babyclements
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If it happened to not have a penis and was a little girl it really would be the icing on the cake! I have two boys who are without doubt my world and I know that if it is another boy I will love him more than anything also. this will be our last baby and I would love to experience a mother and daughter relationship. I have never had this overpowering hope that I would have a girl before. My 14 week scan right after the song technical was looking in between the babies legs she said "her little legs are crossed" and the said " There is her little face" she the asked us at the end if we wanted to know the sex and we said "no" then she said to always remind her that as she didn't want to let it slip. Honestly, I didn't even hear it when she was doing the exam, it wasn't till a week or so later when I was looking at the video of the scan with the audio up that I heard what she had said!!!! My husband is convinced that its a girl now, I am to scared (incase I get my hopes up anymore) to let myself thing pink. What do you ladies think? I know its early, but this lady was my sonogram tech for my last baby and she has been doing this for a very long time. Anyway, thats my situation, I have my scan on wednesday and I am so nervous! I am going to get her to write it down and give it to me so I can open it after I leave as I have my obgyn appointment right after her (in the same office building) and I don't want to be upset if we find out we are loosing out on our chance for a daughter infront of my doc. So wanna wait to open it maybe in car after appointments.
Anyway, sorry for the ramble! I have spoken with my hubby about it and he gets it to a point, I can not speak to anyone else about it as I'm really the only close friend i have with babies (I'm 30 but my friends are just getting married now and not yet in the baby making process) plus I don't think they would understand. Anyone who asks what are you hoping for i find myself saying i honestly don't mind and even lying saying another boy as I am so used to them! Of course healthy baby first and sex is second! Its nice to put it out there and be honest about my feelings.
Anyway, sorry for the ramble! I have spoken with my hubby about it and he gets it to a point, I can not speak to anyone else about it as I'm really the only close friend i have with babies (I'm 30 but my friends are just getting married now and not yet in the baby making process) plus I don't think they would understand. Anyone who asks what are you hoping for i find myself saying i honestly don't mind and even lying saying another boy as I am so used to them! Of course healthy baby first and sex is second! Its nice to put it out there and be honest about my feelings.