11 months TTC both 31 feeling a little down

[tiatammy]

Hi Huni, thanks i went for my test on MOnday blood tests and scan all seemed fine with me, OH goes next monday for blood and SA tests then we have to wait for specialist appointment then after that the ball should start rolling.. so there is hope...

Im so happy that you are so excited and you never know taking your mind off TTC and planning the wedding might just be what you need, ive read so many posts about people getting PG when they 'stop trying' as such!

It will happen for both of us hun!! Where you at with your cylcle now huni?

Big hugs! xx

Hi lucylou, SOOOOOO happy things are looking great for you . yes It will happen we have to be patient is all. I am on cd 9 and OPK is still neg. exspect a poss. around cd 10 to 12, sooo we will see, Doc. says to bed til temp rises temp is still down so we are running a marathon hee hee, wedding plans are coming along nicely. where are you in your cycle? HUGS HUGS FRIENDS

he he what are we like with our bet we drive our OH crazy at times! ha ha

Glad wedding plans are coming alond nicely hun!! Im on CD 8 but as we are going back to clinic on Monday we cant have any as OH cant till after Monday so monday night we will be like you guys so we dont miss our chance !!!

Have you any nice plans for the weekend?

xxx

hi seetie been bedding every 24 hours since cd 5, and i am on cd 11 now and still going. doc says to bed til temp rises, so we will see, I hope it works, how are things with you? hope all is well. HUGS HUGS FRIENDS

Check you out bedding every 24 hours... he he

I thought when your temp rises you then ovulate so are you gonna carry on bedding when it rises? Im good we go for OH to be tested tomorrow then hopefully things will start moving cant wait...

Hi sweetie still bedding hee hee so hope it works this time, on cd 14 going til cd 17, WHAT A MONTH HAAAHAAAA, more bedding than I could of imagined, we have been married for 5 yrs and this has been the most since we said our I do's. If it didnt work than more and likely it will be time for IVF, because april the 11th will be a year since the sergery, and doc. says after a year of actively trying then more than likely it will be time for IVF, so if that is what it takes for me to get my little bunddle of joy then so be it, as long as I have a healthy and strong baby and a healthy strong pregnancy, so we will see what doc. says after this month. hope all is well with you hun. HUGS HUGS FRIENDS

 

[LittleKel]

Hi Hun
I got test results back today and DH is absoulty fine, normal SA. Me too all normal. Blood test is as it should be. Doctor says she can refer me for the dye test and laposcopy but me and DH have decided to jet keep trying untill we get to the 16-18 months ttc mark (if we get there!) and then have further investigation. As I have never had any period trouble, I'm regular like clock work with no heavy bleeding. No bleeds inbetween periods, nothing. So am thinking/hoping we have just been unlucky and it's go

 

[LittleKel]

Hi Hun
I got test results back today and DH is absoulty fine, normal SA. Me too all normal. Blood test is as it should be. Doctor says she can refer me for the dye test and laposcopy but me and DH have decided to just keep trying untill we get to the 16-18 months ttc mark (if we get there!) and then have further investigation. As I have never had any period trouble, I'm regular like clock work with no heavy bleeding. No bleeds inbetween periods, nothing. So am thinking/hoping we have just been unlucky and it's going to take us a bit longer. How knows!! We are just at 12 months ttc so guess we will just keep trying for the next 6 months.
How did your tests go? How are you feeling about it all? How'd have thought this ttc business could be such a mind field!
Lots of luck hun xxx

 

[lucylou7]

Hey Tiatammy...

Wow you are both going look troopers!! ha ha well at least you know you can fall back on the IVF if you are not succesful on your own, with all the bedding you are doing i dont know how you could not be though! ha ha

All is good with us just waiting for our appointment now... we are on CD 16 so we are still bedding every other day you just never know hey only takes one!

Big hugs xxxx

 

[lucylou7]

Hi Hun
I got test results back today and DH is absoulty fine, normal SA. Me too all normal. Blood test is as it should be. Doctor says she can refer me for the dye test and laposcopy but me and DH have decided to just keep trying untill we get to the 16-18 months ttc mark (if we get there!) and then have further investigation. As I have never had any period trouble, I'm regular like clock work with no heavy bleeding. No bleeds inbetween periods, nothing. So am thinking/hoping we have just been unlucky and it's going to take us a bit longer. How knows!! We are just at 12 months ttc so guess we will just keep trying for the next 6 months.
How did your tests go? How are you feeling about it all? How'd have thought this ttc business could be such a mind field!
Lots of luck hun xxx

Hey hun,

Thats brill news! yey for you guys! To be honest it can take over a year even when nothing is wrong, it is frustrating though how some people just seem to fall PG straight away!!

I think you have a really good plan hun, and i think you are being realistic that you are going to try for a little longer then if need be have further investigations...

Im the same as you hun, never had any problems with cycle always as regular as clockwork so it is a little frustrating as we are ready for a !!!

Test went good, OH made me laugh as he had to go go to the hospital and give his sample there and he said it was like a little room like in the 70's and it had a draw and a sticker on the draw that said 'magazines' needless to say he was in and out as OH has OCD so would not touch any thing (sorry if TMI)

Im feeling ok about it all still not convienced that we cant concieve natrually i think it will happen if its by IVF or on our own, i know when we do get PG i will not complain about ANYTHING as we would have worked so hard to get there...

SO are you going to try any thing new in your TTC ? we try to mix things up each month and we are now trying supplements i just think it may only need one thing to change so you never know..

Keep in touch hun!

Lucy xx

 

[tiatammy]

Hey Tiatammy...

Wow you are both going look troopers!! ha ha well at least you know you can fall back on the IVF if you are not succesful on your own, with all the bedding you are doing i dont know how you could not be though! ha ha

All is good with us just waiting for our appointment now... we are on CD 16 so we are still bedding every other day you just never know hey only takes one!

Big hugs xxxx

hey sweetie lucylou7, I do pray this time we did it, on cd 18, and temp is still holding at 98.4, above coverline, been 98.4 for the past 4 days. I do hope this is a good sign. Yes that is what is so great by only needing 1. HUGS HUGS FRIENDS

 

[LittleKel]

Hey Lucy

I feel so much more positive the last few days. It's like the pressure is off. Actually, it's made me realize how obsessed I was getting about it all. I had totally convinced myself something was wrong with me or DH. I feel lighter this week knowing that we are okay. I am a bit of a control freak (DH is the laid back one!) and it's hard when this is something I can't control! But I was getting so worked up leading to the results, I've never felt relief like this.

You must feel similar knowing that whatever happens you are moving closer each day to having a baby. Just think, with a bit of luck u'll be getting your BFP before the end of the year! How exciting!

It's just so frustrating as you say, when friends of ours are PG after only a few months. I totally agree, when it does finally happen, which it will for us both, we will not complain about anything!! I'll be so grateful just to be PG I want to enjoy every little second!

How funny about your DH! That must be awful to have to give the SA at the hospital bless him!

I haven't thought about trying anything new this month actually. What vitamins are u trying? I tried preseeed

 

[LittleKel]

Hey Lucy

I feel so much more positive the last few days. It's like the pressure is off. Actually, it's made me realize how obsessed I was getting about it all. I had totally convinced myself something was wrong with me or DH. I feel lighter this week knowing that we are okay. I am a bit of a control freak (DH is the laid back one!) and it's hard when this is something I can't control! But I was getting so worked up leading to the results, I've never felt relief like this.

You must feel similar knowing that whatever happens you are moving closer each day to having a baby. Just think, with a bit of luck u'll be getting your BFP before the end of the year! How exciting!

It's just so frustrating as you say, when friends of ours are PG after only a few months. I totally agree, when it does finally happen, which it will for us both, we will not complain about anything!! I'll be so grateful just to be PG I want to enjoy every little second!

How funny about your DH! That must be awful to have to give the SA at the hospital bless him!

I haven't thought about trying anything new this month actually. What vitamins are u trying? I tried preseeed for the last 2 months but that hasn't worked! And obviously I've tried temping and OPK's and tried NOT temping and OPK's but no luck!

What cycle day are you now hun?

Xxxx

 

[lucylou7]

Hey Tiatammy...

Wow you are both going look troopers!! ha ha well at least you know you can fall back on the IVF if you are not succesful on your own, with all the bedding you are doing i dont know how you could not be though! ha ha

All is good with us just waiting for our appointment now... we are on CD 16 so we are still bedding every other day you just never know hey only takes one!

Big hugs xxxx

hey sweetie lucylou7, I do pray this time we did it, on cd 18, and temp is still holding at 98.4, above coverline, been 98.4 for the past 4 days. I do hope this is a good sign. Yes that is what is so great by only needing 1. HUGS HUGS FRIENDS

We are now on CD 18 we have not bedded much this month Due to OH having to have tests, so not holding out for much but like you say you olnly need 1?!? Hope you have had a nice weekend, its mothers day over here so lots and lots of monthers day posts on FB so made me a little sad but one day hey!! xx

 

[lucylou7]

Hey Kel,

Glad you are feeling positive huni! thats really good so you can just get lots of practising in until you get your little buddle of Joy!

I know what you mean i am the control freak and my OH is layed back suppose it works that way though...

Yes i am happy we are moving closer to IVF but i still do worry as i always seem to think the worse, so i think what if it does not work but i am really trying to stay positive and you never know we may not even need IFV as we are still trying - i must tell my self SATY POSITIVE!

Yep definatly no complaining from us girls hey ! ha Mothers day today and every post on FB was about mothers day where people were saying how lucky they were i felt like commenting saying yes you really are!!!

I know poor OH he did well though i took him shopping after that put a smile on his face! ha ha

OH is on Wellman and l-arginine think we will find out if they are working when we get resulsts from hospital.. We have not tried preseed what do you think to it?

Im on CD 18 but not had much bedding this month due to OH having tests but it only needs 1 hey... What CD are you on huni? xxx

 

[lucylou7]

Hey tia tammy you ok hun? not heard from you for a while? HOpe every thing is ok xx

 

[tiatammy]

Hey tia tammy you ok hun? not heard from you for a while? HOpe every thing is ok xx

Hi sweetie, doing ok I quess just seem to be running out of steam, I am sooo worried about hubby and I not concieveing yet, I am so wore out in trying soo many different things, trying preseed this month and the diva cup and elevated butt and legs, we will see, how are you honey? HUGS HUGS FRIENDS

 

[lucylou7]

Hey tia tammy you ok hun? not heard from you for a while? HOpe every thing is ok xx

Hi sweetie, doing ok I quess just seem to be running out of steam, I am sooo worried about hubby and I not concieveing yet, I am so wore out in trying soo many different things, trying preseed this month and the diva cup and elevated butt and legs, we will see, how are you honey? HUGS HUGS FRIENDS

We all run out of steam time to time huni but we pick our selves up and carry on Big hugs huni!!

Well i have one lot of clomid left so i thought sod it im gonna try it this month why not hey nothing to loose... so we will see only on cd 2 today so first clomid tablets what cycle day are you on huni

 

[tiatammy]

Hey tia tammy you ok hun? not heard from you for a while? HOpe every thing is ok xx

Hi sweetie, doing ok I quess just seem to be running out of steam, I am sooo worried about hubby and I not concieveing yet, I am so wore out in trying soo many different things, trying preseed this month and the diva cup and elevated butt and legs, we will see, how are you honey? HUGS HUGS FRIENDS

We all run out of steam time to time huni but we pick our selves up and carry on Big hugs huni!!

Well i have one lot of clomid left so i thought sod it im gonna try it this month why not hey nothing to loose... so we will see only on cd 2 today so first clomid tablets what cycle day are you on huni

Hi sweetie praying for your BFP I am on cd 8 and am using preseed and softcups hoping for a BFP this time. hope all is well with you HUGS HUGS FRIENDS

 

[lucylou7]

Hey tia tammy you ok hun? not heard from you for a while? HOpe every thing is ok xx

Hi sweetie, doing ok I quess just seem to be running out of steam, I am sooo worried about hubby and I not concieveing yet, I am so wore out in trying soo many different things, trying preseed this month and the diva cup and elevated butt and legs, we will see, how are you honey? HUGS HUGS FRIENDS

We all run out of steam time to time huni but we pick our selves up and carry on Big hugs huni!!

Well i have one lot of clomid left so i thought sod it im gonna try it this month why not hey nothing to loose... so we will see only on cd 2 today so first clomid tablets what cycle day are you on huni

Hi sweetie praying for your BFP I am on cd 8 and am using preseed and softcups hoping for a BFP this time. hope all is well with you HUGS HUGS FRIENDS

Hey hun,

just checking in to see how are you ? hows things going? Well last day of clomid for me today on CD 6 so we will see what this month brings us hey ? !

Hope the softcups work for you, you will have to let me know what they are like as i have been thinking i may try them too xxx

 

[tiatammy]

Hey tia tammy you ok hun? not heard from you for a while? HOpe every thing is ok xx

Hi sweetie, doing ok I quess just seem to be running out of steam, I am sooo worried about hubby and I not concieveing yet, I am so wore out in trying soo many different things, trying preseed this month and the diva cup and elevated butt and legs, we will see, how are you honey? HUGS HUGS FRIENDS

We all run out of steam time to time huni but we pick our selves up and carry on Big hugs huni!!

Well i have one lot of clomid left so i thought sod it im gonna try it this month why not hey nothing to loose... so we will see only on cd 2 today so first clomid tablets what cycle day are you on huni

Hi sweetie praying for your BFP I am on cd 8 and am using preseed and softcups hoping for a BFP this time. hope all is well with you HUGS HUGS FRIENDS

Hey hun,

just checking in to see how are you ? hows things going? Well last day of clomid for me today on CD 6 so we will see what this month brings us hey ? !

Hope the softcups work for you, you will have to let me know what they are like as i have been thinking i may try them too xxx

Hi sweetie, On cd 18 temp is holding at 98.2 so we will see, hope all is well with you honey HUGS HUGS FRIENDS

 

[lucylou7]

Hi hun

How are you ? where you up to with your cycle any news? Im on CD 18 so waiting now, hopefully should here back from IVF clinic in the next few weeks... im feeling that there is some thing missing in my life we have so much love to give

Are you trying any thing different?

Lucy xx

 

[tiatammy]

Hi hun

How are you ? where you up to with your cycle any news? Im on CD 18 so waiting now, hopefully should here back from IVF clinic in the next few weeks... im feeling that there is some thing missing in my life we have so much love to give

Are you trying any thing different?

Lucy xx

hi sweetie well AF showed up on time on cd 2, hubby went to urologist appt this morning not back yet so dont know what was said, stepson home sick and couldnt go, I do hope it is good news and no bad, been a year the 11th of this month since tubal reversal and still no conception,he went to the urologist due to his morphology issue, but has been on vitamins and pyconogenol for aboit 4 months now so hope there is an improvement, I quess we will see. Hope all is well with you. HUGS HUGS FRIENDS

 

[lucylou7]

Hey huni, how was the news from your urologist ? hope it was good news... as for me AF showed up again, i am loosing all faith that we can ge PG on our own... we have been waiting 7 weeks now for our next 5 more weeks to go until our next fertility apppointment it cant come quick enough!!

We are off on holiday to spain on saturday so that should take my mind of TTC for another week...

Hows you hun? xxx

 

[tiatammy]

Hey huni, how was the news from your urologist ? hope it was good news... as for me AF showed up again, i am loosing all faith that we can ge PG on our own... we have been waiting 7 weeks now for our next 5 more weeks to go until our next fertility apppointment it cant come quick enough!!

We are off on holiday to spain on saturday so that should take my mind of TTC for another week...

Hows you hun? xxx

Hi sweetie I am on cd 13,got a positive OPK on cd 10 and we have been bedding since cd 8 but did not bed on cd12, I hope it wasnt a big mistake, hubby was tired that night, but did bed the next morning. all came back well for hubby from the urologist,but doc. is going to do a scrotum ultrasound on the 21st of May just to clear everything, he says he doesnt exspect to find anything, because all of his labs came back normal, so that is good news ,sooo not sure what the next step is til he gats the ultrasound, but will keep intouch, so sorry about the AF coming once again, but sweetie dont give up it will happen hang in there with me, HUGS HUGS FRIENDS