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[Soniamillie01]

Sorry to hear that AF has arrived hun. We really took a relaxed approach this month, well I did. We bd'd cycle day 12 and 13, positive OPK cd15 and then bd'd 17,18,19,20 and I thought we were out to be honest.

Good luck for this cycle hun, I am keeping everything crossed for you x

 

[Emz1982_in_uk]

Sorry the got you Elz. Lots of for next cycle x

 

[MissBroody]

I haven't checked in here for a while. Wahooooo Sonia!!!! sooo happy for you!!

Huge fx for you Almost!! I have a good feeling!

Sorry the blasted witch got you Elz - tons and tons of baby dust for the next cycle.

I can't believe how quickly the pregnancies in here are going! I'll be 29 weeks sunday - eek! We had a 4D scan a couple of weeks ago and baby is great. My biggest boy turned 2 yesterday and we're having a little party for him tomorrow.

Is SMP only 135 a week? Boo. My company gives 12 weeks at 90 per cent pay then I'll be on SMP fo the remaining 3 months - only taking 6 months off... eeek, not looking fowad to that slash in money.

Take care everyone and have a great weekend. I hope to see more good news next time I check in

xx

 

[Soniamillie01]

Sounds about right Miss Broody! I don't get any extra, just the 6 weeks at 90% and the £135 for the remaining time off. I'll be back to work after 6 months as we won't be able to afford for me not to. Sucks but that's life.

Have a great party and thanks for the congrats x

 

[almosthere]

sry your out elz....AFM checked my cervical and had dark pink/brown CM....always happens close to af...so considering myself out...bummming me out today big time =(

and wow, 29 week scans going on already? CRAZY!

I agree to wait to tell your work your preg. sonia-y not right? =)

 

[Soniamillie01]

Sorry that she seems to be on her way, could it be implantation? I counted myself out completely when I had mine as thought was AF and also was a lot more than what I thought IB would be x

 

[almosthere]

well it was a tiny bit-i am honestly not sure to know what to think about my spotting. I have learned that it is due to blood just simply being there around/on my cervix, so when touched by either DH's penis (during sex of course) or by my finger (when I check my CM) I get blood. So I am not sure if this is due to af coming or just to to an increased flow in blood during my tww.....as I had it about 6 days ago after dtd. I just have to wait and see!!! I am just wondering what the 4 days of painful constant cramps was all about if not pregnancy related...hmmm

 

[Soniamillie01]

It still sounds as though you have a chance hun, especially of no AF and had cramping like you said. Every thing crossed for you.

It's really weird, I keep expecting AF to show up! We've just got back from two nights away and am glad to be in my own bed! I have been with my Mum this afternoon and have this real need to be with her at the moment x

 

[almosthere]

aw, have you told her about your pregnancy yet? Omgsh I just got so excited talking to you about you being pregnant, still soo happyy for you!!!

And AF is not due to arrive until Tuesday giving myself a 14 day lp although could come by tomorrow....really hope this is my time, and not testing anymore!!! lol

 

[Soniamillie01]

Ah thanks hun, I really hope this is your month or next month as really want to share it with you as we've been so insinc cycle wise to date.

Yes, I've told her, when I did the digi I called her and said 'what are you doing on January 4?' she said 'oh I don't know, I don't even know what I'm doing this weekend let alone in January' my response was 'well you better keep it free . . . Nanny' she went crazy, screaming, shouting and crying down the phone. It then goes all quite and the checkout girl comes on the phone and says 'she'll call you back, she's hysterical'! She was in the middle of Tesco's shopping! Ha ha!

I've also told my step mum who I am very close with, and she cried too! We found out on the day of her birthday - they live quite a way from us so I called her to wish her a happy birthday and said I've got a present here for you but can't send it for a while, she said ok (a little bemused as to why) and said ok well I'll pick it up when we're down in June, I said well you can't really do that because he or she is in my tummy.

I had wanted to do something special but it felt right and special in there own way. We haven't told many people - mainly our parents and a handful of friends who we are close to, the test will be this evening as we are over my mums for dinner and some other family members will be there, going to try and keep ssshh but doubtful!

 

[Jembug]

That bought a tear to my eye! Let Alone your mum and step mum
I'm ttc now
Even though it was months ago this thread was started and I've not commented much... So nice to see you ladies pregnant! And hopefully I will be joining you all as well as the other in the thread too x

 

[almosthere]

aw what a great story sonia!! feel like af is on her way-I guess the one good thing about taking one extra month to get pregnant is that I will be able to work 6 months at my new job (if I get hired this coming week) which would mean 6.5 month of paid materinity leave...I will def. believe everything happens for a reason if I get pregnant next month!!! lol

 

[Emz1982_in_uk]

Awwww Sonia that's so sweet

Good luck Jembug x

 

[Soniamillie01]

Thanks ladies.

Good luck Jembug, I hope we hear some good news soon.

Almost - I agree with you there, it will happen when it's meant to.

Xx

 

[shradha]

Almosthere- I guess what ever happens ..happens for the best......mayb next month is yours and then you could get 6 months of paid leave from your job.....

Sonia - congrats once again..so how are you doing????

Jembug- hopefully i too would be join in with you all.........fingers crossed....

 

[almosthere]

eeek jembug when do you test?? and shrada when are you up to test as well?

afm no AF....due tuesday tho.......when i checked cm and told you ladies there was redish brown yesterday am...well last night it was brown and cummy-lots-very weird....but anywho still doubt it was ib and waiting for af....at least i can start a fresh cycle soon!

 

[Soniamillie01]

Still holding on for you hun. X

I felt really rough this afternoon, I was fine this morning, actually felt really good. I got up and done the house work, went for a swim and then hit Tesco with DH. It all started at that point, I was ratty, irritable and couldn't wait to get home. We get home and I burst into tears because dh couldn't fix the kitchen cupboard door. I then met my mum in town and came home and have been in bed since - I am shattered!

I've been getting pain in my right hand side this afternoon, nothing too major and not all the time, if it gets worse or becomes more frequent I'll think about getting some advice.

I'm back to work tomorrow after a week off mum brought me some nice trousers (with some room to grow) and a dress today which cheered me up x

 

[Jembug]

Af is due on 27th at the latest! So ages away! Think I should ovulate around the middle of next week.

I remember those pains/twinges, I was always checking my underwear, it's such a horrible stage!

How your not testing almost I dint know! Fingers and toes crossed xx

 

[Soniamillie01]

I must say I am really nervous Jembug, the pain is like a mild shooting pain that comes and goes, in same spot (well near enough) to where I have been cramping. Hope it's nothing more than more cramping / implanting. I am a little worried and want to check all the time

 

[Emz1982_in_uk]

I remember with Kai I had a constant shooting pain in my right side one night. I even rang NHS direct but of course it turned out to be just strecthing pains etc. Unfortunately you will get a lot of weird uncomfortable feelings in this early stage and it is worrying. Try not to stress too much unless you have bad cramping or blood, when of course you should contact your early pregnancy unit. Bleeding does not always mean something bad. I also bled with Kai x