2nd BFN and still no sign of AF-HELP!

[steffa]

Hi there,
Feeling a little defeated now, just after seeing 2nd bfn. I am 11dpo but AF should have come 2 days ago. When I saw this month (1st charting) that my lp was short i started taking Vitex (after O). My temps are still high and there are no signs of AF although my body is talking to me (lower abdomen discomfort, sore nipples). I took test of Sunday which was probably too early anyway but as I had a dip on dpo 7 I thought maybe it wasn´t. I bought one today on way home from work with the intention of testing with fmu tomorrow. But after spending a while in the forum I got a sudden 'I must be!' feeling and took the test. I had been to the loo only an hour before.
I´m driving myself crazy because for me, 2 days late is significant and I have no signs but at the same time the tests are negative. Am I just testing too early??Am I in limbo or am I in the waiting room about to be seen!!
Any advice or stories to get through will be greatly appreciated!

 

[sarahbear731]

i would test again with fmu ... your urine might not have been concentrated enough to pick up on any hcg you may have in your body. good luck, hun!!

 

[baby D]

Def try again ASAP with fmu hun xx Baby dust to you --- as you say, 2 days late is significant so that is a great sign!

For what it's worth I am in the same situation --- AF completely late --- was due 30th ish of June but 2 BFN???

 

[steffa]

I know its a real pain! I´ve been trying to busy myself this evening, went to the gym, painted my nails...trying to do anything to take my mind off it and stay away from b and b!! But now I have work to do so back on line again.
I´m going to try and hold off until friday (said that yesterday!) because it could be just late AF...but I have no symptoms thats what sooo frustrating! Hope you get your bfp...let me know!