Hey hun. Congrats on the pregnancy!
I would suggest telling your parents as soon as possible. We waited a while with the first and told them all within a week of finding out with the second. It seemed to go over better the second time around.
My OH and I told our parents a few different ways (and since we are pregnant with our second, we've gone through this twice). The first time, the police actually told my mom (really long story), I texted my dad (my parents are divorced), and my OH told his mom who told his dad. My mom just said it wasn't the worst thing in the world to happen and my dad was just kinda shocked. My OH's parents also were really shocked but didn't yell or anything. His dad told us a while later that he was actually really happy about it.
The type of reaction you'd expect from parents (what are you going to do, get an abortion, etc.) came from my grandma, but even she came around in time.
The reactions from the second pregnancy announcement were pretty much the same. We told my mom straight out, I texted my dad again
, we wrote my OH's mom a note, and she told his dad. By now, everyone has come around and are even more excited cuz this will be the first granddaughter on both sides (or son was the first grandchild).
If your parents don't help you out with buying baby stuff, there's lots of different options. If you go to a secondhand store (or something similar) you can get some pretty nice stuff for cheap, private volunteer/donation based places (like Birthright in the US) can help out a lot, and the government can help out too.
I didn't know my boyfriend's parents very well when I got pregnant with Aiden. I just tried spending some more time at his house with him and going to family dinner nights and stuff. Now I'm pretty close to his parents and older and younger sisters.
I hope you can get everything sorted out relatively quickly.
PM me if you ever need to talk!