littlered03
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Hello everyone! I am a first time poster here. I have wanted to find a group of people to talk to online since I have no one in my life who has really gone through anything similar to what my husband and I are going through, but I was hesitant about posting until I knew for sure that we had some major fertility issues.
We have been TTC for 14 months now with no success. We went to the doctor once before because I thought it was me that was having issues, so the doctor put me on BC for a month to regulate my cycle (he thought I might not be ovulating).
Five months later, I have ovulated based on my OPK the two times I have tested and we went to see another doctor who specializes in infertility. We are going through a series of tests as of right now (sperm analysis for my DH, blood work, HSG, ultrasound, and progesterone test for me). So far, all we have done is the sperm analysis because my next cycle has not begun yet.
Today we got the results back from he sperm analysis. They are as follows:
Volume: 5.5 mL (good)
Concentration: 59 million/mL (good)
Mobility: 52% were moving (good)
Morphology: 0% (horrible)
The doctor recommended IUI at this point (knowing nothing about what could be wrong with me), but I just don't see the point in that. I've done a lot of research in the hours since I found out that says that IUI's are pretty pointless with 0% morphology. My DH will get retested in two months and will go see a urologist, but at this point, I would like to get some advice or insight into what others would do.
I'm going to go ahead with my testing. At this point, I figure the news can only get worse but I want to know everything we are facing.
We are both extremely healthy. He is 25. I am 24. No history of anything, so all this is very shocking to us.
No infertility treatments are covered (even drugs, IUI, etc.) by our insurance, so anything we do besides popping some clomid (that won't help his issue as far as I know) will be very costly each cycle.
I am in the camp that we most likely will need IVF if we want to conceive our own biological children. We have student loans that we want to pay off by the time we are 30 and unless our jobs change or some financial miracle happens, coming up with $20,000+ for IVF is not in the cards for us in our 20's if we want to pay off debt.
I'm thinking we shouldn't even try IUI paired with drugs because it's likely just throwing money away. I feel that we should try to conceive naturally while we save up for IVF or adoption (since IVF can take so many cycles to work and I don't want to "throw" - I hate that word since it doesn't make sense here - that money away when we could possibly put it toward adoption which seems to have a higher rate for going through). Does this make sense? What are some other options? Maybe I'm looking at this all wrong. I know we are young, but we have been together for 8 years total, are very mature, and would like 3-5 children. I'm not sure that will happen anymore.
Thank you!
We have been TTC for 14 months now with no success. We went to the doctor once before because I thought it was me that was having issues, so the doctor put me on BC for a month to regulate my cycle (he thought I might not be ovulating).
Five months later, I have ovulated based on my OPK the two times I have tested and we went to see another doctor who specializes in infertility. We are going through a series of tests as of right now (sperm analysis for my DH, blood work, HSG, ultrasound, and progesterone test for me). So far, all we have done is the sperm analysis because my next cycle has not begun yet.
Today we got the results back from he sperm analysis. They are as follows:
Volume: 5.5 mL (good)
Concentration: 59 million/mL (good)
Mobility: 52% were moving (good)
Morphology: 0% (horrible)
The doctor recommended IUI at this point (knowing nothing about what could be wrong with me), but I just don't see the point in that. I've done a lot of research in the hours since I found out that says that IUI's are pretty pointless with 0% morphology. My DH will get retested in two months and will go see a urologist, but at this point, I would like to get some advice or insight into what others would do.
I'm going to go ahead with my testing. At this point, I figure the news can only get worse but I want to know everything we are facing.
We are both extremely healthy. He is 25. I am 24. No history of anything, so all this is very shocking to us.
No infertility treatments are covered (even drugs, IUI, etc.) by our insurance, so anything we do besides popping some clomid (that won't help his issue as far as I know) will be very costly each cycle.
I am in the camp that we most likely will need IVF if we want to conceive our own biological children. We have student loans that we want to pay off by the time we are 30 and unless our jobs change or some financial miracle happens, coming up with $20,000+ for IVF is not in the cards for us in our 20's if we want to pay off debt.
I'm thinking we shouldn't even try IUI paired with drugs because it's likely just throwing money away. I feel that we should try to conceive naturally while we save up for IVF or adoption (since IVF can take so many cycles to work and I don't want to "throw" - I hate that word since it doesn't make sense here - that money away when we could possibly put it toward adoption which seems to have a higher rate for going through). Does this make sense? What are some other options? Maybe I'm looking at this all wrong. I know we are young, but we have been together for 8 years total, are very mature, and would like 3-5 children. I'm not sure that will happen anymore.
Thank you!