cheekybint
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Hi all
I just wanted some opinions on this subject.
When my son was 15.5 I asked him to start looking for a part time job, he agreed, and I said I would continue his pocket money for a further 6 months to give him time to find one. His 6 months ended at Christmas, but he'd had no luck finding work. I put this down to the reccession and agreed to continue his pocket money whilst he carried on looking.
Last night, he admitted he wasn't looking, nor did he want to get a part time job!
So I've stopped his pocket money!
He's adamant that he shouldn't have to find a p/t job because none of his friends have one so why should he.
I was bought up to believe that you work for a living, you earn your money and you don't just take from your parents.
I was happy to give him pocket money whilst I thought he was trying to find a job but now he's admitted he doesn't want one/or looking I'm reluctant to give in
What would you do?
I just wanted some opinions on this subject.
When my son was 15.5 I asked him to start looking for a part time job, he agreed, and I said I would continue his pocket money for a further 6 months to give him time to find one. His 6 months ended at Christmas, but he'd had no luck finding work. I put this down to the reccession and agreed to continue his pocket money whilst he carried on looking.
Last night, he admitted he wasn't looking, nor did he want to get a part time job!
So I've stopped his pocket money!
He's adamant that he shouldn't have to find a p/t job because none of his friends have one so why should he.
I was bought up to believe that you work for a living, you earn your money and you don't just take from your parents.
I was happy to give him pocket money whilst I thought he was trying to find a job but now he's admitted he doesn't want one/or looking I'm reluctant to give in
What would you do?