-x- Becoming Mrs O'Sullivan 11.02.17 -x-

[smileyfaces]

Lovely! Mine were very bog standard haha. I didn't give any venue or hotel details until the invitations went out!

 

[Charlotteee]

I've only put hotel details on so people can ring and book rooms. It seems the weekend we get married is the closest to valentines so a lot of rooms are being booked for that reason xxx

 

[smileyfaces]

Good thinking! I might go back for a night on our wedding anniversary just for the breakfast (amazeeeeee)

 

[Charlotteee]

So a lot of stuff happened yesterday. My sister has posted my mum a 16 page letter slating each and everyone of us, we have all been blocked on facebook and she wants nothing more to do with us. She’s married now and doesn’t need us. So now I am a bridesmaid down as my niece has also blocked me and she was a bridesmaid. I’m not too bothered I just now have a spare bridesmaid dress and no bridesmaid!! Its not even like I can ask anyone else as then it does look like I’m only asking because I’ve lost one lol xx

 

[smileyfaces]

Oh my god lol what happened to make your sister behave like that?!

Sell the dress on fb wedding pages. I had one random China bridesmaid dress (that I'd ordered as a sample) and someone bought it straight away

 

[Charlotteee]

Lots happened. She thinks everyone is out to get her. Always has been like that. She has said she doesn't like my OH because he told all the kids including Jenson to stop splashing water all over our kitchen.

So that's now 6 people less at the wedding. Blocked on facebook and she wants nothing to do with us xx

 

[CRWx]

What a palaver, sorry that's happened though lovely

 

[Geebug x]

Flog the dress girlie - f*ck um!
xx

 

[smileyfaces]

Sounds very petty. At least you know now though and not closer to the time when you have given your final numbers!!

 

[Charlotteee]

Well we have finished our final day guest list and final version of save the dates have been sent off to be printed. Only being charged a tenner for printing from works stationery company, i've just given him my card and sent the publisher file over.

So excited to get them back and send them out xx

 

[kbwebb]

how exciting! x

 

[smileyfaces]

Yay!

 

[Stevensmummyx]

Stalking

 

[Charlotteee]

:wave:

Had a bombshell dropped on us last night. OHs parents normally have Jenson three days a week and he goes to nursery two days a week.

They have decided that he is too much and no longer want to watch him which means we now have to put him into full time nursery so now I’m panicking on how we are going to pay for the wedding. We will manage we always do but I just hate being dropped in the shit.

I'm very grateful for them having him all this time so I have been able to work but i'm a little hurt that his own grandparents don't want him anymore. He's just a normal little boy. Boisterous, loud and mischievous!! xx

 

[smileyfaces]

Ah man that's rubbish is there any other family that could help even for one day a week? Do you get tax credits? Nursery is so expensive isn't it!

 

[Charlotteee]

No other family, only my sister who is on maternity leave but she doesn't know if she is going back part time or not at all so I don't want to wait until she has decided and then Jenson's nursery not have space for full time.

We don't get tax credits we have worked out with doing the childcare voucher scheme and the free 15 hours that it's likely to cost us around £300 a month to put him in full time. I hope i've worked that out correctly lol!! xx

 

[kbwebb]

Sorry they've changed their minds about looking after him the only reason I haven't found a job yet is because we have no family to help out, and we don't get her 15 hours till September. it's so expensive isn't it

 

[smileyfaces]

It will be more in the holidays though won't it when he doesn't get his 15hrs! Such a pain!

 

[Charlotteee]

Well his nursery actually shuts in the holidays anyway so my sister has offered to help out this year in the holidays until she decides if she is going back to work so the 6 week holidays will be a massive help with her having him.

It's just next year but we will have to split it between me and OH taking time off work I think, or maybe Jenson will be a lot older so he may have calmed down enough for in laws to have him just in the holidays.

We'll cross that bridge when we get too it

Fed up today now lol xx

 

[Charlotteee]

On another note, going for dress measurements on the 7th so they can order dress. I wanted to shift some weight before ordering but alas I have gained since picking the dress so screw it, it needs ordering before it's too late xxx