33yr ttc#2 - buddies needed!!!

[towwife14]

It still hurts when he pushes me off though.

 

[Daisies11]

Cupcake everything is so true what you said, we have to continue to live our lives and enjoy them. It really saddens me though. I went to concerts when I was a teenager to see pop bands and loved it, my parents would have waved me off to the bus stop or given me a lift and I'm sure they wouldn't have really worried. I was a good kid (in the most part) my friends were all good kids, they knew we were going to go off, watch a band we liked and have a good time together. It scares me to think that in 12 years time I'll have a 14 year old (same age when I started going to concerts) and what will his world be? Will I be able to rest easy if he goes to a concert, football match or the cinema? I hope so, because I want my children to be able to do the things I did and enjoyed, and don't want to restrict them from doing things because of fear of what could happen to them in the world, but how do you allow your most precious, cherished loved ones that freedom in a world where a small (thankfully) minority do such awful things?

On a different note, good luck with bd tow!

 

[Sander]

Just curious where you're all from? Everytime I log on it's like everyone's been so busy throughout the night! I'm from Canada, Pacific Time

 

[JessyG]

I have lost the plot. I bought another pregnancy test and took it. I have been saving a clearblue digi for sat as i want to see a 3+ before i will relax a bit. I dunno what cane over me i just bought a cheap one and took the test!

 

[happycupcake]

Cupcake everything is so true what you said, we have to continue to live our lives and enjoy them. It really saddens me though. I went to concerts when I was a teenager to see pop bands and loved it, my parents would have waved me off to the bus stop or given me a lift and I'm sure they wouldn't have really worried. I was a good kid (in the most part) my friends were all good kids, they knew we were going to go off, watch a band we liked and have a good time together. It scares me to think that in 12 years time I'll have a 14 year old (same age when I started going to concerts) and what will his world be? Will I be able to rest easy if he goes to a concert, football match or the cinema? I hope so, because I want my children to be able to do the things I did and enjoyed, and don't want to restrict them from doing things because of fear of what could happen to them in the world, but how do you allow your most precious, cherished loved ones that freedom in a world where a small (thankfully) minority do such awful things?

On a different note, good luck with bd tow!

If you think about it, there has always been a small minority of people committing the most awful crimes. Look at the sheer amount of serial killers there's been over time. I know terrorists attack groups and mass murder, but there has always been evil in the world, be it ISIS or Ted Bundy. There will always be someone.
When I was a teen I would go out all hours by myself and when I think back now, I must have been crazy. There's risk around every corner, but you can't allow that to stop you or your children from living how you want to and being happy. The likelihood of you or your children being in one of those places at the wrong time is tiny. If we hide away because of things like this then they have won

 

[happycupcake]

I have lost the plot. I bought another pregnancy test and took it. I have been saving a clearblue digi for sat as i want to see a 3+ before i will relax a bit. I dunno what cane over me i just bought a cheap one and took the test!

How did the test look? I would wait to use the digi until you are 5 weeks

 

[happycupcake]

Just curious where you're all from? Everytime I log on it's like everyone's been so busy throughout the night! I'm from Canada, Pacific Time

I'm from the UK

Why didn't I multiquote instead lol

 

[JessyG]

It was as dark as the control line which was very dark aswell which i know is a good sign.

I should be 5 weeks friday so wanted to use it sat or sun! I need to fix that ticker of mine.

 

[happycupcake]

Yes I think that's a good plan. I love the elephant ticker, by the way. It's so pretty

 

[citrusfruit]

Where are you Kim?! How did it go today?!

I'm in the UK

Jessy I don't blame you for testing I did absolutely loads with my first. I did stop when I ran out but I had quite a few lol.

 

[towwife14]

Just curious where you're all from? Everytime I log on it's like everyone's been so busy throughout the night! I'm from Canada, Pacific Time

I'm from Virginia. Eastern Standard Time here. It's 4:12 in the afternoon and work is dragging..

 

[curiousowl]

Nice OPK citrus! Go get some! You too towwife 😊

 

[curiousowl]

Sander, I definitely said I felt pregnant during the TWW with my DD but I also said that last cycle and I definitely wasn't pregnant sooo.

I'm right near D.C. But currently we're visiting family in CA.

 

[ladders]

Hey ladies sorry iv been absent we are decorating the spare room so dd can move into it and out her cot and into a proper bed! It's been taking all my time uo last few days but nearly done. Wanted to get her in and settled before baby comes and I clearly have exceeded that as she has 9 months + plus an eternity of ttc to settle!

Cupcake I'm sorry about your daughter I'm sure it won't hold her or any of your children back, they have a fantastic rolemodel in yourself and they are cared for and loved, what more could they wish for!

And on your chart I think you have ov and my temps get artificially high when iv had a bad nights sleep!

Jessy I'm with you about Monday night, kept crying at work as i saw the pictures of the people missing and their family trying to find them. I think thing's like that affect me so much more now I'm a parent because I honestly don't think I could live if I lost my dd. I can't imagine how people are feeling now, it's horrendous and senseless and to target children and young people is beyond evil. I know we all say we are not afraid and we stand together but honestly i am afraid. Iv been nervous at going to busy place previously because of terror attacks and now i feel i don't want to take dd anywhere busy now.*

Kim I'm so so excited for you!!!! I can't see much but I'm on my phone and i know from when I took pics of my opks when faint they didn't show up on picture! Have you tested again today?

Citrus your opks look darker than mine at ovulation lol, hope the bd going well!!!

Sorry iv missed people out it's hard after a couple of days away!!! Love this group think we are the most talky of them all 😍😍😍

 

[towwife14]

Sander, I definitely said I felt pregnant during the TWW with my DD but I also said that last cycle and I definitely wasn't pregnant sooo.

I'm right near D.C. But currently we're visiting family in CA.

Curious we're so close to each other! That's so cool!

 

[curiousowl]

Sander, I definitely said I felt pregnant during the TWW with my DD but I also said that last cycle and I definitely wasn't pregnant sooo.

I'm right near D.C. But currently we're visiting family in CA.

Curious we're so close to each other! That's so cool!

Oh cool! We're on the MD side.

DH has been job hunting in CA for a while since both our families are here and we want to get DD near them.

 

[towwife14]

Oh wow, that's definitely a long move, but it will be good for DD and grandparents to be close. We're about 4 hours away from DC, but I've been though DC and MD with hubby for work. It's nice up there.

 

[ladders]

Curious i love that you have your chart in your sig I love stalking charts!!!

Towwife I'm sorry you have issues with dh sex drive. I don't often iniate sex as dh has a higher drive than me but if I do and he says no or doesn't respond I feel crap and struggle to sleep, think my neurosis gets the better of me. Think it's hard because people always think a man should always be up for it and that's not always the case

 

[Hopfl4bbynbr4]

I haven't read through yet but I will. This is today's test. I tried to get a picture of the line. It's still super faint but I can see it better today without squinting and turning it to look at different angles I'm still not convinced though. We'll see what tomorrow's test brings and then I'll see if I get excited or not. I really want to try the frer but I don't know how sensitive the curved ones are. The Pregmate ic's I'm using now are 25miu and I do see the line better today. I'm about to go get a haircut then I'll read through and reply. I just wanted to know if any of you could see the line too?

 

[happycupcake]

Who said they are from Virginia? I totally read that as vagina, I had to say lol

Ladders, thank you

Kim! I see it on those! The curved FRER is said to be 6.5miu.

Sorry but I had to...
Look at your tweaked photo