11 months TTC both 31 feeling a little down

[lucylou7]

Hi Lucy,
I have been ttc for 12 months now. I'm 26 years old and am now on CD3 as the witch recently arrived again
Me and OH have a doctors appointment Monday to get some tests done & see what's happening, just looking for some support as I'm in the same boat as you - 3 close friends announcing pregnancy recently without much trying just getting so frustrated its not us.
Anyway, hope we all get BFP very soon
Love
Kelly

Hey Littlekel... You ok ? Yeah its rubbish aint it
Have you or OH had any tests yet? or is that what your app is for? it does not hurt to bend the truth a little with docs too hun, as some of them can say well try another 6 months and then come back, they just dont understand do they!!!
Yeah 3 of my friends have announced there PG and two of them got PG within the first month!! soooo frustrating any way big hugs!! let me know how your appointment goes good luck huni xxxx

 

[lucylou7]

keep positive, I finally fell pregnant at 31 after almost a year ... now I am almost 34 and going into my 4th cycle ttc no 2 - i just think it takes longer sometimes. GL And GL to the other ladies on your thread

Thanks hun, its been 16 months for us now and so many people we know are getting pg so quick its so frustrating!! hope we get there soon! GL to you too huni pie xxx

 

[lucylou7]

Hey huni glad you are feeling a little better.. You will have to make up for the bedding next month huni!!

Hope your superfood helps hun! You will have to let me know if Pycocogenol works for OH!

We had lots of fun at the casino i won a little but OH won £150 so that was good!

Well we are on CD 15 and positive OPK so we have bedded 10. 13, 14 and maybe tonight seen as its valentines! he he i got some nice flowers what did you get huni!

Big hug
Lucy xx

Hi lucy I hope the superfood works too, I got new wedding rings, red roses. It was a wonderful valentines. I am on the 2ww no symptoms yet so we will see. HUGS HUGS FRIENDS

arghhhhhhh thats nice new wedding rings thats very sweet huni!! Im on CD 20 but not got much hope as i don think we can conceive on our own got letter through about IVF we have to call on CD1 to have all our tests re done as you can imagine OH is not to happy that we have to have them re done again ! ha Hope you have had a good weekend xxx

 

[LittleKel]

Hey Lucylou

Went doctors last night, was actually lucky to get a very understanding female doctor. Has referred me for first lot of blood tests and OH for semen analysis. So in a few weeks we should get the results of those. In meantime just got to keep bd'ing! I ovulate CD10,11,12 and today is CD6.
Anyway how are u getting on? I have decided no temping or opk's this month as finding its all got a bit to much for us at mo. going to try to b more relaxed about the situation!
Hope ur ok huni xxx

 

[lucylou7]

Hey Lucylou

Went doctors last night, was actually lucky to get a very understanding female doctor. Has referred me for first lot of blood tests and OH for semen analysis. So in a few weeks we should get the results of those. In meantime just got to keep bd'ing! I ovulate CD10,11,12 and today is CD6.
Anyway how are u getting on? I have decided no temping or opk's this month as finding its all got a bit to much for us at mo. going to try to b more relaxed about the situation!
Hope ur ok huni xxx

Thats good hun, at least they were understanding... hope OH is not as hard work as mine was at first! ha You will have to keep me posted, when we got OH tested we were first told all was fine and then the third time we were seen we were advised that OH morphology was low it should be 4% and over and OH was 2% so we have now been refferred for IVF not what i was hoping for but there is still (a small chance) we can get PG on our own so still trying... we are on CD 22 so just waiting now... we have to have all our tests re done for IVF clinic oh the joys of TTC...

So have you got to wait till next cycle then go for bloods? I agree we were temping and OPKs i just mix it up a bit each month some times i do some times i dont as i cant be bothered..

Keep us posted huni !

 

[LittleKel]

Hi Hun

At least you are moving forward with things although it must be frustrating having to go through all the tests again. My OH is being so good about it all, he wants a family as much as me, he even made the appointment for this semen analysis himself! Keep going for PG on ur own tho hun as I spoke to a friend of a friend today and it took her 18 cycles to fall. She said her & OH agreed if it went past 18 cycles they would go doc's and that's when it happened - I couldn't b that patient but least it gives us hope!
As I have a 26 day cycle I will get blood test done on cycle day 19 of this one and then the 2nd blood test 1-3 days of next cycle.
How long are your cycles? I'll keep my fingers crossed for this being your month.
I'll keep u posted on how we get on.
Good luck xxx

 

[lucylou7]

hey huni yeah we keep trying.. Oh came round to the idea i think he just got a bit worked up about it but he is ok now about it all.. Yeah once they noticed oh morphology was low it seems to have moved on quick..but not sure how long we have to wait after all tests i have between a 28-30 day cycle i hope this is both our month.. Im sure we will get there might take a little longer but once we get our bfp it will be worth it! Keep us posted on your tests and oh sa hun.. Hope all is good news for you xxx

 

[lucylou7]

Hey huni glad you are feeling a little better.. You will have to make up for the bedding next month huni!!

Hope your superfood helps hun! You will have to let me know if Pycocogenol works for OH!

We had lots of fun at the casino i won a little but OH won £150 so that was good!

Well we are on CD 15 and positive OPK so we have bedded 10. 13, 14 and maybe tonight seen as its valentines! he he i got some nice flowers what did you get huni!

Big hugs

Lucy xx

Hi lucy I hope the superfood works too, I got new wedding rings, red roses. It was a wonderful valentines. I am on the 2ww no symptoms yet so we will see. HUGS HUGS FRIENDS

huni where are you hope your ok huni xxx let me know xxx

 

[tiatammy]

Hey huni glad you are feeling a little better.. You will have to make up for the bedding next month huni!!

Hope your superfood helps hun! You will have to let me know if Pycocogenol works for OH!

We had lots of fun at the casino i won a little but OH won £150 so that was good!

Well we are on CD 15 and positive OPK so we have bedded 10. 13, 14 and maybe tonight seen as its valentines! he he i got some nice flowers what did you get huni!

Big hugs

Lucy xx

Hi lucy I hope the superfood works too, I got new wedding rings, red roses. It was a wonderful valentines. I am on the 2ww no symptoms yet so we will see. HUGS HUGS FRIENDS

huni where are you hope your ok huni xxx let me know xxx

Hi sweetie thankyou for being concerned, been quite busy with wedding plans of renewing of our vows, and taking care of my dad. I am on cd 1 as of today, figured as much not much bedding. hope all is well with you, hugs hugs friends

 

[lucylou7]

glad you are ok, i was starting to worry about you!!! Im on CD2 and off to have all my IVF tests on monday so hoping that will get the ball rolling we are going to keep trying though well as long we can as you have to have safe sex during IVF think we will just be giving it a rest we have had that much! ha ha

So how are the wedding plans coming along? bet it will be lovely renewing your vows!

Big hugs xxx

 

[tiatammy]

glad you are ok, i was starting to worry about you!!! Im on CD2 and off to have all my IVF tests on monday so hoping that will get the ball rolling we are going to keep trying though well as long we can as you have to have safe sex during IVF think we will just be giving it a rest we have had that much! ha ha

So how are the wedding plans coming along? bet it will be lovely renewing your vows!

Big hugs xxx

HI sweetie I do hope things go well for you for the IVF, I will be praying hun, It will happen. The wedding plans are great I am so excited to have a wedding I have always wanted, I am just over joyed as much as I am with us going to have a baby, I am keeping Positive we are going to have our baby I am determined, I am on cd 8 start od fertile period yea. HUGS HUGS FRIENDS

 

[lucylou7]

Hi Huni, thanks i went for my test on MOnday blood tests and scan all seemed fine with me, OH goes next monday for blood and SA tests then we have to wait for specialist appointment then after that the ball should start rolling.. so there is hope...

Im so happy that you are so excited and you never know taking your mind off TTC and planning the wedding might just be what you need, ive read so many posts about people getting PG when they 'stop trying' as such!

It will happen for both of us hun!! Where you at with your cylcle now huni?

Big hugs! xx

 

[tiatammy]

Hi Huni, thanks i went for my test on MOnday blood tests and scan all seemed fine with me, OH goes next monday for blood and SA tests then we have to wait for specialist appointment then after that the ball should start rolling.. so there is hope...

Im so happy that you are so excited and you never know taking your mind off TTC and planning the wedding might just be what you need, ive read so many posts about people getting PG when they 'stop trying' as such!

It will happen for both of us hun!! Where you at with your cylcle now huni?

Big hugs! xx

Hi lucylou, SOOOOOO happy things are looking great for you . yes It will happen we have to be patient is all. I am on cd 9 and OPK is still neg. exspect a poss. around cd 10 to 12, sooo we will see, Doc. says to bed til temp rises temp is still down so we are running a marathon hee hee, wedding plans are coming along nicely. where are you in your cycle? HUGS HUGS FRIENDS

 

[LittleKel]

Hey Lucylou
I had my day 21 blood test done on Monday. Dh has his SA on Friday. Then I have my day 1-3 blood test next Mon/Tue/Wed. Then we will see what the doctor says! I am currently 9DPO but I got very bad cramps and moody today so think AF will be here again soon.
Glad to hear you are moving forward with things. Is there a waiting list for IVF on the NHS or will you have to pay?
Lots of hugs huni x

 

[lucylou7]

Hi Huni, thanks i went for my test on MOnday blood tests and scan all seemed fine with me, OH goes next monday for blood and SA tests then we have to wait for specialist appointment then after that the ball should start rolling.. so there is hope...

Im so happy that you are so excited and you never know taking your mind off TTC and planning the wedding might just be what you need, ive read so many posts about people getting PG when they 'stop trying' as such!

It will happen for both of us hun!! Where you at with your cylcle now huni?

Big hugs! xx

Hi lucylou, SOOOOOO happy things are looking great for you . yes It will happen we have to be patient is all. I am on cd 9 and OPK is still neg. exspect a poss. around cd 10 to 12, sooo we will see, Doc. says to bed til temp rises temp is still down so we are running a marathon hee hee, wedding plans are coming along nicely. where are you in your cycle? HUGS HUGS FRIENDS

he he what are we like with our bet we drive our OH crazy at times! ha ha

Glad wedding plans are coming alond nicely hun!! Im on CD 8 but as we are going back to clinic on Monday we cant have any as OH cant till after Monday so monday night we will be like you guys so we dont miss our chance !!!

Have you any nice plans for the weekend?

xxx

 

[lucylou7]

Hey Lucylou
I had my day 21 blood test done on Monday. Dh has his SA on Friday. Then I have my day 1-3 blood test next Mon/Tue/Wed. Then we will see what the doctor says! I am currently 9DPO but I got very bad cramps and moody today so think AF will be here again soon.
Glad to hear you are moving forward with things. Is there a waiting list for IVF on the NHS or will you have to pay?
Lots of hugs huni x

Hey huni!!

So OH going for SA on Friday, we are going on Monday for OH to have his SA done again, apparently when you get ref for IVF they do all the tests again even though we have had them done twice already....

You will have to keep me posted on what OH numbers are every thing crossed that they are all good for you both hun!!

Hope AF stays away for you hun!! Not really a long waiting list they told us that once all are tests are done (so after monday) there is around a 12 week waiting list to see doc but after that no waiting list so in my mind thats not that long compaired to how long we have been TTC its on the NHS hun so im hoping it works for us xx

Big hugs too huni

Keep in touch xx

 

[tiatammy]

Hi Huni, thanks i went for my test on MOnday blood tests and scan all seemed fine with me, OH goes next monday for blood and SA tests then we have to wait for specialist appointment then after that the ball should start rolling.. so there is hope...

Im so happy that you are so excited and you never know taking your mind off TTC and planning the wedding might just be what you need, ive read so many posts about people getting PG when they 'stop trying' as such!

It will happen for both of us hun!! Where you at with your cylcle now huni?

Big hugs! xx

Hi lucylou, SOOOOOO happy things are looking great for you . yes It will happen we have to be patient is all. I am on cd 9 and OPK is still neg. exspect a poss. around cd 10 to 12, sooo we will see, Doc. says to bed til temp rises temp is still down so we are running a marathon hee hee, wedding plans are coming along nicely. where are you in your cycle? HUGS HUGS FRIENDS

he he what are we like with our bet we drive our OH crazy at times! ha ha

Glad wedding plans are coming alond nicely hun!! Im on CD 8 but as we are going back to clinic on Monday we cant have any as OH cant till after Monday so monday night we will be like you guys so we dont miss our chance !!!

Have you any nice plans for the weekend?

xxx

hi seetie been bedding every 24 hours since cd 5, and i am on cd 11 now and still going. doc says to bed til temp rises, so we will see, I hope it works, how are things with you? hope all is well. HUGS HUGS FRIENDS

 

[LittleKel]

Hey Hun

That's really positive news about your IVF sooo pleased the waiting list is not too long for you - as you say compared to how long we've been ttc what another few months!

My AF is due Monday. Then I'll get bloods done and book our appointment to see GP and get our results at the end of next week. I can't think about anything else at the mo. I don't know how you felt when u and DH had your very first tests done but I'm very anxious to see if one of us has a problem.

Hope your test go okay next week. Keep me posted on your progress!
Hugs Hun xx

 

[lucylou7]

Hey Kel

I know the feeling, it made me a nervous wreck!! as i just wanted to know what things were looking like for us both, the hardest thing for us in a way was the first time they told us OH results were ok... so i was like ok so we are now in the 'un explained' then when we went back again they said OH was low on his morphology.. to be honest i had mixed feelings as i was thinking well at least i know that there is some thing wrong that we could fix but annoyed that they missed this the first time... Now OH is on all the vitimans that he can take to help improve things, so we will see what the results of the next SA come back as... I really hope yours are ok hun!!

Keep me posted! xx

 

[lucylou7]

Hi Huni, thanks i went for my test on MOnday blood tests and scan all seemed fine with me, OH goes next monday for blood and SA tests then we have to wait for specialist appointment then after that the ball should start rolling.. so there is hope...

Im so happy that you are so excited and you never know taking your mind off TTC and planning the wedding might just be what you need, ive read so many posts about people getting PG when they 'stop trying' as such!

It will happen for both of us hun!! Where you at with your cylcle now huni?

Big hugs! xx

Hi lucylou, SOOOOOO happy things are looking great for you . yes It will happen we have to be patient is all. I am on cd 9 and OPK is still neg. exspect a poss. around cd 10 to 12, sooo we will see, Doc. says to bed til temp rises temp is still down so we are running a marathon hee hee, wedding plans are coming along nicely. where are you in your cycle? HUGS HUGS FRIENDS

he he what are we like with our bet we drive our OH crazy at times! ha ha

Glad wedding plans are coming alond nicely hun!! Im on CD 8 but as we are going back to clinic on Monday we cant have any as OH cant till after Monday so monday night we will be like you guys so we dont miss our chance !!!

Have you any nice plans for the weekend?

xxx

hi seetie been bedding every 24 hours since cd 5, and i am on cd 11 now and still going. doc says to bed til temp rises, so we will see, I hope it works, how are things with you? hope all is well. HUGS HUGS FRIENDS

Check you out bedding every 24 hours... he he

I thought when your temp rises you then ovulate so are you gonna carry on bedding when it rises? Im good we go for OH to be tested tomorrow then hopefully things will start moving cant wait...