2 yrs TTC - Crazy happenings this month!

[DrgnFly521]

Ok so I have not been here in a long long time. Mainly because after 2 years of TTC, I have pretty much given up.

So, here I am, expecting AF to show up (3 days ago)...however I have had sore bbs now for 8 days, which I usually get a little pinch a day or two before AF and some light spotting, but never several days of bb tenderness that covers both all over and hardly can touch them, and now..according to my calendar, I am 3 days late!
I have about an average 25/26 day cycle and have been pretty true to that for the past year and a half.
So, I really dont understand what is going on! I tested on Monday (my supposed AF date) and got a BFN! Not even a faint line! And I used an EPT.

So I have not tested again simply because I dont want to waste the test just to have AF show up a little later than usual.

But 3 days is ridiculous for me! I mean there are ZERO signs of it coming.
I'm considering testing again tomorrow (Thurs) which would make me 4 days late...but I'm worried about another BFN...then to have AF show.

Anyone else having this problem? Anyone ever have a BFN to later end up with a BFP?? Its VERY irritating!!

Thanks!!

 

[Electricat]

so...did u test?

 

[RainbowBaby13]

depending on when the baby implanted it may take a little longer for the hcg to show up in your urine. not trying to give you false hope but a negative pregnancy test doesnt always mean youre not pregnant. i know people where they have taken a test and it was negative and took about a week or two after af for it to show that they are pregnant. while it can be heca irratating when people are testing days before af and get a instant bfp lol. keeping my fingers cross that you get your bfp. goodluck hun

 

[DrgnFly521]

Well, I havent been on in a week. Been pretty emotional. On the 4th late day, night before I planned to test, AF came in full force without warning.

After 2 years of TTC, I am doubtful it will ever happen. Its been an emotional rollercoaster.
And unfortunately we cannot afford expensive IVF.

Best of luck to everyone and thank you for the support!

 

[Electricat]