3 m/c

[Trying4baby1_]

We have been ttc for 7 months.. I am 21 hubby is 27
I dont even know where to start... I have had 3 mc in just over 6 months... All mc ended right around 5-6 weeks.. So technically they could be called chemical preg. I am seeing a infertility spec. They have done EVERY test in the books and nothing has come back wrong other than a minor blood clotting disorder that wouldnt effect the outcome as early as I have been MC. They have even tested DH and said he was Perfect... I am just confused and wanting to know if anyone else has gone through this and eventually had there BFP and full term preg... Thanks for reading I just needed to vent a little..

 

[hollyw79]

I'm so sorry you've been thru 3.. I've only gone through it once and it's been devastating.

There ARE women on here who have had multiple mc and have carried to term- it IS possible.

Even though everything is showing normal- are you and your DH taking vitamins and such for fertility?? I think EVERYONE should because there is always room for improvement...

I'm really sorry.. have hope~ it's definitely possible!!

 

[bostonblonde]

Hi, thank you for posting this. I'm in the exact same boat, except I just turned 27. We've been trying for under a year, and I too have had 3 mc in 6 months. I am horrified by this. I never in a million years thought something that should be happy, having our first child, would be this punishing on me, both physically and emotionally.

I also went to a fertility specialist for extensive testing, and they found absolutely nothing wrong. They actually thought I had a minor blood clotting disorder at first, but it turned out to be a false alarm.

I'm in otherwise great health and take a prenatal every day. I have always done everything by the book. So it upsets me to see people who don't even care have healthy babies all the time.

They put me on baby aspirin and progesterone in spite of that, just in case it could help. (Have your doctors recommended this?)

Other than that, all I can say is I'm scared to get my again, no matter how much I want it, because I've never had it go right for me. I know one day the odds are in our favor it will go right eventually, but how many more babies do I have to lose to get there? It's so worrying. PM me anytime if you want.

 

[WoodyA]

I was gonna suggest aspirin too xxx

 

[Starbright]

Very sorry for your losses. I hope things work out for you xx

 

[Ruskiegirl]

Sorry for your losses sweetheart. Do you happen to know what your blood type and your husbands blood type are ?? Wondering if mabey rh factor might be an issue ?

 

[Trying4baby1_]

Hi, thank you for posting this. I'm in the exact same boat, except I just turned 27. We've been trying for under a year, and I too have had 3 mc in 6 months. I am horrified by this. I never in a million years thought something that should be happy, having our first child, would be this punishing on me, both physically and emotionally.

I also went to a fertility specialist for extensive testing, and they found absolutely nothing wrong. They actually thought I had a minor blood clotting disorder at first, but it turned out to be a false alarm.

I'm in otherwise great health and take a prenatal every day. I have always done everything by the book. So it upsets me to see people who don't even care have healthy babies all the time.

They put me on baby aspirin and progesterone in spite of that, just in case it could help. (Have your doctors recommended this?)

Other than that, all I can say is I'm scared to get my again, no matter how much I want it, because I've never had it go right for me. I know one day the odds are in our favor it will go right eventually, but how many more babies do I have to lose to get there? It's so worrying. PM me anytime if you want.

Thank you so much for your kind words.. I actually have progesterone but do not take that until i have a positive preg test. and I take the 81mg baby asprin as well once i get the positive preg test... I also take the vitamin once daily. Im still trying every month but im so afraid to get a positive to watch it just disapear like it does. This is just me worrying.

I am a twin and my sister just carried a healthy baby boy to full term and is now 3 months old. So If she can have a baby im hoping i can too.

I did have a surgery last month to remove a SMALL septum in my uterus as well. my doctor said she doubted that the septum had anything to do with the mc but we still removed it to rule it out. so now she said for us to try for a year before we look into IVF. I understand 100% about feeling upset about everyone around you having children.

 

[Trying4baby1_]

Sorry for your losses sweetheart. Do you happen to know what your blood type and your husbands blood type are ?? Wondering if mabey rh factor might be an issue ?

Im O+ and he is either Ab- or ab + what is RH ?

 

[mandy1971]

Hi I'm a bit older 39yo, had 3 early m/c but have hashimotos disease( a pre thyroid condition my thyroid levels are normal, but I have thyroid antibodies that attack my thyroid gland, and there is research that links this antibody activity to early miscarriages.) so I am putting my history of m/c down to this, studies have proved that starting low dose thyroxine tablets cuts the mc risk by half.
Also Natural killer cell activity in the uterus can attack an implanting fetus very early on.
Type in these conditions in the search option to have a look at other womens stories here.
I had my last m/c in Nov 2010, we took a break from ttc until feb as we had some tests done, and we were booked in for IUI currently on our 2nd course,last months didnt work I think as my womb lining wasnt thick enough, but am more hopefull this month as I only started taking the thyroxine in january and my gp is happy with my levels, I am full of hope that we will have a bfp soon that will stick!
Have faith.
Hope this helps.

 

[babyvol]

We have been ttc for 7 months.. I am 21 hubby is 27
I dont even know where to start... I have had 3 mc in just over 6 months... All mc ended right around 5-6 weeks.. So technically they could be called chemical preg. I am seeing a infertility spec. They have done EVERY test in the books and nothing has come back wrong other than a minor blood clotting disorder that wouldnt effect the outcome as early as I have been MC. They have even tested DH and said he was Perfect... I am just confused and wanting to know if anyone else has gone through this and eventually had there BFP and full term preg... Thanks for reading I just needed to vent a little..

Hi - did the DR say anything about doing heparin (blood thinner) injections? I was diagnosed with a "minor blood clotting" issue and my RE has me on baby aspirin and starting at 4dpo I do the progesterone and heparin shots 2x day. My RE said I was very borderline on the blood clotting issue but he felt like this was the right protocol. And he definitely felt like that's what cause my two early MC (both around 6-7 weeks). I'm 9 dpo now - did a beta test yesterday and it was negative so we're probably out this month. But it was only our 1st month trying so I'm not discouraged yet. And the heparin shots are easy - which is big for me b/c I usually faint at needles! I wish you the best - I truly know the pain and frustration early mc can bring.

 

[lauralou25]

please dont lose hope!! i had 3 mcs like you all at 5 weeks had loads of tests all came back clear i ad a break from actually ttc and the first month i went back to using ovulation tests i fell pregnant i was in shock as i had been ttc for nearly 2 years!!! i am nearly 8 weeks and had early scan and saw babys heatbeat this is the furthest i have got so please pease dont lose hope i thought it would never happen and it did!! x

 

[Trying4baby1_]

We have been ttc for 7 months.. I am 21 hubby is 27
I dont even know where to start... I have had 3 mc in just over 6 months... All mc ended right around 5-6 weeks.. So technically they could be called chemical preg. I am seeing a infertility spec. They have done EVERY test in the books and nothing has come back wrong other than a minor blood clotting disorder that wouldnt effect the outcome as early as I have been MC. They have even tested DH and said he was Perfect... I am just confused and wanting to know if anyone else has gone through this and eventually had there BFP and full term preg... Thanks for reading I just needed to vent a little..

Hi - did the DR say anything about doing heparin (blood thinner) injections? I was diagnosed with a "minor blood clotting" issue and my RE has me on baby aspirin and starting at 4dpo I do the progesterone and heparin shots 2x day. My RE said I was very borderline on the blood clotting issue but he felt like this was the right protocol. And he definitely felt like that's what cause my two early MC (both around 6-7 weeks). I'm 9 dpo now - did a beta test yesterday and it was negative so we're probably out this month. But it was only our 1st month trying so I'm not discouraged yet. And the heparin shots are easy - which is big for me b/c I usually faint at needles! I wish you the best - I truly know the pain and frustration early mc can bring.

Im sorry about you mc as well... My Dr said nothing about the shots. She does have me on a baby asprin starting with my first + test. Next time I see her I will ask about the shots you are on and see if i should be on that possibly. Your not out yet still early! praying for a BFP for you!.

 

[Trying4baby1_]

please dont lose hope!! i had 3 mcs like you all at 5 weeks had loads of tests all came back clear i ad a break from actually ttc and the first month i went back to using ovulation tests i fell pregnant i was in shock as i had been ttc for nearly 2 years!!! i am nearly 8 weeks and had early scan and saw babys heatbeat this is the furthest i have got so please pease dont lose hope i thought it would never happen and it did!! x

Thank you so much for your uplifting words. It means so much to me to know miracles do happen I gives me so much hope. I cant imagine being able to hear the heartbeat. I bet that was amazing! Keep me posted and I hope for a healthy 9 months and beautiful baby for you !

 

[dimplesmagee]

Trying for baby- I have had 2 mc in 3 months. I have one healthy boy, so having two mc following a healthy pregnancy has been frustrating. Our last MC we did testing on the fetus and found out we lost another little boy and their was a trisomy 16 error. did they find any chromosome abnormalities with the fetus? From my understanding there is nothing that can be done differently but hope that next time is different. The good news is there is nothing wrong with my husband or I, just things aren't coming together correctly. It's very discouraging, and I'm very sorry for your loss. I hope you will get some answers soon!

 

[Trying4baby1_]

Trying for baby- I have had 2 mc in 3 months. I have one healthy boy, so having two mc following a healthy pregnancy has been frustrating. Our last MC we did testing on the fetus and found out we lost another little boy and their was a trisomy 16 error. did they find any chromosome abnormalities with the fetus? From my understanding there is nothing that can be done differently but hope that next time is different. The good news is there is nothing wrong with my husband or I, just things aren't coming together correctly. It's very discouraging, and I'm very sorry for your loss. I hope you will get some answers soon!

sorry for your loss as well, We have been having the m/c too early to test the fetus. We have however been tested for everything and my hubby was considered Perfect so that was a great weight off my chest. Me however I had a test come back for factor II gene mutation a blood clotting disorder and nothing they can really do bbut have me take a baby asprin as soon as we get a + preg test. With us there are no chromosome abnormalities as in his sperm and blood tests and my blood tests that were done. so were in the same boat trying again and hopeing for health preg.

 

[dimplesmagee]

Well, I hope the baby asprin does the trick!!!!