30 something and TTC #1 for a year

[brassy]

I am really sorry Trulyoo...I feel your pain...But you aren't alone! Your plan seems similar to mine...I would try 4 iuis, then go natural for a cycle and have ivf sometime during the summer. I hope we won't have to go that far. ..Take care of yourself and DH...
xxx

 

[aleja]

Oh no Truly I am so disappointed for you. Life is so cruel sometimes. I don't know what else to say except that having a long cry and then thinking of the game plan is the only way to cope. Having your next IUI is something to look ahead to. You asked me how I found strength to keep going after all the IVF failures well its the same as what you and the rest of you are doing. We keep going because we want to have a healthy baby in our arms. I think TTC with AC is addictive and its hard to accept it won't work! I think this is why some ladies put themselves through multiple cycles. As I said I was more than ready to start a fresh iCSI cycle if this final FET didn't work but luckily the little bean finally implanted.

Mk, I am okay just now counting down the weeks for my next scan at 19 weeks x
How is your health kick going and got any plans to do the IUI?

MrsP there is so many babies being born this month . This week I know of 3 friends who all gave birth. Got the name picked out?

 

[MrsG2010]

Hey girls.

Truly, I'm sorry about the bfn. I wish there was something I could say to make you feel better.

Cupcake, how are you feeling?

Broody, everything ok since you're home.

Brassy, lily, hope 2ww going well.

Mk, have you made any future plans ?

Mrsp, getting close now !!

Aleja, how many scans have you had ? And at what point.
Will you check for boy v girl?

I hope I didnt miss anyone.

As for me , I had my scan on Wednesday and there was definitely a Baby G in there. I was measuring at 8w0d. I still can't believe it. Obviously I wasn't paying attention to my cycle if I was already 10 days late by the time I realized. If I look at dates I had to have ovulated around day 14 instead of my usual day 20-22. Is this why it worked ??? Did DH levels go back to normal levels ?? I was all set to wait Til next year for IvF IF we were lucky enough to get insurance coverage. I feel incredibly lucky and blessed. And nervous!

I have been feeling nauseas all the time and I have stabbing pains from time to time. Trying not to worry about every twinge.

Hope everyone enjoys their weekend.

 

[brassy]

Glad everything went well MrsG!
The day you got your bfp it was my birthday!!! I am glad it was a lucky day for you!

 

[GettingBroody]

Delighted your scan went well MrsG!!! Pic please?!

Mk8 - I've had more spotting (brown) on and off all week but since yesterday morning it's almost nothing. Staying off work til I've been back to the hospital on Tuesday... Was due to go back Monday but since the spotting lasted longer than expected I decided to stay out til the hospital gives the all clear.

 

[cupcakesarah]

Hi Everyone

Truly, so sorry it didn't work, keep positive and stick to your plan, it'll help keep you focused.

MrsG glad the scan went ok. I can join you on the nausea front, I feel sick all the time and it's really getting me down. But it's a sign that there's a baby in there so I should count my blessings.

Hope everyone else is ok. X

 

[MrsPTTC]

Wow the threads been busy!

Truly I'm so sorry for the bfn Hun

Lily thanks, I'm due 13/3/13!!

Aleja we don't have any definite names yet, Scarlett is a possibility for a girl, maybe Harry for a boy but it was top baby name in the UK in 2012 so that puts us off it

MrsG I'm so pleased your scan went well, did it look like a tadpole yet? Our 7 wk scan it was just a line/blob but 9 weeks was like a tadpole

Sending all you ladies still in the running this cycle lots of

 

[lilyV]

you're def past the "Cautiously preggo "

 

[MrsPTTC]

you're def past the "Cautiously preggo "

x

 

[GettingBroody]

you're def past the "Cautiously preggo "

Very true!!

 

[MrsG2010]

How is everyone ?

 

[MrsPTTC]

Fine thanks mrsG, just waiting! how's you? x

 

[cupcakesarah]

Nervous! Had really bad morning sickness week after BFP, then this week nothing?? Strange. Scan on 20th, hopefully put mind at rest and not the bad news I've been imagining.

 

[MrsPTTC]

Ah you'll be fine cupcake I'm sure You nervous about finding out how many there are?! x

 

[cupcakesarah]

Not really, I think I'll be happy whatever the news. Exciting.

 

[MrsPTTC]

Very! x

 

[GettingBroody]

Hey girls, just a quick update on me. Started having contractions yesterday morning so I'm in the High Dependancy Unit of the Labour Ward. On constant monitoring and meds to try and stop them... Baby not showing any signs of distress and is completely oblivious to the drama it's causing! Am feeling fairly calm and relaxed myself, panicking isn't going to stop labour and certainly won't do me and lo any good so just have to go with the flow now.... I'm crossing everything lo stays put but we just have to wait and see. Not sure when I'll be on next - sockets are a bit scarce here because of all the monitors so trying to save the phone battery... to you all!

 

[aleja]

Hi broody I wish you all the best. This must be very unexpected news and you seem to be so calm about it which is great. You are in the right Place in hospital and im sure they will look after you well. What has caused this? Xx

Cupcake , MS is like that- one week sick as a dog then nothing. It's just your hormones surging then stabilising . How many weeks are you now?

 

[brassy]

Oh Broody, I hope all goes well, and all this is a false alarm. I hope you are back home soon!

 

[cupcakesarah]

Broody hope you and baby are ok.

Aleja I'm 6 weeks now, scan a week tomorrow.