everytime

Sunshine I'm sorry to hear about your BFN - what a frustrating experience. It could well be a CP it must be awful to have a glimmer of hope of a BFP and then have it taken away - but stay strong and remain optimistic - we're always here to listen

Almost - I'm sorry to read about DH's sperm analysis and that you might need IVF but that is a great step forward and now you can get started and before you know it your journey will be over and you will have your baby in your ams. When I was in hospital after having reuben last week, there was a lady in the bed opposite who had just had her 3rd baby via IVF - and she and her DH were in their 40s! She said it worked first time all 3 times and they were already looking towards using it again for a 4th - and having fun trying naturally in the mean-time! you are both very young and healthy and the best thing is that you are in tip top shape and everything with you is great - it's going to be successful - and thats if you dont fall pregnant naturally before-hand - which usually happens!! Keep us posted

xx

 

[almosthere]

aaaahhh rueben leo george!! what a beautiful baby boy and I love his name too! Thank you so much for the story it truly touches me heart....as I want 3 babies!!

afm spotted 4/5dpo after dtd last night ughh....and dh second s.a. results come in prob monday but we both work all day and do not want to be upset by a negative call soooo I will get the results tuesday hopefully!