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[Soniamillie01]

Thanks hun. That's reassuring to know, I haven't had it now for about 15 mins and as I said it is on off. No other pain, so hoping it's stretching like you say x

 

[almosthere]

hope its just bean getting cozy sonia-afm pretty sure af is on its way had brown spotting on panties tonight, ughh just want af to come and go asap...

starting to think I had a chemical pregnancy b.c of my early bfp ='(

 

[Soniamillie01]

I do too hun. I've been chatting to a couple of other ladies who are early days like me and they are having the same, so that's reassuring.

Hope she comes and goes quickly if she is coming x

 

[almosthere]

thanks had some very minimal, but there, brown spotting tonight, so any day now thank gosh lets get this done and over with!! haha

 

[PreshFest]

GL Almost... So hoping it was IB!!

 

[Jembug]

Fingers crossed almost!

Presh are you due to test? It's so hard not to obsess though! I'm not due to ovulate yet but I'm still on here looking at all the threads! Ha

Sonia I had bleeding in my pregnancy and it was fine! I had bright red bleeding after sex so I was a bit put off after that!

And with my miscarriage I had at ten weeks I had bleeding first with no pain at all! So strange. I do remember bending over in agony with my last pregnant and I said I would have put a million pound on the lottery that I was having another miscarriage! But it was fine! Xxx

 

[Soniamillie01]

Hi ladies

I have had a very odd day!

The pains I was experiencing last night had got much stronger today, plus some dull shoulder pain (not tip, more under the blade). I called the EPU and they referred me to A&E. Went through A&E to EPU and had an internal scan. They cannot tell me much as too early (4 + 3) but did say my endometrium is thickened and smooth plus there is a discernible echo free structure - which the sonographer thinks could be the sac but couldn't confirm as too small. She couldn't find my ovaries or tubes but found the main veins / arteries.*

She did say that if it was a sac it looked like it was in the right place but couldn't rule out an ectopic.

I've since had bloods done and am
waiting on results, I think for hormones and HGC levels. Have also since seen the on call consultant who had done an internal examination, plus taken some swabs. She did say I had some redness but was perhaps from the earlier internal scan or recent smear. No bleeding and no free fluid on uterus.

I'm now waiting on bloods so they can compare HGC to scan. The consultant suggested I might be admitted which I wasn't expecting as all.

My blood pressure was high when admitted, ok now. Also pulse was high at 108 when admitted, now 89. Temp was also high 37.9, now 36.7

I feel ok, other than this on off shooting pain and dull shoulder ache. Internal scan was inconclusive. I'm trying to remain optimistic that sonographer said that if the echo free structure is the sac it looks like it is in the right place.*

Just waiting now! Will update as I know more. Hoping I haven't overreacted but thought better to check than not.

Sonia*

Sent from my iPhone

 

[Emz1982_in_uk]

Ahhhh Sonia. Sorry to hear all this. I'm sure bean is just fine and in the right place. Funnily enough I also had shoulder pain with my shooting pain which was the reason for my call to nhs direct. They did say go to a and e (it was evening) but I didn't fancy a six hour wait to he told to come back the next day. So I went to bed and felt better the next day so never followed it up.

Are you still in pain? X

 

[Soniamillie01]

Not really, it's more on off then all the time. My tummy hurts but I am hoping that's from all the prodding!

 

[Jembug]

Fingers crossed, all sounds positive xx

 

[miss malteser]

Try not to worry Sonia. I know I´ve mentioned it before but I had period type pains every day for the first couple of months. some days they were just dull aches but other days they were really strong and took my breath away. I guess it was just stretching as everything is still ok with LO. Although I don´t get those pains anymore I still get random pains every now and again including one on Saturday to the left of my belly button which left me unable to breath or move! It felt like someone was tearing my muscles apart! It went after 5 minutes and although I am still tender LO is still extremely active so I just assume it´s all the stretching going on!

I´m sure that´s just what´s going on with you! Who knows, maybe there´s lots of extra stretching going on because there´s more than one in there!!!

 

[mazndave]

Think positive Sonia, the odds of everything being absolutely fine are much greater than those that something is wrong - they're in your favour!

I had plenty of worrying pains, worse than any period pains I'd ever had. I also had that bright red bleed which scared the life out of me and made me think it was all over. It made my bp and heartrate higher as I was worried and stressing - perhaps this could be one of the reasons yours are up?

Keep us updated, we are all keeping our fingers crossed that everything is ok, and I'm sure it will be

xx

 

[Emz1982_in_uk]

I'm still getting random pains now

Stay positive hun like the others say x

 

[PreshFest]

Sonia, from what I know, you really shouldn't be feeling any pain this early on if it is ectopic. And your shoulder would only hurt because your tube ruptured and your abdomen was filling with blood.... So I'm going to assume its a coincidence! I'm sure everything is fine. I really hope so anyway!!!

And Almost... I'm still pulling for you! Any updates??

AFM - 8dpo. Testing at 10dpo on Wednesday. I really can't tell one way or the other whether I am or not. I do feel like crap and have been very out of it lately, but I haven't been sleeping well, so that's probably why. I've succeeded in not obsessing this month! YAY!

 

[Soniamillie01]

Thanks ladies, your advice is very reassuringx
They've decided to keep me in for observations as my stats are high, also static, and do not want to risk sending me home in case it is ectopic. The consultant said there is definitely something in my uterus but they cannot tell what as it is too small, but it is in my uterus - they couldn't see my ovaries or tubes on the scan though (is that odd? She did say it's sometimes common in larger ladies).

The consultant seemed more worried about the pain in my shoulder than tummy as I guess like you said presh, there is no bleeding and no fluid in abdomen. She did say that they may consider putting a camera in tomorrow to see what is going on and also identify what is causing the pain.

I don't like hospitals at the best of times but this one isn't very nice.
But guess I'm in the best place and am glad I called and am being checked out.

Thank you all for your advise and support as always x

 

[Emz1982_in_uk]

Oh bless you. Thank god for smart phones to keep us occupied. I'd go mad in there without my iPhone. Keep us updated. We are all rooting for you x

Good luck Presh x

 

[almosthere]

aw, sure you are fine sonia-sorry to hear about all this pain and worry!

afm I believe I may have had a chemical...af started last night before bed, had a real good cry as I thought I was preg. from my 3 pink lines....then had to say goodbye to my first preschool class and balled some more...so very emotional two days....cd2....really hoping this is it for me...dh and I are debating if we should start some more tests if my FS will do them...FX for you two ladies testing soon, yay!

 

[Emz1982_in_uk]

Sorry to hear that Almost

 

[Jembug]

Keep us updated sonia xx

Sorry to read that Almost..... Your probably be testing around the same time as me this month...27th? Maybe it's our lucky month

Good Presh
Xx

 

[shradha]

Today I couldnt take the suspense any longer and went for it...... negative.................11 dpo.....i know I should have waited for few more days......but i guess its fine.....will take a test on 6th may....hopefully i get something positive......All the symptoms have vanished in the thin air....