I don't know what to do anymore. What we're doing really works for "us." However, when other people get involved, Rich, mum, whoever, it gets all crook-ed. I mean, normally we just spend the day together and the only part of our routine that always sticks completely is her bath. She will be on my boob as and when she wants (still working on giving up, not quite ready yet. seriously 4 and half months, go me!) and then have 4 bottles of which I make up 8oz but she only ever drinks 4-6. Normally 4. I love spending all day every day with her but I can't do it anymore. I need a day to myslef but I am so worried about what would happen to our non-routine, routine! Maybe I should lighten up a bit huh?