33yr ttc#2 - buddies needed!!!

I had to make an appointment with my midwives for a follow up PAP smear (the tried to do one during AF but it came back weird). It's next week so I think I will bring up my concerns about my LP: generally only 11 days, not able to get a positive on the progesterone tests. See what they have to say and when I should worry.
 
Thanks for your reassurance guys.
Rics, what day dof you usually ovulate on?
Cupcake, what dpo do you start testing on?

I'm 8dop and no symptoms really. Light cramping/pinching. Not painful at all just a bit aware of it.
 
Curious, eat Brazil nuts. They help increase progesterone because they contain high amounts of selenium. Eat 5-6 each day, especially during the luteal phase. I have looked into it a lot and it does make sense, they do contain a huge amount of selenium, usually the advice is 1-2 nuts each day and this is plenty to see an overall improvement in health, but for those ttc, 5-6 each day is recommended. I'm doing that this cycle and have been for almost all of it so far. As well as the pumpkin seeds and almonds and probiotic yoghurts. I have to say, probiotic drinks, yoghurts or supplements are vital for good gut health, which in turn is essential for balanced hormones.
Also acupuncture is excellent for regulating cycles and helping hormones balance. My cycles have felt better since having acupuncture. My temps also seem more level. So much so, I only want it for anxiety now.
Isn't agnus cactus meant to help too? I'm sure I have read it helps.

Sadako, I usually start testing at about 7dpo but previously have tested from about 6dpo because I'm a weirdo and know I won't see a positive that early, but I do it anyway because I can't help myself lol

I don't know what is with me today, but I have felt over emotional all day from the moment I woke. Someone almost copped an unfortunate one from me earlier as well but instead I just walked through town crying all the way home and then cried some incoherent rubbish to my husband about the awful woman I encountered and then did some meditation and fell asleep. I think I'm over tired, but I'm hoping it's a sign progesterone is higher this cycle
 
Thanks for your reassurance guys.
Rics, what day dof you usually ovulate on?
Cupcake, what dpo do you start testing on?

I'm 8dop and no symptoms really. Light cramping/pinching. Not painful at all just a bit aware of it.
Well the last few cycles it's been on cd21 but I've been taking evening primrose oil this cycle and I've read it can make you ov sooner?? Had brown ewcm tonight too🤔🤔
 
Thanks cupcake! I will try Brazil nuts. I'm leery of angus cactus (vitex) because I've heard so many people say it messed up their regular cycles. I did try it before because I wasn't Oing at all post-pill and I did start to O, not sure if that's the reason or my body just got it together.
 
I have heard some say their cycles were longer, but I haven't tried it myself so I couldn't comment on that. It seems to be popular though. How long have you had a short lp for?
 
I have heard some say their cycles were longer, but I haven't tried it myself so I couldn't comment on that. It seems to be popular though. How long have you had a short lp for?
Since I got my cycle back when DD was 6ish months. She's 2 now. I definitely don't want to make my ovulation any later!
 
I have heard some say their cycles were longer, but I haven't tried it myself so I couldn't comment on that. It seems to be popular though. How long have you had a short lp for?
Since I got my cycle back when DD was 6ish months. She's 2 now. I definitely don't want to make my ovulation any later!

Remind me, when do you usually ovulate? And you temp, are your temps within an average range for both follicular and luteal phases?
Do you have any symptoms of hormonal imbalance? Extreme PMS, ewcm in your luteal phase, lack of ewcm or fertile cm around ovulation, anxiety, depression...? These are some, there are more, I can't remember them. Your lp is short but still within an ok range - anything shorter would be more of a worry. Obviously all of those symptoms could be unrelated but hormones play a huge role in how we are mentally as well as physically and obviously when it comes to ttc.
A few other symptoms like sore boobs and cramping many women see anyway and aren't any indication of a problem. But if you feel you show some signs then get it checked out, definitely. You want a blood test done about a week before your period but they can also test saliva and urine.

Fertility Friend confirmed ovulation today for CD12. Yay for red lines :)
 

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I normally O around CD19 and my temps seem normal. FF tells me I'm 95% consistent. I have a couples signs but not too many, which is great! I don't want to borrow trouble, we've only been trying 2 months so still well within normal. But even FF says if your LP is 10 or 11 days and you've had a couple months of good timing it's worth mentioning to a dr. That with the fact that I can't get a positive on the urine progesterone tests and needed progesterone with DD worries me slightly. Doesn't hurt to bring it up since I'll be there.
 
Curious, many women don't have any obvious signs, or anything out of the ordinary for them, so it goes unnoticed. The fact you had to have it with your daughter makes me think it's quite possible you may require it now. It certainly doesn't hurt to ask :)

Anyone here know how long it's ok to drink raspberry leaf tea for? I have read different information online regarding its safety during early pregnancy. Apparently some think it can make the uterus contract too much and cause miscarriage, some say it's fine. It's good for strengthening the uterine muscle and regulating cycle as well as helping with mood swings and other PMS symptoms. I drink between 1-3 cups each day. The cup is almost the size of my head, mind lol it's caffeine-free, so there aren't any worries there. I'm wondering whether I ought to stop drinking it in a couple of days
 
Cupcake I remember reading when I was pregnant with ds that it should be avoided until later on in pregnancy because of the reason you say. Could you try a different fruit tea? Maybe raspberry and mango or something? Then you still get your cuppa but don't have to worry about any possible risk.
 
What does raspberry leaf tea taste like?
9dpo and no symptoms bar a bit of light cramping in the middle of last night which may or may not have been gas related :haha:
BFN this afternoon. With my DD I got a BFP at 10dpo. But that was with a frer and I've only got IC at the mo! I'm getting nervous to take my temp incase it's dropped although it's stayed up so far. I have a lp of 11 days so at least I should be out of my misery by Friday!
 
Daisies, thank you. This is what I'm leaning towards too. I think I will leave it from now onwards. I only had 2 cups today which I feel is safe considering I'm only 3dpo, but I won't push it further as I read too many uterine contractions can hinder implantation and I do seem to cramp more than I'd like during my lp anyway.
I have lemon & ginger and peppermint tea as well, so will switch to these instead :)

Sadako, it's ok actually! It surprised me when I first tried it, I didn't think it would be nice but it's ok. It doesn't taste of leaves (iPad autocorrect that to old leaves lol!), but it doesn't taste much of raspberry as well. It's hard to describe! It's red, it tastes of red. Lol. I don't know how to describe it.
ICs don't always show positive early for everyone so I wouldn't worry, and also I think it depends on which ICs they are too
 
Sadako - hope you get a BFP soon! I had to tell DH to hide the hpt's until af is due because I go crazy symptom spotting and peeing on everything haha.

Cupcake - I don't know anything about raspberry tea but I love green tea (decaf)

Today the OPK is a lot darker but not quite there yet. It looks like the one I read after the shower last week. This time I set a 5 minute timer haha. So we BD today - I had a question though, I'm seeing creamy cm, no EWCM yet. I can stretch the creamy cm maaaaybe 2 centimetres (1/4") but that's about it. I usually get EWCM for a few days and with the OPK getting darker I'm just not sure if I won't have EWCM this cycle or if it's just too early. If anyone has ideas :p

Oh and used Pre-Seed for the first time, seemed to work well!
 
I don't like green tea except for when it's mixed with regular tea. You have to be spot on brewing it though, don't you?
I think perhaps that's the start of ewcm? Are you dehydrated? When I wasn't drinking much water each day I wasn't seeing ewcm, when I started drinking at least 1.5L+ (I aim for 2L) it started appearing so perhaps you could try drinking more?
 
So my temp is down very slightly but I've had light brown cm when I wiped this morning so I think this is the beginning of the end. And even earlier than usual as I don't normally spot until the 11dpo.
BFN at 10dpo.
 
So my temp is down very slightly but I've had light brown cm when I wiped this morning so I think this is the beginning of the end. And even earlier than usual as I don't normally spot until the 11dpo.
BFN at 10dpo.

Aw, damn. You're definitely not out until AF is here but sorry, I know that feeling sucks.
 
I can't lie, I'm gutted! Thought we'd timed things really well this time. Oh well!
 
Sadako I'm with you. I've been getting BFN and realized what I thought could be an implantation dip in my chart happens every month... great. I didn't want to get upset about it but I am! TTCing is the worst :hug:

Feeling out over here. I'm only 8dpo but no implantation symptoms really. I had what looks like an implantation dip but it's just a more extreme version of a small dip I get in my chart every month. I had so much nausea last night it was horrible. BFNs though. We only dtd once this month three days before O, since we're swaying for a girl, so the odds are NOT even good. And weirdly I'm not even like desperate to be pregnant, if that makes sense? I think I'm mostly just so nervous or scared that it will take months and months like it did last time. It was awful
 

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