PrettySweetz3
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So Im having bad cramps after a horrible* day yesterday. .cramps started last night after a HORRIBLE event...im worried about the cramps as Im almost 12 weeks and haven't had ANY cramping....im also here to vent as I can't really tell anyone I know personally what I went thru today...
First off... I lost my job..my manager and I didn't get along..she was one of those im a manager so I cant treat u like shit manager on a power trip on steroids lol and I as someone* who has been a manager and a mature adult wont let ANYONE treat me horribly ....* also was let go a couple of days when they finally noticed my growing belly (i look 5mo pregnant lol i wear maternity pants already)
Then my fiance begged me to let his friend sleep over for the night because he had nowhere to stay and he was leaving early in the morning out of state....well i wasn't feeling well due to my job (how the hell am I gonna find a job?) And my mild morning sickness* (it got better at the middle of my 11 week but still..non stop nausea is crippling)....anyway i let the kid stay with the promise that he will go straight to sleep in my kids room (they werent there as they stayed with their dad)...well in the middle of a movie we hear something BIG fall...my fiance knocks in the room several times and kid didnt answer my fiancesaid he probably took his prescribed sleeping pills and has his headphones on...then we hear another big noise..my fiance gets in the room and locks it behind him...i don't hear anything...had a bad feeling and kept asking what is wrong...my fiance said that nothing was wrong..yeah right..i said open door or um calling the cops..he opens and said kid was just drunk...kid was stiff and blue and turning even more blue..and having like a seizure or something...foam coming out of his mouth...i said Im calling 911 and my fiance begged me not to that he knew what to do..i said hes NOT DRUNK..HE DID DRUGS IN MY HOUSE!!!!! I called 911 and my fiance was mad at me! !!! He yells at me that kid is supposed to go to his parole officer in the am to be put in a program (drug program) and..get this...HAS A FEDERAL WARRANT. I still called 911.. my fiance who is a big boy picked the kid up and put him in the shower. . I didnt want the kid dying and I wanted him out..kid woke up a bit after the cold water.I had cops, firefighters, and emt IN MY HOUSE...so embarrassing....they told him he wasn't getting arrested...but they told me he was because of his warrantm.cops were trying to calm Me down as I was flipping out even on my fiance..they even made my fiance flush the drugs (in my toilet. Only place I get to be alone and where I find peace(...i felt bad but what was I SUPPOSED to do?????? he texted my fiance saying why would I call the cops??? Really????? Are you kidding me??? I let you stay in my house and you're disrespectful ungrateful ass uses my house to get your fix? My fiance still making excuses and doesn't see it my way.....kid is not a bad kid just makes bad decisions and has horrible habits...was I WRONG..i mean my fiance said he would snap out of it in a few which he did....they said it was a drug name K. he sniffed it .he had powder all over his nose...but he also had needle marks!!!!
Then my fiances cousin comes to our house and when she left her car died....they pushed the car and I was steering..my fiance yelling at me the whole time...well we crashed the car into a snow pile..
I got home started CRYING HYSTERICALLY and the cramps started...can someone tell me if its stress . Should I worry..they are better now that in the am. ..thank you for letting vent
By the way my fiance apologized and felt horrible after
First off... I lost my job..my manager and I didn't get along..she was one of those im a manager so I cant treat u like shit manager on a power trip on steroids lol and I as someone* who has been a manager and a mature adult wont let ANYONE treat me horribly ....* also was let go a couple of days when they finally noticed my growing belly (i look 5mo pregnant lol i wear maternity pants already)
Then my fiance begged me to let his friend sleep over for the night because he had nowhere to stay and he was leaving early in the morning out of state....well i wasn't feeling well due to my job (how the hell am I gonna find a job?) And my mild morning sickness* (it got better at the middle of my 11 week but still..non stop nausea is crippling)....anyway i let the kid stay with the promise that he will go straight to sleep in my kids room (they werent there as they stayed with their dad)...well in the middle of a movie we hear something BIG fall...my fiance knocks in the room several times and kid didnt answer my fiancesaid he probably took his prescribed sleeping pills and has his headphones on...then we hear another big noise..my fiance gets in the room and locks it behind him...i don't hear anything...had a bad feeling and kept asking what is wrong...my fiance said that nothing was wrong..yeah right..i said open door or um calling the cops..he opens and said kid was just drunk...kid was stiff and blue and turning even more blue..and having like a seizure or something...foam coming out of his mouth...i said Im calling 911 and my fiance begged me not to that he knew what to do..i said hes NOT DRUNK..HE DID DRUGS IN MY HOUSE!!!!! I called 911 and my fiance was mad at me! !!! He yells at me that kid is supposed to go to his parole officer in the am to be put in a program (drug program) and..get this...HAS A FEDERAL WARRANT. I still called 911.. my fiance who is a big boy picked the kid up and put him in the shower. . I didnt want the kid dying and I wanted him out..kid woke up a bit after the cold water.I had cops, firefighters, and emt IN MY HOUSE...so embarrassing....they told him he wasn't getting arrested...but they told me he was because of his warrantm.cops were trying to calm Me down as I was flipping out even on my fiance..they even made my fiance flush the drugs (in my toilet. Only place I get to be alone and where I find peace(...i felt bad but what was I SUPPOSED to do?????? he texted my fiance saying why would I call the cops??? Really????? Are you kidding me??? I let you stay in my house and you're disrespectful ungrateful ass uses my house to get your fix? My fiance still making excuses and doesn't see it my way.....kid is not a bad kid just makes bad decisions and has horrible habits...was I WRONG..i mean my fiance said he would snap out of it in a few which he did....they said it was a drug name K. he sniffed it .he had powder all over his nose...but he also had needle marks!!!!
Then my fiances cousin comes to our house and when she left her car died....they pushed the car and I was steering..my fiance yelling at me the whole time...well we crashed the car into a snow pile..
I got home started CRYING HYSTERICALLY and the cramps started...can someone tell me if its stress . Should I worry..they are better now that in the am. ..thank you for letting vent
By the way my fiance apologized and felt horrible after