21wks and have to end preg !!!

[Waitingtobump]

So sorry to hear this hun, hope everything turns out well for you ...we all want to give big hugs and I hope to hear all good things when you come back and let us know. Hugs to you!

 

[dan-o]

Oh god, I hope there is something else you can do.
It made me feel sick to my heart reading what you are going through, I'm really sorry this has happened to you.

 

[Snowball]

I'm so so sorry to hear this I lost our baby at 21 weeks in April, if you ever need to talk I am always here

 

[Mamafy]

I echo what everyone has said, get a 2nd opinion or just hold out

They won't give the steroids to boost the babys lungs because with my little girl I was contracting at 23 weeks and they wouldn't give me them until I reached 24 weeks, I'm not sure whether thats to do with legalities or whether the surfactant in the lungs doesn't start until then...I was told but can't remember now.

 

[sam#3]

I am so sorry for your news my thoughts are with you x

 

[sam's mum]

I'm so sorry - I hope you were able to get a second opinion from someone.

Thinking of you x

 

[babymojo]

i'm so sorry!!

 

[kookie]

thinking of you xx

 

[Lou]

I am so very sorry to hear this. I completely agree with the others, please get a 2nd opinion. No one can force you into doing something you dont want to do.

My thoughts are with you.

xxx

 

[Drazic<3]

oh that is terrible. Im so sorry.
All my love and thoughts are with you.

 

[angelsXmummy]

hi girls thanx for all the hugs and support its been allmost 2 weeks since i had to induce my pregnancy i was induced on 20/12/08 and had a lilttle boy in the afternoon he was so beutifull he looked like his big sister when she was born only a lilttle smaller i had him blessed but decided not to name him so he was called baby murray-watts they was so nice at the hospital that day the nurse stayed with me the whole time it must be hard for them aswell i would of thought ive been coping really well holding back the tears but today i had a call from the chaplin telling me when my babys funeral is 9/1/09 i dont know now if i want to go or not i said from the start i dint want to go to it and the hospital said they would deal with it now ive had this call and its made me feel so bad for not wanting to be there but i dint know my baby or even get to hold him and i know if i go to the funeral it wont do me any good and dont think i could get over it for weeks ohhhhh i dont know im off now and will thinking of my lil boy every single day
R.I.P baby murray-watts

 

[Sarah88]

I don't know what to say to help things for you hun.
I can only imagine how hard it must be for you and even then it wouldn't even come close.

 

[Linzi]

I dont know what to say hun, Im so sorry for your loss. I dont know what to say about the funeral either as Ive never been in that position but it might help you to find some peace and closure however hard it might be for you.

Whatever you decide theres always people on here to support you, and I hope you have a good network of people around you too.

Thinking of you and your family

xxx

 

[sam#3]

I am so sorry for your loss and i am sure you will do whats best for you either way.
So sorry again xx

 

[wantababybump]

So sorry for your loss hun, thinking of you. xx

 

[eclipse]

I'm so sorry for your loss. You have to go with what your heart tells you. I don't have anything to say except huge *hugs*

 

[Snowball]

I'm so sorry hun We didn't go to Beau's funeral and at the time I felt a lot of guilt. I know now looking back he'd have known why we had to make that decision.

He is your little baby no matter what and in your heart you will know what's right for you. I'm just so sorry that you are having to go through this hun

 

[ProudMum]

you're in our thoughts.

 

[KKSARAH]

So sorry for your loss hun, Just want to give you a big

Do whats best for you hun, only you will know what that is xxx

 

[Vici]

So sorry to hear your sad sad news, look after each other xxx

RIP little angel xxx