21wks and have to end preg !!!

[Alexas Mommy]

I hope they can do something for you, rather than end the pregnancy.

Oh, and can't you just drink lots, because if I am not mistaken, the water renews constantly so the baby has fresh water... There must be something they can do??? You are in my thoughts.

 

[Rumpskin]

This is awful news sweetheart. I think the girls are right in saying get another opinion.

Thinking of you all xxxx

 

[Aidan's Mummy]

Im so sorry sweetheart.
xx

 

[clairebear]

sorry to hear ur news x

 

[Always&4ever]

I'm so sorry

 

[tillymum]

Oh i'm so sorry hun, don't be pressurised into doing something you don't want to do, thinking of you xx

 

[honeybunch2k7]

IA with Welsh Rose. You may want to consider a 2nd opinion from someone else.

 

[massacubano]

I would not think an abortion of a live child inside you would be an option three weeks or less from viable.

 

[JASMAK]

I am confused...how do they "end a pregnancy" when you are over 20 weeks??? I also would get a 2nd opinion. I would wait.

 

[Sarah88]

 

[WelshRose]

Just wanted to let you know sweetie that you have been in my thoughts constantly since reading this thread. I also just wanted to say that we're all here for you no matter what the outcome babe, you have to do what is right for you and your baby.

I hope you have managed to speak to someone that has been gentle and true and told you the full picture with all options babe. They're doctors hun, not God, and as such sometimes they get it wrong........do what your head and heart is telling you to do, but make sure you come back to us for lots of the hugest squidgiest hugs that only BnB ladies can provide sweets.
As I said I'm here anytime hun, feel free if you want to pm me.

Heaps of sweetheart, take care xxxxx

 

[mrscookie]

fight for your baby, second opinion all the way. I hope everything works out for you, the best of luck to you and your little one.
xxxxxxxxx

 

[Janedoe]

This is so sad. I hope everything works out well for you and your lo. Thinking of you xx

 

[DolceBella]

I'm so sorry to hear your waters went...

 

[soliloquise]

thinking of you and hoping there are alternatives. hope you report back soon xx

 

[Barneyboo]

This is so so very sad! Thinking of you

 

[jms895]

So sorry to hear this hun I dont know what to say xxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[nightkd]

I'd definately get a second opinion. If the baby is healthy at the moment, they shouldn't really be opting to terminate...I'm sure there's something else they can do.

Shouldn't they only push that if the baby is suffering, rather than 'you must do this INCASE this happens'?? I dunno, I just think it sounds a bit odd.



I hope they can do something for you...

xxxxx

 

[turbo_mom]

I think thats bull... I hope you got a second opinion. You are only weeks away from when a baby is "viable" NO that does not always mean the baby will make it and having a preemie is very tough. But I think having the baby stay in the hospital for a few months is better than them telling you you have to terminate a healthy baby. At least if you get to carry on with your prengnancy you are giving your baby a chance at life.
I hope you are doing OK and I hope you made the choice which YOU feel is best. please let us know how it turned out.

 

[luckyme225]