☆April praying for lots of Easter Egg BFPS Testing Group 2022☆

[FTale]

I haven’t no. To be honest with my first two (of course I was a lot younger) I was super lucky and got pregnant straight away. So the spotting never worried me. We are now on the 2nd month. This would be my partners first as well. We are getting married end of May, was so hoping for a BFP by then.

I know the feeling of wanting it to just happen now. I forget what age they say it can become difficult to get pregnant but I think genetics plays a lot into it too. Really hope you fall pregnant fast without any help. And Congrats on your upcoming nuptials.

 

[happycupcake]

@wrapunzel congratulations

@Suggerhoney I'm so sorry you’re going through this. It’s not fair at all I wish I could offer you more comfort than a virtual hug

I hope everyone else is doing ok! I have read through but I can’t remember what I have read now

I’m 12dpo today and don’t have a reliable temp because I have barely slept as I kept having panic attacks and then Castiel decided 5:30am was time to wake up, then I had a HUGE panic attack at 6:30am followed by a few minutes sleep to try to catch up before my mum got here and we took the kids to the park so definitely a wonky temp. Wasn’t much different to yesterday but I know I can’t trust it.
For some reason my awful headache that starts at around 10dpo to usually at least halfway though af went today, and I had really diluted pee like I had drink loads early hours of the morning but I hadn’t. My spotting like a light period disappeared and I have had minimal dark brown spotting yesterday and today. Sore boobs have gone but I would expect that. A couple of things out of place for me for my usual cycle but probably means nothing. I did poas today which I didn’t think was anything but a shadow on it, and yes I know ‘don’t look after the time’ but of course why wouldn’t I, and there’s a clear line there. I’m assuming it’s a horrible evap because why wouldn’t I notice it more within the timeframe but if it is, it’s the worst one I think I have seen on a Wondfo strip so far :/

 

[happycupcake]

I don’t know if this will show up on here after uploading, but I think it’s just an evap anyway

 

[Suggerhoney]

@FTale thanks for sharing love I mite see if they have that on Amazon. I’ve been having terrible insomnia lately and wil l try anything to help.

@happyface82
oh love I’m sorry ure feeling out. I think when u know u just know. But sometimes it can take u by surprise. I always fell pregnant very quickly. Even with my almost 3 year old son i had the implant out and fell straight away. I was pretty surprised because I was 39 and apparently fertility drops at 35 a fair bit. It plummets at 40 and plummets again around 42/43. I was 40 when we started ttc our youngest and I did fall quickly but ended in a chemical. I then went on to have another 3 chemicals. But I fell with our youngest on cycle 11 ttc. It’s never ever taken me longer than 3 months in the past so 11 cycles was long for me.
here I am now 42 and fell 2nd month ttc but chemical. This cycle is cycle 3 ttc now. Can see me being here for ages tbh. Hope u get a surprise BFP in a few days love and hope this spotting is implantation.
How old are you if u don’t mind me asking. I’ve been told by a doctor that I can fall at my age but will be a greater risk of miscarriage and may take longer to fall. When I kept having all those chemicals in 2020 my age completely got the blame. Was told from 40 onwards it’s hard to fall but possible but greater risk of downs and stuff like that. I was. 41 when I fell with our youngest. But like I said it took 11 cycles and a lot of heartbreak.

 

[Suggerhoney]

@wrapunzel congratulations

@Suggerhoney I'm so sorry you’re going through this. It’s not fair at all I wish I could offer you more comfort than a virtual hug

I hope everyone else is doing ok! I have read through but I can’t remember what I have read now

I’m 12dpo today and don’t have a reliable temp because I have barely slept as I kept having panic attacks and then Castiel decided 5:30am was time to wake up, then I had a HUGE panic attack at 6:30am followed by a few minutes sleep to try to catch up before my mum got here and we took the kids to the park so definitely a wonky temp. Wasn’t much different to yesterday but I know I can’t trust it.
For some reason my awful headache that starts at around 10dpo to usually at least halfway though af went today, and I had really diluted pee like I had drink loads early hours of the morning but I hadn’t. My spotting like a light period disappeared and I have had minimal dark brown spotting yesterday and today. Sore boobs have gone but I would expect that. A couple of things out of place for me for my usual cycle but probably means nothing. I did poas today which I didn’t think was anything but a shadow on it, and yes I know ‘don’t look after the time’ but of course why wouldn’t I, and there’s a clear line there. I’m assuming it’s a horrible evap because why wouldn’t I notice it more within the timeframe but if it is, it’s the worst one I think I have seen on a Wondfo strip so far :/

Thanks love. Listen I got my rainbow with my youngest and ure still trying since then so don’t feel to bad for me love I feel bad for all you gals that have been trying for ages.
I can see that line on ure test. I really hope u get a late BFP love wud be so happy for you. I’m 42 now so I know my chances are very very slim now and the miscarriage rate sky high.

 

[happycupcake]

@Suggerhoney the fertility specialist told me a similar thing too and I felt very much like he was putting the blame on our losses last year on my age. I found it irritating because there are lots of things that can cause losses, age is ONE possible factor out of many. When I had a load of chemicals between 2016-2018 I discovered, right before we got pregnant with Castiel, that I had a very thin lining after a pelvic scan. I also had a polyp which came out on its own and these can act similarly to an IUD so I was told. Might be worth asking for a pelvic scan if you haven’t had one recently

 

[FTale]

@Suggerhoney wow, I’ve been on these boards too long. I saw your pic and it reminded me of some one else’s but that was years ago. But I wanted you to know that brand comes in a Sleepy formula too. Check it’s ingredients to make sure you are not allergic. I can’t do the oil version due to soy and sesame allergies.

Stay strong through this. I’ve seen you push through and you will again. Not even a little easy but I have faith in you and everyone getting it ago for our rainbows. Big hugs.

 

[Anke82]

AF started today… I cried so much, I am losing my hopes of ever being a mom. I don’t know what to do, I don’t have enough money and strengths to go for IVF…

 

[happycupcake]

@Anke82 I’m sorry

 

[happyface82]

AF started today… I cried so much, I am losing my hopes of ever being a mom. I don’t know what to do, I don’t have enough money and strengths to go for IVF…

I’m so sorry.

 

[happyface82]

@Suggerhoney Im 39. Will be 40 in Dec. It’s the unknown that scares me the most. The what if. I guess it’s the same for all of us. If we had known that few months later we would get our BFP I guess we wouldn’t get so upset. I’m too emotional tonight. Need to get some sleep I think!

 

[Deethehippy]

AF started today… I cried so much, I am losing my hopes of ever being a mom. I don’t know what to do, I don’t have enough money and strengths to go for IVF…

I’m so sorry...I pray that next month brings you joy..don’t give up yet

@happyface82 - you’re still quite young as far as TTC goes, it’ll just take a little bit longer...hang in there. FX for a lucky month soon. Sleep well

 

[FTale]

@Anke82 I am so sorry. Can your RE try iui with gonal or have they done this already. Don’t mean to snoop. Some women need different protocols. Really praying for that special eggy to come along and change your world.

 

[Ellybean]

Does anyone else see a darker line on the one with the white background? Both tests are from the same day. Red background is from am, white background is pm

 

[Bevziibubble]

@Anke82 I'm so sorry

 

[Deethehippy]

Does anyone else see a darker line on the one with the white background? Both tests are from the same day. Red background is from am, white background is pm

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I can only see a line on the white background...I hope it’s the start of your BFP...what DPO are you?

 

[happycupcake]

@Ellybean I can’t tell if that’s an early positive or if it’s an indent


As I thought, that ‘line’ was an evap. CD1 today. Annoyed at those tests because I don’t think I have had an evap on those before.

 

[foxyloxy28]

So sorry @happycupcake

 

[Ellybean]

I can only see a line on the white background...I hope it’s the start of your BFP...what DPO are you?

Like 7dpo. Which makes me think it may be an evap because isn’t it nearly impossible to get a BFP so early?

 

[FTale]

@happycupcake So Sorry. Hugs

@Ellybean It looks like frer’s famous evap line. Sorry, it will come up stronger in a day or two if it’s a solid bfp. Waiting is so hard. Sending you tons of dust.

@happyface82 Hugs. Big hugs.