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[Phoenix82]

Hey you

I totally understand - you NEED to be relaxed - he doesn't
Smep is purely sperm meets egg plan, everyone uses a slightly diff start date but cd10-11 start bd every 2-3 days until you get a +opk then that day and the next 2 days miss a day and be one last time - you then have double the chance of conceiving - I think it goes from 20% to 40%.

I've been desperate to try but with random ovulation this month is my first month using it.

I was pleased with how my oh was with the baby and I love cuddling them but the next day I always feel like Im missing out.

I'm cd20 or I'm guessing 4dpo as I got a +opk cd16.
I had a bit of brown spotting the day b4 yesterday and then last night cramps and bright pink spotting so I hope we bd at the right time!!

Should you fast if you might be preggo. I don't know how it works.
I REALLY hope it's our month like you I don't want anymore stress and issues.

I also think maybe iui would be a good idea if you have to make oh bd that might be less stressful for you.

Big hugs xxx

 

[Jannah K]

Hey Phoenix
Do u usually get brown sporting etc near o?
I won't fast once I conceived till than I got no excuse not to
I m relax now that bd session over....oh n I spoke about bd every otherday but it didn't happen this cycle due to SA analysis...we will get results soon...
Any. Symptoms yet? Do u temp?
I have hot flashes since weekend & feeling warm...

 

[Phoenix82]

Hey, rarely but never pink!

I have a few symptoms but they could easily be due to AF turning up in a week or 2.
Sore nipples (not painful just v sensitive), twinges in my side/tummy, achy and tired but who knows - I don't think it's my turn even though I'm hopeful,

No I don't temp as I've never gotten on with it, how about you? Do you temp? Any symptoms?

 

[Tatemp]

Hi girls,

I had another ultrasound today. There were no follicles visible, so it's pretty sure that I did not ovulate this month. I will take blood test on Wednesday to confirm this. On CD2 I have to take another blood test to test my hormones.
They are then going to calculate what my chances are to get pregnant on my own, if it's more than 30% I have to try six more months.
I'm not really sure what to hope for. I have that appointment on the 18th of July, so until then I'm in limbo I guess.

 

[Phoenix82]

Oh huni

It's pants being in limbo, can they give you Clomid to make you ovulate? X

 

[Tatemp]

I don't know yet, I still have to get some bloodwork done. On the 18th I have an appointment to discuss what we are going to do next.

 

[Phoenix82]

I don't know yet, I still have to get some bloodwork done. On the 18th I have an appointment to discuss what we are going to do next.

 

[Jannah K]

I called my doc today to see if I need to get cd321 done..they said no since I got +ve opk! it means I did ovulate
No real symptoms yet since fasting so just tired & low in energy
Hope all is well girls

 

[Phoenix82]

Oh that's rubbish!!!!


I'll be honest I'm feeling a lil low - I've got a sore throat and feel like I'm coming down with something. I'm 7dpo and although I'm hopeful, I'm expecting a bfn again and getting AF on Wed. I found a lump under my arm - swollen lymph node I think which I assume is illness (I've had it once before a long time ago and it was in my groin).

Just used to bfn I guess and although I really hope it's my month the tender nipples are subsiding and I just feel like I'm getting sick

 

[Phoenix82]

Hey girls

Feeling v sorry for myself 7dpo and I've felt like AF is coming all day despite only being day 22 of a 28/29 day cycle. I now have pale brown cm and a few niggly aches which I guess is the start of the coming by next wed gutted - I can't see how I'll get a BFP now!

 

[Jannah K]

Hey phoenix
When do u plan to test...I hope & pray this is your month...7dpo your flu like symptoms sounds promising....
I thought some people get +he opk yet they don't o but nurse said tests are very reliable...
So strange thing I had no cm.around +be opk so I used preseed...I started getting cm with white clumps(sorry tmi) yday...my legs are achy ...feels like I had hard core leg work out...I got similar pain last period before and during AF ...are these signs I m o late or they are signs post o? Not sure but we are not gonna bd more...I must 3dpo today...no other symptoms....I had no o cramps either must be something hsg did...
Tatemp you willmost likely go on clomid....I m still waiting for SA results....our next step is iui if I don't conceieve next two cycles ...really want natural route...
Baby dust all

 

[Phoenix82]

Hey Jannah, I don't think I'll test unless AF doesn't show
I thought the same as you about my symptoms but I doubt it, I got all excited when I was walking at lunchtime I had a stitch like ache on my left side (I've had it on and off since 3dpo) now I'm not convinced maybe I'm just getting sick - I now have a headache

I don't always get obvious cm around OPK so don't worry about that. So the clumpy stuff could be good news if it gets thicker and more lotion like but it could be the way your body is gearing up for AF annoyingly they can both be the same type (sorry)

Oh your symptoms sound good - maybe it's your turn!!!

I have everything crossed for you xxxxx

 

[Jannah K]

I m so confuses girls
Last Friday cd17 I got positive
Cd18 negative
Cd22 again +ve with cm and achy leg...is it that i m o late and CD 17 was false reading? I don't think we will bd as oh and I had argument yday and we are not talking....we did be on. Saturday Sunday Monday..I had no o sptoms than
Plz advise

 

[Phoenix82]

Oh no!!! Maybe the first positive was true and maybe you are double ovulating?
Or maybe you tried to ovulate and are now ovulating? Shock OPK do you use?

Oh no! Did you fall out over ttc

 

[Jannah K]

I use FRER first response...usually I test using first urine AM..today due to leg aching and cm I decided to check during day time...how does double ovulation work?
Argument was over invitation for dinner at friend house so hubbies can meet but he just doesn't feel comfortable meeting anyone beside his family. So he is upset since I insisted...
Do u think I need to bd again if I already did last weekend?? Arghhh

 

[Phoenix82]

Oh ok don't know much about how that one works. You always have the hormone in your system - if you are meant to test your first am maybe later the results aren't accurate? What does the instructions say?

So I don't want to get your hopes up but I have read that a positive OPK can point to BFP or be just for no reason.

As I understand it sometimes people release 2 eggs simitaneously - your body doesn't stop the egg from the other side in time - I think it's quite rare In most people but some people always double ovulate.

Oh hun that's pants, but he should meet them, it'll be good for him.

I don't know if I would especially if things aren't rosey it might be too much stress.

I'm cd23/8dpo and my underarm ache has gone, my sore throat is still there but easing off, my head is still fuzzy so I think my bug must be going. Strange thing is it never really arrived full force??? No light brown spotting today so far but it is only 7.45am - 6 days until the witch is due.
I read the other day that some people implant as early as 3dpo not only 6/7!!

 

[Jannah K]

Okay I tested this am and test line is lighter meaning -ve opk....we did manage to bd last night although i felt bad inside as oh was tired From work and fast....hopefully this is it for my month and I o..don't mind double o...lol
My leg pain has been bad.....if I press on my ankle..the pain goes all the way to ovaries suggesting it's related to o....got both legs aching though....ended up putting icy hot patch....
I dunno where to begin counting my cycle....how can nurse say I o if I had +ve opk???next thing is I got another opk+.....so frustrated....feel like I should get blood work for piece of my mind...
SA results not out yet...
How ru feeling?u get brown spotting 6days before af?

 

[Phoenix82]

Okay I tested this am and test line is lighter meaning -ve opk....we did manage to bd last night although i felt bad inside as oh was tired From work and fast....hopefully this is it for my month and I o..don't mind double o...lol
My leg pain has been bad.....if I press on my ankle..the pain goes all the way to ovaries suggesting it's related to o....got both legs aching though....ended up putting icy hot patch....
I dunno where to begin counting my cycle....how can nurse say I o if I had +ve opk???next thing is I got another opk+.....so frustrated....feel like I should get blood work for piece of my mind...
SA results not out yet...
How ru feeling?u get brown spotting 6days before af?

Ok well at lease you know you have bd around poss ovulation, there isn't much else you can do. I'd push for bloodwork and say you have had 2 +OPK which doesn't seem right and see what they say.
You should also mention the leg pain that's not a good thing xx

Give yourself the usual number of days between ovulation and AF (lp) using the first positive you got but keep in mind this date and calculate that too. Then you'll have 2 dates to test?? Does that make sense?

Me arghhhh

I said to the oh maybe it's in my head. I've felt like I'm coming down with something since tues but it doesn't seem to have developed - I still feel tired, headachy, tender nipples (more then usual but nothing major and not all of the time), odd tummy stitch/niggles, mainly in the left hand side and pelvis plus some lower back pain. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't hopeful but I am v conscious it could just be progesterone. Plus this annoying spotting that's on and off!

So I got a +OPK 16&17th day (I always get 2), with brown spotting 1/2dpo, quite a lot of cramps and pink blood 3dpo, the last 3 days v light brown on and off an not a lot and I'm 7/8doo I'm so confused

I know whe AF shows on Wed I'll be devastated!!

I keep sitting in the soon to be nursery and wishing!
One random thing I saw 3 magpies fly in front of my car today doesn't that mean 3 for a girl (I'm not superstitious usually but it felt like it could be a sign) I think I'm going to get sectioned lol xxxx

 

[Jannah K]

Looks like you are having implantation spotting!!your sign looks do promising...
My leg pain better after icy got patch n no other symptoms...oh bday in 9days hope I can surprise him with bfp...no other symptoms....
I left msg for doc office lets see what they say...

 

[Phoenix82]

That's what I'm hoping for but I honestly think AF is tricking me!!!!

I'm glad your leg feels better.
Oh that would be AMAZING! fingers crossed you can

Let me know what the docs say