I've had the mild tugging/pressure feeling for a few days-and last night it seemed more steady and noticable. Along with the cramping, I had a backache that also spread into the hip area. It is so strange, it totally feels like I am on my period, but it's not due for another week (assuming..irregular). I have no idea what's going on! At least, if I get the BFN I am anticipating on the morning of 10DPO, I will be seeing my Dr. that day so hopefully he can give me more insight. I am truly not expecting a BFP this month, perhaps it's a defense mechanism from all the disappointments in the past.