33 yrs young ttc#1...need buddies:)

[panda fan]

hahaha babybemine, never heard that! i will keep that in mind

worried his fever has roasted all his soldiers, lol

 

[Trolley_Dolly]

Hey, girls. I thought you might want to see short clips from my u/s today. I'm so in love.

Baby's heart beating:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BSiESho96EI

Baby wiggles and waves!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mwcxC3aI6aA

Hey tink wow thats amazing so cute....congratz again

 

[Trolley_Dolly]

Hey ladies well the got me so no xmas bfp for me .....however got my HSG on the 24th and we have to be on a sex ban till then too oh well quiet for me.
Hows everyone else getting on?

 

[babybemine]

Hey ladies well the got me so no xmas bfp for me .....however got my HSG on the 24th and we have to be on a sex ban till then too oh well quiet for me.
Hows everyone else getting on?

Sex ban before the HSG? I didn't have that. I kept right on with the EOD right into the HSG. I planned it with my BD before the HSG and once again the next day.

 

[Fruitful]

Hi girls. Sorry I haven't been on here much recently. I think I've had a bit of a meltdown this month, and I'm struggling to pick myself up. I can normally conjure up enough positivity to keep myself going, but I just seem unable to remain positive this month. I just don't believe it's going to happen naturally for us anymore, and I find myself crying a lot. It's not a great place to be in, and I'm just hoping I can manage to enjoy Xmas. It's got to the stage where I'm liable to cry if I see a pregnant woman in the street or read a birth announcement on facebook. I'm so heartbroken

 

[babybemine]

Hi girls. Sorry I haven't been on here much recently. I think I've had a bit of a meltdown this month, and I'm struggling to pick myself up. I can normally conjure up enough positivity to keep myself going, but I just seem unable to remain positive this month. I just don't believe it's going to happen naturally for us anymore, and I find myself crying a lot. It's not a great place to be in, and I'm just hoping I can manage to enjoy Xmas. It's got to the stage where I'm liable to cry if I see a pregnant woman in the street or read a birth announcement on facebook. I'm so heartbroken

Fruitful, have yourself a good cry if you need one. It is ok to be sad and deal with all this stress. It is very heartbreaking when you want something with all your heart and it is just not coming to you the way you want it to.
We have all been there at some point and will be here if you need a hug, a shoulder to cry on or vent to, or a quick pick-me-up.

 

[panda fan]

Fruitful. Trolley has it right. It's okay to vent. That's why we are all here.

I understand because I'm having it off and on right now. I burst out crying reading a letter in which my friend (talking about her new niece) said "babies are a gift from god." Even I was surprised at my very sudden hair trigger reaction. I felt silly afterwards cause DH was totally caught off guard, but it's not a silly thing to feel frightened and have moments where you lose hope about something so important.

I hope the holidays end up distracting you and you can find your joy again! My husband's twin sister had to do IVF and her son (our nephew) is amazing and adorable and perfect and we'd never know if she hadn't told us. He is a reminder to me that it's okay if we have to get help.

 

[Trolley_Dolly]

Hi ladies hope u all had a lovely christmas....how r u all??I had my HSG on the 24th it was ok i had a little bit of stomach ache but i was in and out very quickly which was good...and my tubes are all clear so im pleased about that...i got another doctors appointment on the 10th of Jan to find out the next step.

Fruitful i hope christmas has made u smile again im sorry u have been feeling down....2013 is our year ladies xx

 

[babybemine]

Hi ladies hope u all had a lovely christmas....how r u all??I had my HSG on the 24th it was ok i had a little bit of stomach ache but i was in and out very quickly which was good...and my tubes are all clear so im pleased about that...i got another doctors appointment on the 10th of Jan to find out the next step.

Fruitful i hope christmas has made u smile again im sorry u have been feeling down....2013 is our year ladies xx

The next 2-3 months increase the chance of getting BFP....happy BD
Congrats on clear tubes.

 

[panda fan]

Hi ladies hope u all had a lovely christmas....how r u all??I had my HSG on the 24th it was ok i had a little bit of stomach ache but i was in and out very quickly which was good...and my tubes are all clear so im pleased about that...i got another doctors appointment on the 10th of Jan to find out the next step.

Fruitful i hope christmas has made u smile again im sorry u have been feeling down....2013 is our year ladies xx

Great news, Trolley!

 

[Trolley_Dolly]

Happy New Year ladies thanx for the nice wishes....we did some bding but when u have family staying i cant do it ha ha...well i hope it does increase my chances but ive also read that it clears out this ovulation with the dye so im not sure if it will be a better chance next month...how u all doing anything new xx

 

[1ST TRY]

Hi Ladies

HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU ALL.

Yesterday i went for my 20 weeks scan, all is well and i'm carrying a GIRL.

MAY YOU ALL GET YOUR BFP BEFORE MARCH 2013.



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[Trolley_Dolly]

Hi Ladies

HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU ALL.

Yesterday i went for my 20 weeks scan, all is well and i'm carrying a GIRL.

MAY YOU ALL GET YOUR BFP BEFORE MARCH 2013.



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Orr wow how exciting congrats on a baby girl best news this year xxx

 

[panda fan]

Trolley, good luck this month. You seem a little more relaxed after the tests. That's great!

1st try! Congrats on having a baby girl! Very exciting!

I'm just waiting for my appointment on Tuesday to see what the doc thinks I should do. Looking forward to talking to her.

 

[babybemine]

Trolley, good luck this month. You seem a little more relaxed after the tests. That's great!

1st try! Congrats on having a baby girl! Very exciting!

I'm just waiting for my appointment on Tuesday to see what the doc thinks I should do. Looking forward to talking to her.

My appt is on Thursday, I hope you get some good news

 

[panda fan]

Hi everyone.

Just got back from the doctor. She was very helpful and reassuring but agreed it was worth doing tests since it's been a year so looks like it's my turn for blood tests and HSG. Doctor didnt think anything was wrong with the pre-period spotting I've been having since it's been consistent, but she is going to check my progesterone levels.

I have to wait until my next period to get those tests done and the husband has to drop off his sample so until then . . . just sticking with OPKs. Tried to do temp charting but you have to wake up around the same time and I never do so it was frustrating and I stopped.

Trolley, my doc also told me that after HSG many of her patients get pregnant the month after so lots of baby dust to you!!

 

[Trolley_Dolly]

Hi ladies im pleased that everyone seems to be getting somewhere this year its great news....babybemine let me know how your appointment goes today...and panda fan your doctor seems to be proactive too )

Im just back from the doctors today too for my follow up check up wsince the hsg....it was all ok so now she is putting me forward for IVF yay....im really pleased but also think its mad that we have no problems but still cant seem to have a baby oh well at least we r getting where we want to be slowly but surely.

Pandafan ive heard the same that apparently after the hsg your more fertile for up to 6 months as it clears out your tubes watch this space we shall keep at it x

 

[babybemine]

Dh and I were both ok (everything came out within normal limits.) Next step is to see if e can get pregnant this cycle on our own and if not then we start femera next cycle. FX

 

[Fruitful]

Hi girls, and happy new year! I'm so glad to hear everyone's well and making good progress! Glad that all the results are coming back normal/clear. Sorry I've been a bit quiet over the break.

Anyway, I wanted to share some good news with you, as I got a bfp a few days ago!!! It's very early days, as I'm only at 15dpo, but so far so good, and the pregnancy tests are getting darker everyday. I'm still in shock, as I really wasn't expecting it, especially as I had no particular symptoms this month. Thankfully, I didn't drink any booze over the TWW, even though it was hard to resist! xx

 

[Tink80]

Everything sounds good Trolley, Panda, and Babybemine.

Huge congrats, Fruitful!