33 yrs young ttc#1...need buddies:)

[ttcbabyisom]

Had all the tests and everything came out good. Since we have not conceived, RE placed me on Femara. Completed the first cycle of pills yesterday. Have an ultrasound scheduled for a few days from now and lots of BD in store for this cycle and then we wait with fx.

Good luck!

 

[friskyfish]

Panda, wishing you lots of love & luck!! Let's send some positive energy to your right tube to get it working twice as hard!! xx Fruitful, so nice to see your progress on Here xx

I'm insanely worried now, as I had to go into A&E because my bleeding got so bad and painful, its 5 weeks today. They had to take some swabs which I won't get results bk till 2 week's. They did a pregnancy test there which was negative. They kept me in for observation then sent me home with some pills to ease the bleeding. Iv got to go for a scan, as the doc says it may be 'fibroids' ?? She didn't explain what these were properly. Iv googled it, and I'm crying my eyes out as it says it can affect fertility! I'm so upset & confused. The doc said it wouldn't, but I'm reading all sorts of horror stories on the internet & gettin myself in a right state! I feel drained with it all! Xx

 

[friskyfish]

Sorry to moan on xx

 

[Miracle2012]

Panda, wishing you lots of love & luck!! Let's send some positive energy to your right tube to get it working twice as hard!! xx Fruitful, so nice to see your progress on Here xx

I'm insanely worried now, as I had to go into A&E because my bleeding got so bad and painful, its 5 weeks today. They had to take some swabs which I won't get results bk till 2 week's. They did a pregnancy test there which was negative. They kept me in for observation then sent me home with some pills to ease the bleeding. Iv got to go for a scan, as the doc says it may be 'fibroids' ?? She didn't explain what these were properly. Iv googled it, and I'm crying my eyes out as it says it can affect fertility! I'm so upset & confused. The doc said it wouldn't, but I'm reading all sorts of horror stories on the internet & gettin myself in a right state! I feel drained with it all! Xx

Frisky don't worry. You know my mom had 3 kids and had huge fibroids and that was many many many years ago, so now things should be possible than ever.The only thing is that she had 3 c-sections but in my opinion it was a small price to pay. don't worry

 

[panda fan]

thank you friskyfish!

Good luck to you! Don't get stressed! Reading stories on the internet gives you lots of different scenarios and everyone's experience is different. It can definitely make you nervous (I am guilty of it, too)

I hope you get good news and are feeling better soon!

 

[friskyfish]

Miracle, thanks for your reply. I feel a bit better now xx Panda, thank you, guess I'll just have to see what the tests come back with! I'm so bloody impatient! Haha xx

 

[babybemine]

Feeling the pain in my right ovary again. Grow follies grow.

 

[Snowleopard79]

Hi, I would like to join in. I too am 33 trying to concieve number 1, now on month 7! I am so worried about my age, I don't feel old ( still feel 21 lol) I keep healthy exercise regularly and don't drink smoke or drink coffee, my weight is a good bmi and still nothing. I don't know what more to try, I have started to wonder whether worth going to gp but I know the guideline say 12 months but I fear the longer I wait the closer I get to 35 when they say everything starts going down hill!!!

Has anyone else been to gp before the 12 months and have they been supportive? If they were what tests have they offered???

I suppose this month could be the one but not holding out much hope as only one 1 symptoms of sore boobs for about 8 days now but that's it.

 

[friskyfish]

Hi snowleopard, I feel your frustration, we all do. I am now on month 11 and am seeing a doctor next week . Iv not tried anything else other than keep up with my already reasonably healthy lifestyle. Im thinking of getting one of these ovulation kits if anyone else can recommend one??
I'm really concerned about my age now too, like you I'm 33, but still feel & sometimes act 21!! Haha xx
My husband goes away in 9 weeks as he's in the Navy, really want to conceive before then, but it's doubtful .......He's away for 6 weeks then bk for 2! No guesses what we will be up to when he's back! Haha
Fingers crossed that this is your month, your not on your own xx

 

[Snowleopard79]

Hi snowleopard, I feel your frustration, we all do. I am now on month 11 and am seeing a doctor next week . Iv not tried anything else other than keep up with my already reasonably healthy lifestyle. Im thinking of getting one of these ovulation kits if anyone else can recommend one??
I'm really concerned about my age now too, like you I'm 33, but still feel & sometimes act 21!! Haha xx
My husband goes away in 9 weeks as he's in the Navy, really want to conceive before then, but it's doubtful .......He's away for 6 weeks then bk for 2! No guesses what we will be up to when he's back! Haha
Fingers crossed that this is your month, your not on your own xx

Thanks friskyfish, my husband is inRAF so goes away lots too so also trying to get preggers before he next gets sent away ( last time had only 5 weeks notice for a 6 month deployment!!! Bloody mod getting way of baby making!!!!!

I have used ovulation kit last month and this month, a friend has also used them and got pregnant first time of using them so thought I would give them a go!!! At least you get an idea of when I m ovulating, I think people find them useful as some ovulate much later or earlier than expected. It's hard not to a little wrapped up in them and can therefore take fun out bding ( my husband asks me if I am 'in season' tonight!!!!!!! Charming, I feel real sexy after that). I used the clear blue digi one as very clear on whether lh rise or not ( no guessing if line is darker etc).

I hope it goes well with your dr, let us know how you get on if you don't mind.

It's nice to know others stories and other military wives/gf battling with our men going away all time especially at drop of a hat!! Xx

 

[Miracle2012]

Snow and Frisky ,j ust wanted to let you know that the clearblue fertility monitor is very good, I used it last year when I was trying for about 3 and half years and got preggers the first time I used it, unfortunately i lost my angel, but it tells you exactly when you should start doing the honky donky... so I recommend it. I wish you super baby dust !

 

[Tink80]

Hey, ladies. I am still here cheering everyone on.
I don't know if this may help but I wanted to mention that if you are using the ovulation kit make sure to not test too early into the day as LH rises later on. Also, when I got pregnant, I was on a mission not to miss any LH spikes and tested not only in the afternoon but also in the evening..so basically twice a day for around a week that I thought I'd be fertile. I know that can get expensive which is why I got the cheapie Wondfos (which always worked better for me than the more expensive kits anyway). I hope this helps and you all get your BFPs soon xoxo

 

[Snowleopard79]

Snow and Frisky ,j ust wanted to let you know that the clearblue fertility monitor is very good, I used it last year when I was trying for about 3 and half years and got preggers the first time I used it, unfortunately i lost my angel, but it tells you exactly when you should start doing the honky donky... so I recommend it. I wish you super baby dust !

Thanks Miracle 2012, I have looked at fertility monitor, quite expensive so though I would try opk first and if unsuccessful move onto to the fertility monitor. Will give it another month or 2 and if no positive then go for it. AF due Tues so waiting patiently!!!!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Snow and Frisky ,j ust wanted to let you know that the clearblue fertility monitor is very good, I used it last year when I was trying for about 3 and half years and got preggers the first time I used it, unfortunately i lost my angel, but it tells you exactly when you should start doing the honky donky... so I recommend it. I wish you super baby dust !

Thanks Miracle 2012, I have looked at fertility monitor, quite expensive so though I would try opk first and if unsuccessful move onto to the fertility monitor. Will give it another month or 2 and if no positive then go for it. AF due Tues so waiting patiently!!!!

My AF is due Tuesday as well. Good luck to both of us!!!

 

[Snowleopard79]

Snow and Frisky ,j ust wanted to let you know that the clearblue fertility monitor is very good, I used it last year when I was trying for about 3 and half years and got preggers the first time I used it, unfortunately i lost my angel, but it tells you exactly when you should start doing the honky donky... so I recommend it. I wish you super baby dust !

Thanks Miracle 2012, I have looked at fertility monitor, quite expensive so though I would try opk first and if unsuccessful move onto to the fertility monitor. Will give it another month or 2 and if no positive then go for it. AF due Tues so waiting patiently!!!!

My AF is due Tuesday as well. Good luck to both of us!!!

Fingers, toes, arms and legs crossed for us

Are you testing Tuesday or being good and waiting?????

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Snow and Frisky ,j ust wanted to let you know that the clearblue fertility monitor is very good, I used it last year when I was trying for about 3 and half years and got preggers the first time I used it, unfortunately i lost my angel, but it tells you exactly when you should start doing the honky donky... so I recommend it. I wish you super baby dust !

Thanks Miracle 2012, I have looked at fertility monitor, quite expensive so though I would try opk first and if unsuccessful move onto to the fertility monitor. Will give it another month or 2 and if no positive then go for it. AF due Tues so waiting patiently!!!!

My AF is due Tuesday as well. Good luck to both of us!!!

Fingers, toes, arms and legs crossed for us

Are you testing Tuesday or being good and waiting?????

I've already caved and been bad...BFN's Thursday and Saturday, testing again tomorrow. I'm the girl if I do get a positive, i like my chart to show that you can get plenty of negatives before a positive...wishful thinking i guess. Plus with my temps still being high, it gives me hope.

 

[Snowleopard79]

Snow and Frisky ,j ust wanted to let you know that the clearblue fertility monitor is very good, I used it last year when I was trying for about 3 and half years and got preggers the first time I used it, unfortunately i lost my angel, but it tells you exactly when you should start doing the honky donky... so I recommend it. I wish you super baby dust !

Thanks Miracle 2012, I have looked at fertility monitor, quite expensive so though I would try opk first and if unsuccessful move onto to the fertility monitor. Will give it another month or 2 and if no positive then go for it. AF due Tues so waiting patiently!!!!

My AF is due Tuesday as well. Good luck to both of us!!!

Fingers, toes, arms and legs crossed for us

Are you testing Tuesday or being good and waiting?????

I've already caved and been bad...BFN's Thursday and Saturday, testing again tomorrow. I'm the girl if I do get a positive, i like my chart to show that you can get plenty of negatives before a positive...wishful thinking i guess. Plus with my temps still being high, it gives me hope.

Lol it's not bad. I have been so tempted but have purposely not bought any so I can't be tempted. Will pick one up on way home tomorrow and test Tuesday morning. I don't temp but fro. What I have read, looking at your chart it all looks good

 

[friskyfish]

Cheers for advice Miracle, iv not even looked into any of these things. Think I will after my doc appointment on wed. Tink! How you doing lady? Thanks for your wishes! Have you heard frim trolley dolly? I hope she's ok xx

Snow! Yey to another military wife! I'll be keeping everything crossed for you & babyisom on tuesday x iv no idea what's goin on with me & my periods now....been bleeding for over 5 weeks now, just want this scan done now so I know if it is fibroids or not! X I'm a bit pissed off and upset right now as my DH' s good friend has just rang to tell us there expecting! I feel bad for feeling like this....I just want to be able to make that phonecall xx Oh well Xx

 

[Snowleopard79]

Cheers for advice Miracle, iv not even looked into any of these things. Think I will after my doc appointment on wed. Tink! How you doing lady? Thanks for your wishes! Have you heard frim trolley dolly? I hope she's ok xx

Snow! Yey to another military wife! I'll be keeping everything crossed for you & babyisom on tuesday x iv no idea what's goin on with me & my periods now....been bleeding for over 5 weeks now, just want this scan done now so I know if it is fibroids or not! X I'm a bit pissed off and upset right now as my DH' s good friend has just rang to tell us there expecting! I feel bad for feeling like this....I just want to be able to make that phonecall xx Oh well Xx

Stay strong frisky, there is nothing wrong with feeling like that. Everyone I know seems to be announcing pregnancy and 4 very good friends have had babies in the last month. It's like we are being tortured!!! Hope it all goes well at drs as 5 weeks bleeding is awful ( a week is bad enough), hoping they give you some straight answers

 

[friskyfish]

Thanks snow! Feel like iv got loads goin on at the min...really not looking forward to DH goin away soon either xx How you doin today? Have you caved in and tested yet? Xx