33 yrs young ttc#1...need buddies:)

[babybemine]

11dpo at the moment...walmart cheapie says negative. not sure how much I have faith in those. Tested on an opk and got an error screen. When I took it apart it was two lines but not sure if that was a positive or not. Will test again tomorrow with an early response. Have had heightened sense of smell, cramping, occasional back ache, bbs swollen like normal, bloated and gassy. Also had a dream that we were looking at an image of inside my body, and the doctor was showing us the baby and letting us know we did it we finally got pregnant.

 

[Tink80]

Hi,again, ladies.

Baby Eva is active and got a good strong heart rate but my OB is sending me for an u/s next week because my fundal height is measuring more than usual and I've got some persistent pains which I figured were ligament that he is a little concerned with. He says most likely we either have a big baby or there is excess amniotic fluid. I made the mistake of googling what excess fluid can be caused by and totally started panicking and bawling. I've calmed down now but can I have some good thoughts please? On a good note, I passed my glucose test so no maternal diabetes for me so we can rule that out.

Then, yesterday, my dad was in a very serious car wreck. He's got a burst fracture of the back (with possible spinal cord injury) and very severe head trauma that resulted in them helicoptering him for emergency surgery on his brain to save his life. The next 48 hours will let us know how much damage the brain has sustained and if he makes it, it will be weeks and months of a long, hard road to recovery and even still he may never walk again or always be a bit different. I am crushed as I know he was so excited about meeting the baby and seeing me next month for the baby shower. I'm trying to keep good spirits and remember to take care of myself for Eva's sake but it is difficult. I find myself a little angry as we lost my mother in law early on in my pregnancy and now this is happening with my dad and it all just seems so unfair. So if you could spare some thoughts for my dad too, I'd appreciate it. Sorry, off topic I know, but just had to vent.

Glad to hear you other ladies are well, lots of love and baby dust.

 

[Fruitful]

Hi,again, ladies.

Baby Eva is active and got a good strong heart rate but my OB is sending me for an u/s next week because my fundal height is measuring more than usual and I've got some persistent pains which I figured were ligament that he is a little concerned with. He says most likely we either have a big baby or there is excess amniotic fluid. I made the mistake of googling what excess fluid can be caused by and totally started panicking and bawling. I've calmed down now but can I have some good thoughts please? On a good note, I passed my glucose test so no maternal diabetes for me so we can rule that out.

Then, yesterday, my dad was in a very serious car wreck. He's got a burst fracture of the back (with possible spinal cord injury) and very severe head trauma that resulted in them helicoptering him for emergency surgery on his brain to save his life. The next 48 hours will let us know how much damage the brain has sustained and if he makes it, it will be weeks and months of a long, hard road to recovery and even still he may never walk again or always be a bit different. I am crushed as I know he was so excited about meeting the baby and seeing me next month for the baby shower. I'm trying to keep good spirits and remember to take care of myself for Eva's sake but it is difficult. I find myself a little angry as we lost my mother in law early on in my pregnancy and now this is happening with my dad and it all just seems so unfair. So if you could spare some thoughts for my dad too, I'd appreciate it. Sorry, off topic I know, but just had to vent.

Glad to hear you other ladies are well, lots of love and baby dust.

Aww, Tink, I'm so sorry to hear about your dad . I'll be keeping both of you in my thoughts and praying . You must be feeling absolutely awful at the moment, but you're doing the right thing by trying to stay strong for Eva. My dad suffered a head injury a few years ago (he's fine now, although it's left him with a few minor problems), and I know it's very frightening not knowing what'll happen. We'll all be praying for a good recovery for your dad.

I know it's easy to say, but please try not to worry too much about the fundal height thing. It's great that your doctor cares enough to get it checked out. There's every chance that baby Eva is just nice and big for her age. If it does turn out to be excessive amniotic fluid, it's much more likely to be a mild case, which would mean nothing more than increased monitoring and probably a little more caution around the birth. From what I've read, they don't know the reason of 2/3 cases, so I wouldn't worry about what that might mean either. Again, it's great that you're getting a scan to check it out.

Take care of yourself and let us know how you and your dad are doing.
xxx

 

[Trolley_Dolly]

Babybemine fingers crossed u get that bfp

Tink80 im so so sorry to hear about your dad i will be thinking of u and your dad ....im sure the thought of baby eva will b in your dads thoughts and im sure that will make him a fighter....but u also need to be a fighter too for u and your baby stay strong i will be praying for u xx

 

[Tink80]

Thanks so much ladies for your thoughts and prayers..appreciate it.

Dad is off the ventilator and breathing on his own and having periods of awareness (eyes open). However, no signs of recognition or response to voice commands. I'm hoping his brain just needs more time and he will show response soon.

As for the fundal height thing, that makes me feel better...2/3, you say? I posted about my worries on FB and a few of my gfs said they had increased fluid too and their babies were perfectly healthy (no explanation as to why the excess fluid). I feel her moving ALOT so that is comforting. I was talking to my belly amidst all the chaos of my Dad's accident and told her she needs to keep letting me know I at least still have my miracle. She's doing a good job, sweet baby.

I guess if I'm to be positive at least I get another chance to see her, right? And maybe they can re-confirm she's a girl. I'm paranoid to wash the little clothes I bought her after reading horror stories about gender mixup, lol.

Thanks for listening to me blabber.

 

[babybemine]

FRER a six day early test says ...boo. Still having occasional backaches and cramping.

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Hi girls!

Trolley - that's so exciting that you're responding well! I'll be thinking of you next week and keeping my fingers crossed - I'm sure you'll be getting lots and lots of lovely eggs to turn into nice plump embryos!! How many days after the egg collection will they be doing the transfer? Keep us posted!

ttcbabyisom - that must have been really emotional for you finding out one of them was a boy. I think it's really brave of you to have gone to the support group (and especially so on the 12-week day) - it shows a lot of emotional strength, and I hope you find lots of warmth and support there. Continue taking care of yourself and doing your thing . Let us know if your HCG has come down and how the tests go. How long will you have to wait for the results?

panda fan - Good news that the sonogram was good! Wow, I can't believe you're starting iui - how exciting. Are you still waiting for af at the moment? Also, slightly belated Happy Birthday!!!! This is totally going to be your year.

babybemine - you must be in the 2ww at the moment? How is it going? I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you.

friskyfish - so sorry to hear about the bleeding, and also that you've been feeling discouraged. We've all been there, and I know it's rough. Have lots of hugs

Miracle - lovely to hear from you! So glad everything is going well. How have you been finding the pregnancy? It's so frustrating having to wait for scans but it's worth it when you finally get to them!

Tink - thanks for your lovely long post - that made me smile! What a beautiful bump (and a beautiful mama!) - I have serious bump envy I bet you can't wait to meet baby Eva!

All's well with me! We had a quick scan at 17 weeks, which went fine! The next one, which is the big anatomy one, will be at 22 weeks (I'm now 18 weeks), so I'm just waiting for that. We've decided not to find out the gender (though the doctor said she could see it at the last scan) and keep the surprise until the end! I definitely have a proper bump by now and am into maternity trousers, though I think people I don't know are probably still wondering whether I'm pregnant or just very out of shape It's starting to affect how I move, though, like, for example, I have to spread my legs out if I want to sit leaning forward, as the bump feels uncomfortable otherwise. I still haven't felt any movement yet, but I'm cuddling my little bump in the meantime. The second trimester really is much more enjoyable than the first one. You start feeling a lot better physically (though that probably only started around 15/16 weeks for me - before that I just felt kind of unwell) and, also, I feel so much less anxious, which is great. I think lots of pregnant women feel anxious, but when you've been ttc for a while, the stakes definitely feel higher, and I found the first few months quite nerve-wracking.

Anyway, with all the exciting stuff going on on this thread, I also have the feeling there'll be lots of new BFPs here in the next couple of months!!!

xxx

I had another blood draw today so I'll let you know tomorrow what the latest results are. Praying for 0! As soon as it's 0, I can get on with the next phase of this...just ready to start officially trying again.

Yay for your anatomy scan coming up but sounds like it doesn't matter as you're going to let it be a surprise. That's exciting but I don't think I could do it. He, he...you need to post a bump pic!!!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

glad to hear everyone's updates and that all is progressing well with pregnancies and treatments (and still thinking of you ttc and sending you hugs)

just a quick update: had my first u/s (day 3) and all looks good to start meds and prep for iui - very excited and hopeful!

Oh good luck to you sweetie!!!

 

[Trolley_Dolly]

Thanks so much ladies for your thoughts and prayers..appreciate it.

Dad is off the ventilator and breathing on his own and having periods of awareness (eyes open). However, no signs of recognition or response to voice commands. I'm hoping his brain just needs more time and he will show response soon.

As for the fundal height thing, that makes me feel better...2/3, you say? I posted about my worries on FB and a few of my gfs said they had increased fluid too and their babies were perfectly healthy (no explanation as to why the excess fluid). I feel her moving ALOT so that is comforting. I was talking to my belly amidst all the chaos of my Dad's accident and told her she needs to keep letting me know I at least still have my miracle. She's doing a good job, sweet baby.

I guess if I'm to be positive at least I get another chance to see her, right? And maybe they can re-confirm she's a girl. I'm paranoid to wash the little clothes I bought her after reading horror stories about gender mixup, lol.

Thanks for listening to me blabber.

Tink im so pleased your dad is making progress already fingers crossed for him!!
And u have baby eva there for comfort and support

 

[Trolley_Dolly]

FRER a six day early test says ...boo. Still having occasional backaches and cramping.

Dont give up yet baby u still got a couple of days

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Hi Ladies

All is well by my side, i have been reading the posts and i am happy that everyone is still passionate and facing TTC with strong and brave hearts.

To all the Pregies, hang in there and enjoy every moment, for me Pregnancy is the most exciting experience in my life.

I am having a C-section at 38 weeks (20 Days to go)

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yay, good luck to you 1st try!

 

[panda fan]

so much going on!
Tink, so sorry to hear about your dad and hope he is making a lot of progress. Hopefully you get some soothing news from your doc. I'm sure baby Eva is doing great.

1st Try - how exciting for you, it's coming up soon!

babybemine - sorry no BFP yet, fingers crossed!

ttc - glad to hear you are hopeful and excited again to try, i hope your patience and your rebounding spirit is rewarded very soon

Trolley - excited for you!

i just had another ultrasound this morning (Day 8) for my 1st iui cycle, two growing follicles on either side avg about 10x14 so hopefully things are on schedule and I have 2 or 3 good ones ready to go in a few days, keeping my expectations low since doctor seemed to think my issues may have to be solved with ivf but still excited to try this

 

[panda fan]

just got a call to come back in tomorrow morning for another u/s and bloodwork

babybemine - what cycle day did they have you trigger?

Friskyfish - are you still around? any updates on the bleeding? I hope everything is going okay

 

[Trolley_Dolly]

Hi ladies i have my egg collection on friday wish me luck....panda thats great good luck with your scan 2mo fingers crossed for u too xx

 

[Tink80]

1sttry, how exciting you are so close to the end.

Panda and Trolley, keeping everything crossed for you, how exciting, tons of baby dust.

My dad is making some progress, has moments of being coherent and able to talk/wiggle toes and fingers so we are getting there slowly but surely.

Me, I'm so achey so trying to take it easy. I think my poor back is on strike from all this extra weight. Two more nights sleep till I get to see baby on u/s again.

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Hi,again, ladies.

Baby Eva is active and got a good strong heart rate but my OB is sending me for an u/s next week because my fundal height is measuring more than usual and I've got some persistent pains which I figured were ligament that he is a little concerned with. He says most likely we either have a big baby or there is excess amniotic fluid. I made the mistake of googling what excess fluid can be caused by and totally started panicking and bawling. I've calmed down now but can I have some good thoughts please? On a good note, I passed my glucose test so no maternal diabetes for me so we can rule that out.

Then, yesterday, my dad was in a very serious car wreck. He's got a burst fracture of the back (with possible spinal cord injury) and very severe head trauma that resulted in them helicoptering him for emergency surgery on his brain to save his life. The next 48 hours will let us know how much damage the brain has sustained and if he makes it, it will be weeks and months of a long, hard road to recovery and even still he may never walk again or always be a bit different. I am crushed as I know he was so excited about meeting the baby and seeing me next month for the baby shower. I'm trying to keep good spirits and remember to take care of myself for Eva's sake but it is difficult. I find myself a little angry as we lost my mother in law early on in my pregnancy and now this is happening with my dad and it all just seems so unfair. So if you could spare some thoughts for my dad too, I'd appreciate it. Sorry, off topic I know, but just had to vent.

Glad to hear you other ladies are well, lots of love and baby dust.

My thoughts and prayers are with you sweetie.

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Thanks so much ladies for your thoughts and prayers..appreciate it.

Dad is off the ventilator and breathing on his own and having periods of awareness (eyes open). However, no signs of recognition or response to voice commands. I'm hoping his brain just needs more time and he will show response soon.

As for the fundal height thing, that makes me feel better...2/3, you say? I posted about my worries on FB and a few of my gfs said they had increased fluid too and their babies were perfectly healthy (no explanation as to why the excess fluid). I feel her moving ALOT so that is comforting. I was talking to my belly amidst all the chaos of my Dad's accident and told her she needs to keep letting me know I at least still have my miracle. She's doing a good job, sweet baby.

I guess if I'm to be positive at least I get another chance to see her, right? And maybe they can re-confirm she's a girl. I'm paranoid to wash the little clothes I bought her after reading horror stories about gender mixup, lol.

Thanks for listening to me blabber.

good baby girl.

 

[ttcbabyisom]

just got a call to come back in tomorrow morning for another u/s and bloodwork

babybemine - what cycle day did they have you trigger?

Friskyfish - are you still around? any updates on the bleeding? I hope everything is going okay

Good luck panda!!!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Hi ladies i have my egg collection on friday wish me luck....panda thats great good luck with your scan 2mo fingers crossed for u too xx

Good luck trolley, can't wait to hear and hopefully good news!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Trolley_Dolly]

Hey ladies just had a scan and i have 10 follies growing nicely for friday...im doing my trigger shot 2nite...no drugs 2mo...then egg collection on friday morning thanx for the nice messages ladies.

Tink im really pleased your dad is making progress ) xx

Whats happening with everyone else??xx