Beccaboop
Mummy to Jacob
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Yeah I get that too even tho we are both 25 and married and saving for a house and are going to start TTC when we have moved into our own home but for some reason his mum (and others but mostly her) still thinks we are still young and should 'live a little' first but we arnt going to stop living when we have a baby!! I heard the same things a lot when we were planning the wedding too!!
It's so annoying!!
My parents are opposite. My parents WANT me to have a baby ASAP! I have a big blended family, and my dad only has one grandchild. He said he wants me to have one as soon as possible so he has another baby to play with, lol. My mom isnt the mother of my sister who has the baby (dad was married before my mom, and my mom and dad are also divorced) so my mom doesnt have any grandchildren yet. My husband wasnt sure about kids at one point and then we talked and he said he agreed that we could NTNP and I called my mom and say "so me and brandon are going to have a baby" meaning we were going to eventually, and she thought I was already pregnant and got super excited, lol. I am happy that my parents are supportive though, I would hate them saying I was too young considering I already get plenty of it from other people. We havent told alot of people that we are NTNP because the people we have told havent really given us positive reactions..so like others here we are just going to tell people when we end up pregnant. My husbands mother is totally on board too. She keeps pestering my husband that we better have a baby soon so she has an even number of grandkids, lol.
It's my husbands mum who doesn't want us to have children yet my mum wants me to she already has 2 grandchild from my brother but she doesnt get to see them very often and she thinks she will get to see my child more as we are closer!
She even asked if she could be in the room when I'm in labour but my husband said he wants it to just be us so I had to tell her no!!