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[Jannah K]

Hey Phoenix
Good luck with appt
I hope u have a miracle baby before than!!!
Where are u vacationing to?

 

[Tatemp]

Jannah, very good keeping up with the exercises. I'm trying to do half an hour every day, but it turns into two to three times per week most of the time.

Phoenix did AF show up or are you still in the game?

I'm slowly driving myself insane, the TWW is pure torture. We've bd'ed so much this cycle, that it's impossible we missed the egg. So I'm really hoping nature did it's job. I told my mother we we're TTC after she asked again when we'll give here a grandbaby. She told me it took here a year to conceive me, which actually made me feel a little better, because she always told me she had no problem conceiving me. Now I know it took here a while too. I think the TTC journey for her second child was so much more difficult that here first TTC was a breeze compared to it.

I am now DPO11 according to FF, but personally I think it should be DPO9. Normally I have a 10 day LP. So I am expecting AF to show it's face on tuesday.

 

[Phoenix82]

Hey Girls

Jannah - thx hun. I'm going to Italy - cannot wait!!!!!

Tatemp fingers crossed for you
Sadly the witch did show I'm cd5 today and not trying now until July
I'm done in and sooo down with it all.

My doc said she cannot do anything more so I need to see the gynaecologist. She's positive our issue is that my cycle is irregular we've just missed it a lot.
Hopefully meds will regulate me so we can fall xxx

 

[Jannah K]

Hru all?
I m cd15 todays so will start bd few times a week until next period....not using opk etc
What's up with u all

 

[Phoenix82]

Ohhhh fingers crossed you catch your egg

I'm cd9 but I only know that as my app says so - not trying at the mo so keeping my head down a bit xxxxx

 

[Jannah K]

Hi girls
Just wanna share with someone so messaging here... as u know TTC journey so well and we are in it together
OH wants kids but everyday he is busy with something till midnight and than GE comes to room just wanting to sleep. Since I am not opk we really should bd at least 2-3times a week but seems like that is too much for him.... anyways last night again he wanted to sleep I just had a breakdown ....I mean this shouldnt be my stress each month and begging him to bd. If I didn't want baby so bad I would never ask him on my own....anyways I m super frustrated. If it doesn't happen this month...I will take next month off due to fasting ...in Aug I will most likely get iui done as this is too much headache...
When I was using opk he didn't care about o timing now when I m not using he is asking when I o which I don't know as no clomid either....dunno how ppl keep trying for years...this journey feels so lonely....can't tell anyone how it feels to stare at walls all day....
Rem me in prayers please

 

[Phoenix82]

Hi girls
Just wanna share with someone so messaging here... as u know TTC journey so well and we are in it together
OH wants kids but everyday he is busy with something till midnight and than GE comes to room just wanting to sleep. Since I am not opk we really should bd at least 2-3times a week but seems like that is too much for him.... anyways last night again he wanted to sleep I just had a breakdown ....I mean this shouldnt be my stress each month and begging him to bd. If I didn't want baby so bad I would never ask him on my own....anyways I m super frustrated. If it doesn't happen this month...I will take next month off due to fasting ...in Aug I will most likely get iui done as this is too much headache...
When I was using opk he didn't care about o timing now when I m not using he is asking when I o which I don't know as no clomid either....dunno how ppl keep trying for years...this journey feels so lonely....can't tell anyone how it feels to stare at walls all day....
Rem me in prayers please

Oh sweetie you poor thing
What a nightmare, how has he not worked out that this is what needs to happen. He needs to make time for this if he wants it to happen.

I know exactly how you feel it took a while got my oh to get on board with the plan. Then he stills has days where he isn't up to it.
They really don't have much to do after the deed is done, that's down to us!!!!

I'm not surprised you feel this way at all, I really struggle not being able to discuss it with friends etc but no matter how much I vent on here or to the select few that know I don't feel different.

I'm so fed up hence the mini break. It's probably what you need to feel refreshed.

If only I could help, I feel helpless for me and you xxxx

 

[Jannah K]

I m glad you both are going away...it will certainly help and who knows...miracle baby
I dunno if I can go anywhere alone as OH wants his siblings & parents every time as he finds it boring with just two of us.....
With clomid it was more stressful because it had to be all timed putting more pressure on me...
I hope I can bd some more this month at the right time....!!

 

[Phoenix82]

I m glad you both are going away...it will certainly help and who knows...miracle baby
I dunno if I can go anywhere alone as OH wants his siblings & parents every time as he finds it boring with just two of us.....
With clomid it was more stressful because it had to be all timed putting more pressure on me...
I hope I can bd some more this month at the right time....!!

Well I'm due to ttc this week so won't get a miracle baby but I knew we'd be out this month.
It's our annual holiday.
Oh no he's being rubbish - you guys need time!!!

Good luck bding - keep in touch xxx

 

[Phoenix82]

Hey Jannah

How are you doing?

Tatemp How's things??? Xx

 

[Tatemp]

Hi everyone, so I'm back to square one. I have an appointment with a fertility expert on the 20th of June. We are going to try smep one last month. Just to prove that the reason I'm not getting pregnant is not because I'm missing ovulation.

Are you girls hanging in there?

 

[Phoenix82]

Hi everyone, so I'm back to square one. I have an appointment with a fertility expert on the 20th of June. We are going to try smep one last month. Just to prove that the reason I'm not getting pregnant is not because I'm missing ovulation.

Are you girls hanging in there?

Oh no!!! Big hugs xx


Ohhh 4 days b4 me! Fingers crossed x
Do you ovulate the same time every month?
I'm sure my bc has affected my hormones causing an irregular cycle hence no BFP.

I'm cool, enjoying vino and not bding at the mo (a mini break).
Holiday in 2 weeks then my appointment xxx

 

[Jannah K]

Hey girls
Nothing new with me ...bd 3times last 4days....will bd until next weekend....not using opk so not sure when/if I ovulate....n I guess will see what happens at the end of the cycle
My hubby cousin preggo with second one...she got married 6months after me..got an yr old n now second on way...here I m hoping for miracle before my birthday.....

 

[Phoenix82]

Hey girls
Nothing new with me ...bd 3times last 4days....will bd until next weekend....not using opk so not sure when/if I ovulate....n I guess will see what happens at the end of the cycle
My hubby cousin preggo with second one...she got married 6months after me..got an yr old n now second on way...here I m hoping for miracle before my birthday.....

Fingers crossed huni.

I know it's tough, I've had loads of people get preggo and have the baby while I'm still bloomin trying, it's rough to deal with (even though I'm happy for them). Everyone I've met on here has got their BFP except 2 people so I'm starting to feel like I'll never get there and I'll be the only one left!!

My mum asked how things were and I said we were taking a break, she said ohhhh maybe you'll get preggo now then. I said we weren't even bding and she was shocked!!! (isn't in normal after bding soooo much for the last 12 months that actually I don't want to for a couple of weeks?) don't get me wrong it's not like I've gone off my oh I just think we both need a break from it all and bding is the main part if ttc so it's probably not a bad thing? What do you think? Xxx

 

[Jannah K]

Phoenix I agree with u...once I get preggo I need break from bd....it becomes a chore after few months of ttc...
I guess you, I, Tatemp will all be preggo around same time....at least u both r getting medical help

 

[Phoenix82]

Phoenix I agree with u...once I get preggo I need break from bd....it becomes a chore after few months of ttc...
I guess you, I, Tatemp will all be preggo around same time....at least u both r getting medical help

I'm sure my cycle is totally irregular since coming off bc a year ago.
My cycles are anything from 26 days to 36 so just need something to give us a shot if catching ovulation each month and hopefully that'll do the trick.

I hope we all do, I couldn't bare it if I were the only one left xxx

 

[Tatemp]

Well my cycles are pretty consistent around 24 days and I ovulate between CD13 and CD16. At least that's what my chart says.
I'm so scared I'm going to be diagnosed with unexplained infertility.

Phoenix maybe time away with your OH is just what you need, to remember what bd'ing was like before it became a 'chore'. Don't think about TTC and just enjoy each other. Italy should be just the right venue for that.

 

[Tatemp]

Jannah, it would be so awesome if we all got pregnant around the same time.
I hardly go to the TTC or TWW forums anymore. I get so annoyed when I see women who have only been trying for three months or so, complain that it's taking too long. On the other hand I don't feel like I can go to the LTTTC forums either, because I don't feel I've tried long enough and it wouldn't be fair to the ladies who have been trying for years. So I'm glad we have each other, as it seems were walking on the same path almost.

 

[Phoenix82]

I know your fear Tatemp - me too!!!

I'm enjoying not bding and not stressing

And I KNOW on the other pages!!! Ttc for 2 months why won't it happen REALLY?
Sooo frustrating for us when we have waited ages!!!!

I'm so glad I have you guys xxx

 

[Jannah K]

I know what u girls mean...some of them would have bfp on the first month while others r ttc for years.....
I hope none of us have to go through infertility....I hope n pray God bless us all three with bfp before summer ends
Hang in there girls..we r in it together...I have people telling me to consider adoption and I m like just coz I m married three years doesn't mean we were trying last three years...
Really hoping for a mirAcle this month!!!