I am 27 years old, my husband and I have been trying to conceive for nearly 3 years. We have had 7 or 8 failed iui cycles and our first heart breaking failed ivf cycle. My husband has been tested and has a great sperm count and quality. I never in a million years thought that there could be something wrong with me ... simply because I am so young and healthy, my family has always been very fertile, there is no history of having trouble conceiving, my dr never indicated that he thought there was an issue. I did lupron, gonal f, menapure, and ovidryl for this ivf cycle. I went in very confident and left just as confident. They were able to retrieve 12 eggs that looked good. I waited by the phone the following day, to hear WHEN we would transfer the embryos. I received the most shocking news that I was completely floored by, my dr was just as dumb founded. Retrieval was 9/19, when they went to check the embryos on 9/20 they found that all 12 eggs has weak shells and instead of the 1 or 2 sperm that typically penetrate the egg, all 12 of my eggs were penetrated by 100+
My dr and the ivf specialist both said they have never seen this before. The ivf specialist said that occasionally he will see 1 or 2 where this happens but never an entire batch. He said that in addition there were some other abnormalities. Basically he suggested the options going fwd are icsi but he is not confident that the results would be any different than they were this time or a donor egg.
i just am floored. I have never felt so lost and broken. I really do not know how or if i will get past this. I cannot fathom that this is it for us. I am only 27 and I just feel like I cannot accept this as the final answer. I have no completely ruled out the idea of alternate options, donor egg, adoption, etc ... but I just am not ready to through in the towel on using my own eggs.
I feel like I am going crazy, I have surfed the internet and this is the closest information I have found to my situation. I am open to ANY ANY ANY advise, suggestions, ideas, anything ...
We are meeting with our dr sometime this week to talk and I really want to be bale to have something to bring to the table.
I have felt completely lost and hopeless ... and sick however this thread has been the first glimmer of hope I have found! I could not be more happy for all the success stories posted...