Your Friends & Family

[Laura2919]

Do you have a good support unit behind you?

I count myself lucky, I have my mum, dad, brother, sister, SIL, BIL... and my friends.

They have all been supportive to me. I couldnt imagine going it alone without them.


What about you?

 

[Rhio92]

I have my mum, and her family. I have my dad too, but he's not much use, my step mum won't let him be supportive
But yeah, I'm dead lucky, I get loads of support, don't think I'd cope alone!

 

[xSophieBx]

I have my mum & dad & sister which are my rocks. I live with my mum & stay with my dad alot and they both always help me out ALOT... I'm lucky to have them. Friend support is rubbish though...

 

[Ginger84]

I consider myself very lucky to have a very supportive family, mum, dad and 2 sisters, amazing friends and work colleages.

Its amazing how everyone steps up when the going gets tough, dont think i would be where i am right now, physically and emotionally, without their support.

x

 

[Laura2919]

I have 3 friends who have been amazing to me over the last few weeks... I have two best friends, Xyan and Cassie and then I have another friend he is a bloke and its good to talk to someone who can explain things from another side.

My sister knows more about me now than she knew in my whole 24 year existance. She was so out of touch lol. My sister is 31 this year.

 

[jessrabbit]

My family, but my friends are slowly disappearing as time goes on, which I kind of expected x

 

[moomin_troll]

my family help when it suits them.
i can go weeks without hearing from them, luckly my mums feeling the need to help atm. im so ill so shes had zane for afew nights at hers while i try to get better...not exactly easy when ive got a 2 month old strapped to my chest haha

 

[tina_h75]

I have my brother, my mil ( even though my cheating ex is currently living on her sofa, but I suppose she is stuck in the middle ) and I have a couple of good friends.

Its early days for me so everyone has been offering their support but think in a very short while there will only be 1 or 2 people who I can really rely on.

 

[Laura2919]

Yeah I found there was loads of people who offered their help but really only to find out the gossip, once they got what they wanted they never bothered. I know who I can rely on though so I dont care.

 

[Mally01]

I have great parents who let me move back in with them after my split and they are really excited about the baby. Mum keeps knitting booties, hats and cardigans and is being my 'baby co-ordinator'. Not sure what I would do without her, she is my rock.

 

[stevon111]

I have my family around me right from the start when i got cheated on to be fair.. i dont have friends (well not many at all) but my mum dad and sister and brother have always been there for me and my mother is a christian and goes to church etc and ive never had such support from anyone with faye when i have her (my mother keeps me right and thats the way i like it)
fair enough im very picky about things to do with faye becouse i have total different ways of bringing her up to what my xgf does but i do things in the best way i can for faye

 

[babybambi2011]

i have apsolutely no-one. my nan, grandad and aunties n uncle are around, but my mum lives abroad. i have no friends, apsolutely no-one, and im starting to lose my identity now... im just lilys mum... do the same thing everyday.... no one to talk to, no company..... fuck all!

 

[tina_h75]

i have apsolutely no-one. my nan, grandad and aunties n uncle are around, but my mum lives abroad. i have no friends, apsolutely no-one, and im starting to lose my identity now... im just lilys mum... do the same thing everyday.... no one to talk to, no company..... fuck all!

Well we are all here for you. Where about in Birmingham are you? thats where I am. x

 

[Laura2919]

i have apsolutely no-one. my nan, grandad and aunties n uncle are around, but my mum lives abroad. i have no friends, apsolutely no-one, and im starting to lose my identity now... im just lilys mum... do the same thing everyday.... no one to talk to, no company..... fuck all!

There are a few ladies here from Birmingham. Hopefully not too far and maybe you could meet.
Is there no mum and baby group near you?

 

[moomin_troll]

im just up up the road from brum in stafford

i lost bascialy all my mates when i got pregnant with zane, and my family are only around when it suits them. im moving end of the week so hopefuly ile get on with my new neighbours and make some friends...im sick of being a loner