Before we got pregnant we talked about babies and the topic of circumcision came up. I'm on the side where if it's not medically necessary then why have it done at all. I grew up in a household where everyone wasn't and the first time I saw a man without his foreskin I thought it was accidentally cut off. It shocked me.
I didn't understand why someone would mutilate themselves. Of course, time went on and I became more educated and found it that many people do it for religious/cultural reasons. Also that there was a huge push during the Vietnam war since the men were in a very wet environment they were more apt to getting infections. It became more common as these men came home and wanted their children to look the same. Hospitals started doing it routinely as well. Now we are in a time where people are more educated and find it a more and more appalling procedure for a newborn. I've read stories about mistakes and mishaps as well as issues with aftercare. Many new moms are also pressured into making the decision because everyone in the family had it done so why be different.
The other side was from my husband. He wanted any sons to be circumcised. I being curious, asked why. His answer made me angry but then I went on to educate him and show him what could happen if something went wrong. His main issue was being made fun of while he was a child and young adult. His identical twin had it done but he was untouched. His mother did it to tell them apart. After a full year of talking to him about it he and I stopped talking about it.
Just a few months ago, after we got our positive HPT. I asked him about it. He said we wouldn't have it done because he can't stomach the thought that his decision could harm our baby. It made me happy because I don't want to alter this little perfect being inside of me.
There are pros/cons to anything and everything but for me, I don't see a valid enough reason to inflict pain and to cut off a piece of my child after birth. I will leave that decision up to them when they become an adult.
After saying all of this, I don't judge other parents if they have it done. I just know what is right for me and my little family.
Although, if you ar having misgivings about having it done you should defin speak up to your OH. You will have plenty of people to support your decision whatever it may be.
Also, hoping I did not offend anyone in my semi-rant.