33 yrs young ttc#1...need buddies:)

[dovkav123]

Dovkav thats sounds very promising ive got everything crossed
for u...r u doing a test today??

Kittykan wondered where u had gone ha ha think positive hun at least your busy so takes your mind of it abit i got fx for u too.

Well so much for these bloody sickness bands i jinx myself yesterday saying ive not been sick as 4 this morning me and the toilet had some major words ha all good signs tho so im told hmmm

BFN this morning, but the witch is not here yet..
We are going to RE tomorrow, enough natural cycles, we need some medical help. My dh wants to wait for a few months. Because I am doing something right, I am healing, my periods are smoother, my PmS are gone and migranes too.I disagree! We're getting gray hair and there is no time to wait.

 

[Trolley_Dolly]

Oh im sorry dovkav its good that your body is starting to heal itself...but yeah no point in waiting....dont give up the fight xx

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Everyone that gets their BFP says that Trolley. You just relax and enjoy. Well done for going on your night flight and not throwing a sickie... Haha

Its so weird isnt it mango tango... the symptoms of PMT/impending AF/pregnancy are so similar. It almost cruel! I had every symptom going this last month and it was different from previous months. I was sure BFP was coming my way. I even allowed myself to get cautiously excited.

Its so hard to ignore the symptoms, not spot them and get on things, but I think thats the best thing for me to do, otherwise I get my hopes up. Its nice to have another new person on here to share things with. Dont be afraid to ask/share so we can support each other. Many of the women originally on this thread will be mummies soon!

I havent been trying that long in the grande scheme of things either. So have to keep a good open mind! Getting my health kick and exercise regime on. Im in a good little routine now exercise wise. And Im also so glad some friends of ours have had to cancel a drink tomorrow night. Im really trying to cut down, so Im glad I wont have the temptation. I was going to pull out anyway and let my DH who was also reluctant go along. But now I dont have to. Hooray! l (Ive become a right nesting home body of late lol)

Do/did any of you ladies drink alcohol during your 2ww?

Hi kitty. I've been on this thread for a little while lurking the last week or two. Welcome and best of luck to you! Yes, it sucks and is crazy how close the symptoms of both are and it messes with my head every time i get close to testing! I hate it. Like right now, i have a slew of symptoms and totally think i'm pregnant but trying not to get my hopes up. my chart is looking fabulous but it has in the past too and been a BFN.

I've been doing the same thing lately, getting my health on and exercise going. I've lost 8 pounds since January. It's not much but I'll take it. I'm doing zumba and couch to 5 K.

I'm such a home body too, especially during the week! Oh lord. My hubby is just the opposite so it makes it hard sometimes. I am always glad when we don't have fun plans during the 2ww because i try hard not to drink then. My doc said the rule of thumb is to stop drinking and doing everything else at cd 21 or 7 dpo if you're on a 28-day cycle and I am. Just adjust that according to your cycles. She said because implantation doesn't even occur until 7-10 anyway or around there so doing things up to that point is pretty safe. So I have just been doing that and it's working out better. Only 1 week really of stopping everything and watching stuff. My first pregnancy two years ago I was so upset about finding out a friend had just found out she was pregnant that i went home and drank a whole bottle of wine. I found out two days later I was pregnant. I freaked out and told my doc about that and she said i was fine. So...who knows. I felt like everything would have been fine too if i hadn't of had a miscarriage. BEST OF LUCK TO YOU!!!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

KittyKan,
I'm the same, didn't want to be too hopeful with all my new symptoms last month but I was exicted since I really thought it was true! But I was only sad for a half day when AF came. I know that it won't necessarily be easy, and don't want to get too crushed too fast. I can't be upset when there are people losing children or miscarrying or what not since I believe that my body will take the baby when it's ready. I'm also exercising more regularly and eating a lot better too. I couldn't believe the symptoms I had last month, I will now only believe I'm BFP when I get a positive!
I stopped drinking any alcohol for a solid 4 weeks from the week after my period to this past weekend and now I'll stop again. I work a lot of weekends so it doesn't let me drink much anyway, but I don't feel the urge knowing I might have a little one in me...I know it would be fine and not hurt anything (as I know many people that drank heavy in college and didn't know they were preggo) but I can't bring my mind to convince myself it's ok. I'm defintely buying N/A beer though when the time comes because I do like beer now and then. I don't miss it when I'm not drinking, like I said, we don't go out a lot.
On an exciting note, I know it's probably tmi- but I had egg white cm just now. Looking forward to DH to get home!

Hi mangotango, welcome to you too!!! We are a good group of 33 year olds to pour out your soul and tmi! Good for you for stopping drinking like that. I really enjoy my wine and stuff and we have people over and parties all the time so it's kind of hard to avoid it. I've noticed DH calming down a lot more recently so that helps me too. I've never gone that long without drinking unless I'm preggers so good for you. Yay for ewcm, that IS the best!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Hello ladies,
I am on TWW right now.
I am 33 y/o. I would like to compare our AMH hormone, ovarian reserve.
TTCbaby, I read your TTC journey. Without all those events you wouldn't be such a strong person as you are right now. Our time will come and we'll be mommies, we just need to be patient.

Thank you dovkav! I so appreciate that!

 

[panda fan]

Trolley, thank you for you support. Your good news keeps me very inspired every day that my turn will come if I can only be patient. Sorry the wristbands are not stopping the sickness 100%. I know my friend did say they helped her a lot, though.

I bought that book The Secret since you had mentioned it. I had heard about it form other friends but never really thought about getting it until now. Trying to practice positive thinking

Dov, I am sorry about BFN. Trolley is probably right though. Maybe these weird ups and downs in our symptoms are a positive sign of activity. You seem to have a very good attitude and are doing all the right things for your body though so I have a good feeling about your chances of great news soon.

my cycle is very regular 27 days and a very average (rarely ever on the heavy side) period. sometimes i feel so frustrated to have all the right "tools" but feel like having the surgery "broke" me. But I know there's still lots of good options left to me to have a family so I try not to let myself dwell on those thoughts.

kitty, ttcbabyisom, mangotango and baby! good luck!

ttcbabyisom . . . excited for your good chart! you sound very healthy and relaxed. congrats on the weight loss and the exercising more. i think it's good for mental health, too, releasing all those happy chemicals. lots of baby dust to you!

 

[KittyKan]

Oooh what excellent advice from your doctor Ttcbabyisom -thank you for sharing that with us. I too can be a bit of a home body & find the temptation too much sometimes. I have a hold on it now though. (Sorry I dont know how to reply, showing the post you're replying to, doh!)

Hi Trolley! Lovely to hear your updates. Keep them coming!

Panda, Im practising positive thought too! Well trying to, have good days and not so good day!

Glad this thread livened up a bit now. Good luck everyone, everything crossed for us xx

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Hello ladies,
I am on TWW right now.
I am 33 y/o. I would like to compare our AMH hormone, ovarian reserve.
TTCbaby, I read your TTC journey. Without all those events you wouldn't be such a strong person as you are right now. Our time will come and we'll be mommies, we just need to be patient.

Your temp went back up today. Woohoo! Good luck!!!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

yeah hcg back to under 5. got the ok to bd. hoping for dh sake we get pregnant again now. he really wants to do all this naturally. if af comes then we are back to using meds.

I have everything crossed for you baby!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Hi ladies, sorry have been quiet, have been busy these last few days! I too am in 2ww, 7dpo today. Rather anxious & not particularly hopeful...
Nice to hear from you & hear how you all are. Hang in there! xx

Good luck to you kittykan! fingers crossed!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Dovkav thats sounds very promising ive got everything crossed
for u...r u doing a test today??

Kittykan wondered where u had gone ha ha think positive hun at least your busy so takes your mind of it abit i got fx for u too.

Well so much for these bloody sickness bands i jinx myself yesterday saying ive not been sick as 4 this morning me and the toilet had some major words ha all good signs tho so im told hmmm

Wow, you're right on cue with morning sickness! Even though it sucks, it's SOOO exciting at the same time!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Dovkav thats sounds very promising ive got everything crossed
for u...r u doing a test today??

Kittykan wondered where u had gone ha ha think positive hun at least your busy so takes your mind of it abit i got fx for u too.

Well so much for these bloody sickness bands i jinx myself yesterday saying ive not been sick as 4 this morning me and the toilet had some major words ha all good signs tho so im told hmmm

BFN this morning, but the witch is not here yet..
We are going to RE tomorrow, enough natural cycles, we need some medical help. My dh wants to wait for a few months. Because I am doing something right, I am healing, my periods are smoother, my PmS are gone and migranes too.I disagree! We're getting gray hair and there is no time to wait.

I agree with you on this! No time to wait. I will be the same way here soon.

 

[babybemine]

In the 2ww. Got a few good days of BD before O date. Hope it was good enough. On a BD restriction as DH poked his finger with a dirty needle at work and he is on meds for that. Hopefully the BD we did do was good enough. FX.

 

[dovkav123]

Trolley, thank you for you support. Your good news keeps me very inspired every day that my turn will come if I can only be patient. Sorry the wristbands are not stopping the sickness 100%. I know my friend did say they helped her a lot, though.

I bought that book The Secret since you had mentioned it. I had heard about it form other friends but never really thought about getting it until now. Trying to practice positive thinking

Dov, I am sorry about BFN. Trolley is probably right though. Maybe these weird ups and downs in our symptoms are a positive sign of activity. You seem to have a very good attitude and are doing all the right things for your body though so I have a good feeling about your chances of great news soon.

my cycle is very regular 27 days and a very average (rarely ever on the heavy side) period. sometimes i feel so frustrated to have all the right "tools" but feel like having the surgery "broke" me. But I know there's still lots of good options left to me to have a family so I try not to let myself dwell on those thoughts.

kitty, ttcbabyisom, mangotango and baby! good luck!

ttcbabyisom . . . excited for your good chart! you sound very healthy and relaxed. congrats on the weight loss and the exercising more. i think it's good for mental health, too, releasing all those happy chemicals. lots of baby dust to you!

Hi girls,
THank you for sending good preg vibes! I am sending you back! I have tested 12 and 13 dpo and BFN. We went to RE, we are skipping LAP and we are talking about natural IVF in August. Have anybody you know have done natural IVf? I am having diagnostic Hysteroscopy done on July 12th. Have you ever had this procedure?
Big plans! But I am not out yet! My LH is always on day 16 or 17 not earlier, not later. Today is day 17 I am expecting period today. Since yesterday night I am having crazy cramping, this morning continous cramping with a burning sensation. I have my pad in and nothing....yet. The cramping bussiness without AF is something strange and new for me.
My temp is down today, but it was down for 2 times this month. I had O pain on the right side on CD12 and O pain on the left on CD 13. Did I released two eggs? My RE checked my progesterone and estrogen on CD25 and the numbers were great! My chart shows I O and the blood test too!
Please think about me today all day, and hopefully AF won't show up

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Trolley, thank you for you support. Your good news keeps me very inspired every day that my turn will come if I can only be patient. Sorry the wristbands are not stopping the sickness 100%. I know my friend did say they helped her a lot, though.

I bought that book The Secret since you had mentioned it. I had heard about it form other friends but never really thought about getting it until now. Trying to practice positive thinking

Dov, I am sorry about BFN. Trolley is probably right though. Maybe these weird ups and downs in our symptoms are a positive sign of activity. You seem to have a very good attitude and are doing all the right things for your body though so I have a good feeling about your chances of great news soon.

my cycle is very regular 27 days and a very average (rarely ever on the heavy side) period. sometimes i feel so frustrated to have all the right "tools" but feel like having the surgery "broke" me. But I know there's still lots of good options left to me to have a family so I try not to let myself dwell on those thoughts.

kitty, ttcbabyisom, mangotango and baby! good luck!

ttcbabyisom . . . excited for your good chart! you sound very healthy and relaxed. congrats on the weight loss and the exercising more. i think it's good for mental health, too, releasing all those happy chemicals. lots of baby dust to you!

Hi girls,
THank you for sending good preg vibes! I am sending you back! I have tested 12 and 13 dpo and BFN. We went to RE, we are skipping LAP and we are talking about natural IVF in August. Have anybody you know have done natural IVf? I am having diagnostic Hysteroscopy done on July 12th. Have you ever had this procedure?
Big plans! But I am not out yet! My LH is always on day 16 or 17 not earlier, not later. Today is day 17 I am expecting period today. Since yesterday night I am having crazy cramping, this morning continous cramping with a burning sensation. I have my pad in and nothing....yet. The cramping bussiness without AF is something strange and new for me.
My temp is down today, but it was down for 2 times this month. I had O pain on the right side on CD12 and O pain on the left on CD 13. Did I released two eggs? My RE checked my progesterone and estrogen on CD25 and the numbers were great! My chart shows I O and the blood test too!
Please think about me today all day, and hopefully AF won't show up

Best of luck to you sweetie!!!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

My temp took a nosedive which means I'll get AF today. This stinks! I was truly feeling so positive and instinctly pregnant this time. I'm done listening to my "gut". Apparently mine's not right. I'm tired of all of this. I want to be done "trying".

 

[dovkav123]

My temp took a nosedive which means I'll get AF today. This stinks! I was truly feeling so positive and instinctly pregnant this time. I'm done listening to my "gut". Apparently mine's not right. I'm tired of all of this. I want to be done "trying".

I disagree! We are still in! It hasn't showed up. That sh###t ....is gone for 9 months.

 

[KittyKan]

Oh I feel for you, but stick with it ttcbabyism. Dont give up, we all feel like that but we've got to hang in there. xx

 

[panda fan]

My temp took a nosedive which means I'll get AF today. This stinks! I was truly feeling so positive and instinctly pregnant this time. I'm done listening to my "gut". Apparently mine's not right. I'm tired of all of this. I want to be done "trying".

sorry you are feeling frustrated today, always hard when hopes are high and it feels so close to happening, but it will! it will!

 

[panda fan]

Big plans! But I am not out yet! My LH is always on day 16 or 17 not earlier, not later. Today is day 17 I am expecting period today. Since yesterday night I am having crazy cramping, this morning continous cramping with a burning sensation. I have my pad in and nothing....yet. The cramping bussiness without AF is something strange and new for me.
My temp is down today, but it was down for 2 times this month. I had O pain on the right side on CD12 and O pain on the left on CD 13. Did I released two eggs? My RE checked my progesterone and estrogen on CD25 and the numbers were great! My chart shows I O and the blood test too!
Please think about me today all day, and hopefully AF won't show up

I agree too many mixed signals to call it, hoping AF stays away!!