35 and over and ltttc for baby #2 for over 2.5yrs!

Thanks wish. They tested me and found out im anemic so started me on more iron, I hope that helps the legs. I desperately need sleep.
And yes Clomid or any treatment makes one so hopeful and it can make it extra crushing in the end. I sometimes just tear up randomly thinking of all that pain. I dont know how religious anyone here is but I love "the pain that you've been feeling, can't compare to the joy that's coming" actually I've made a video documenting our journey. I plan to finish once they're here but I'll share the link of what I have so far, it may help encourage some of you ladies. Always in my thoughts!
 
Also I'm going to delete that link once you've seen it, it does have my face and name
 
Lanet - I am so moved by your video - thank you so much for sharing it with us...
God is so good :hugs2:
 
Aw, lanet, that video made me tear up a little. So happy for you. Also, you look amazing, your wedding pictures were beautiful, and your DD is adorable.
 
Hello ladies, how are you all?

Sorry for lack of contact but I was away for the last 5 days for a family celebration but now happy to be home (was a LOT of driving for 2 days). Unfortunately I've come back with a bit of a bug. I don't feel terrible but was SO achy and sore last night and so have been on tylenol and advil most of today and the aches seem ok but tummy still not quite right.... I'm really hoping a good night's sleep tonight will help things and I will wake up feeling much better!!

Lanet any chance you could re-post your vid? I would LOVE to see it! If you'd rather not maybe you could attach it in a private message if you like or can. If not that's ok, I understand. I really hope the extra iron helps you and your legs feel better and you can get some much needed sleep!

Tommy - Yay!! I am so excited all good for IUI #2.... what stage are you at? How are you feeling about things?

Wish - how are you doing? Did AF show up? Sorry if she did...:growlmad::af::gun:

Braven - how did the Dr's appt go?

Eyemom how are things going? Thinking of you and hope you are getting some sleep! :)

Gemmy - how are you? Are you still lurking?

Cali - how are you doing?

Hi to everyone else and sorry if I have missed anyone!

AFM: Well as for TTC this month I had lots and lots of EWCM on Sunday and amazingly managed to DTD although I'm not really expecting much.... We had both had quite a few drinks(!) so I'm sure that won't help things and we haven't done it since.... I think that perhaps I o'd yesterday but not 100% sure as didn't have my usual ovulation pain or anything really other than this bug I have, so it could have been yesterday but possibly also today..... I did have a weird thing this evening but will spare you the details as is far TMI!! Anyway with the way I feel there is no chance of DTD tonight so most likely this month is out. I might take my temp in the morning but really there's nothing I can do at this point so it's fairly pointless other than to confirm if my temp is my usual post-o temp...

Anyway hugs to you all :hugs:
 
Hello Ladies

Orchard I really hope you are in with a shout this month. Was the family visit good?

Lanet I managed to catch a glimpse of your video. It is very well put together. Hope the iron tabs make you feel a bit better.

Wish how are you doing? Can you shoot Auntie Flo of her broomstick?

Eyemom, Cali are you both managing to sort Christmas while looking after babies as well as tots?

AFM IUI round 2. This time they are trying upping the dosage of gonalf. So we'll see how that works. If I'm being really honest while it's another cycle I'm too frightening to have hope incase something goes wrong and its Abandoned. Counting my lucky stars it ain't my wallet getting hit. However decided to avoid caffeine and see what difference it makes if any.
We need a bfp on this thread who's going to get it?
 
Hellooooo ladies! Oh boy. I'm going to try to get myself up to speed a little. I started to go back to where I first kinda fell off the radar, but that was pretty far back at this point! So I went back a week-ish. I apologize in advance for whatever I miss.

About the Christmas discussion, I have done literally no shopping so far. Doesn't help that we'll be a little strapped this year. Excited for the season, but there were all these other big things that had to happen before Christmas, I'm just where I can even get my brain to go there. Since tomorrow is Thanksgiving in the US (edit: ok today by the time I could finish the post) and the unofficial kickoff to the Christmas season, hopefully that'll get me more in the spirit! I really need to start shopping though since DD1 is actually big enough to care what she gets now.... >_>

Also, FTR, I think a scooter sounds awesome. :winkwink: I kinda want a mandolin. The instrument, not the kitchen tool. (I'd want the mandoline/kitchen tool, but I'm certain I'd kill myself on it :haha:) I'll probably just ask for money to go toward a baby carrier. I have a toddler Tula, but I'd love a regular Tula.

LOL Wishie the Walgreens As Seen on TV things. Haha my DH would be totally the same. If not that then everyone would get an Amazon gift card in their email like a week before Christmas or something hehe. Sorry the Clomid makes you a bit "clomotional" (lol love that word though), but that's great that it makes you feel more like normal. I guess AF got you. Booo so sorry. :(

Hi Braven, hope you're doing ok. I'm gonna echo the other ladies...be proud of what you've accomplished! You are doing great. :thumbup::thumbup::thumbup: Surely they would recognize your efforts. Plus I kinda think there's only so much you can do in a short period of time and be healthy about it ya know? Sorry that the insurance issue is adding to your stress. :( Just keep doing the good things you're doing...I'm so hopeful for you.

Cali, my DD1 (I can't get used to typing that!) loves My Little Pony too. The others you mentioned she's not really into yet. The thing my DD sees on TV that she really wants is this Palace Pets dancing puppy thing. She's also been asking for some Doc McStuffins thing, but lucky for us my parents got it ages ago before she even saw it and wanted it. :)

tommy I agree it'd be fun to have everyone together sometime...shame we're all spread out. My daughter will be 4 in Feb. I keep forgetting your DS is just one week older than my DD. Always feels weird to be happy about one of you getting AF, but heeyyyyy bring on that successful IUI cycle!!! Oh and that massive pile of snow didn't affect me either, thank goodness!

Orchid, glad your test results came back good! Hope you're feeling better.

lanet, oh I hate that you've been unable to sleep. I had some insomnia in the first trimester mostly, and that was brutal, but I at least got 3-4 hours of sleep. Not being able to sleep is the worst so I really hope that improves for you VERY soon. Do you feel any different with the iron? I had to take iron too this time around. I would recommend adding a magnesium supplement too. :blush:

Hi mwb how are you doing? Ughhhhhh I hate those odd long cycles. Anyone would have gotten her hopes up! Sooo sorry about the BFN.

Anyhoo, AFM, I'm learning to juggle life with two kiddos! DD2 was 3 weeks old yesterday. I can hardly even believe it. She's a really good baby. We called DD1 our easy mode baby, but this one might take that title from her. I'm super tired, but she's starting to sleep for longer stretches every few nights, so I hope that's the start of something. DD1 really really adores her baby sister. She has been acting out some, but I really think it'll be a phase. Her attitude is really positive about having a sister, it's just an adjustment. Sometimes I feel really bad because I can't figure out how to split my time just right. And DD1 is quite articulate so she can really twist the knife sometimes. We'll get the hang of it though.

I go back to work on the Saturday after Christmas. I changed up my hours because I've been let go from my private practice. They called me up a couple of days after I got home from the hospital to let me know they're bringing in some friend of theirs who's moving in from out of state. I actually suspect it's their nephew, which I knew was a possibility at some point, but I didn't ask. I think if I really tried to pin them down for a reason (other than that they'd just rather have their friend/relative), they'd say I didn't seem interested in buying in, but I didn't really know how much I in my position should be driving that discussion (and it's not what I said last time we did discuss it), and I didn't want to do anything either until I knew what their nephew was going to do (which may have proved to be a wise move on my part). So anyway, that sort of sucks, and I'm stressed about money, but on the other hand, I'm kind of relieved and I'm considering it a blessing because I don't think they're bad people, but they're kind of unorganized and bad at communication. I'm not pinned down by a non-compete anymore, so IF anything actually comes up in this saturated town, my options are wide open. It's trickier because I don't want to expand my job search too far geographically because I'm not gonna move, and I'm eager to get home to my babies when I get off work...so not willing to have a long commute. So where I'm working now, maybe I didn't want to be there forever, and I still hope I'm not, but it's not super long hours, so maybe it's good for this season of life. As long as we can keep paying the bills.

LOTS of baby dust to you all. :dust: I hope and pray you all get BFPs for Christmas! :xmas12: Happy Thanksgiving to the US ladies! <3 <3 <3
 
Hey tommy I just saw your last post. I'm not at all managing Christmas yet, but I've accepted the fact that this year I am a procrastinator! I did order that palace pets thing though. It was starting to sell out online at some places, there were 3rd party people selling it for insane amounts of money on Amazon, and none of the black friday ads had any special deal on it, so I just ordered it from Walmart for the normal price. I don't think she'll be disappointed with anything else she gets, so the pressure is mostly off! And at least DD2 is easy to shop for this year, haha.

I want to see lots of BFPs! [-o&lt;[-o&lt;[-o&lt;[-o&lt;
 
It's gone so quiet on here?! How are all my lovely ladies doing? Happy belated Thanksgiving to all of you in the States - I hope you had a wonderful day. Big hugs xxx
 
Eyemom hope you get the job front sorted when you are ready. Tbh I think it must be really difficult to juggle 2 children and a full time job. Can't believe DD is 3 weeks already. But glad she is being a good baby for you.

Orchard how are you? Any signs of anything in the 2ww?

Hello all you other lovely ladies.

Afm This is CD8 scan on Tuesday.
 
I can't imagine having to go back to work so soon and admire you so much for it Eyemom! My head would be all over the place!!! It took me probably a good 3 years to get over my baby brain but i'm still forgetful at times!!

Tommy - I am excited for you. I understand your hesitation of getting your hopes up but I am going to be excited for you!! :hugs:

AFM: Nope nothing to report. Roughly 5dpo I think..... maybe 4. Had some creamy CM yesterday and a touch of EWCM. I would of got my hopes up about that as I used to have zero CM in the 2ww but for the last few months I have so really doesn't mean anything although I wonder why I have now started getting that when for years nothing?! The touch of EWCM 3 or 4 dpo seems to also becoming a regular thing. Anyway I'm honestly not expecting anything this month... we only DTD once around O. Thankfully I am super busy now so can't dwell on anything.

Hope everyone else is doing well xxx
 
:xmas8::xmas8::xmas8::hi: everyone!!

BTW if you don't celebrate thanksgiving - I hope you had a great weekend anyway!!!:haha:

Orchid - when is AF due? any more symptoms? I sure hope you get your miracle BFP before January!!! that would be sooooo cooooolll!!! :hugs2:Hope you had a great Thanksgiving!!

tommy - you have got to be getting close to your next IUI??? right? I sure hope so - you and Orchid can be bump buddies :friends:Hope you had a great Thanksgiving!!

eyemom - it is so good to hear from you... I know your busy and all but I just love hearing about your newest little princess... how is big sis doing? Handling her new duties ok? and GAH about the work thing... you sound like you are taking being let go in stride... I always think everyone else handles things so much better than I would!! I am sorry you have to go back to work so soon... the US needs to get with the program regarding maternity leave... the army is no better though for a regular delivery I would get six weeks (c-section 8 weeks) and that's it!!!
I am glad to see that things are going well for your new family of 4!! Hope you had a great Thanksgiving!!

:hi: Lanet - are you any better - getting any kind of sleep??? I sure hope so... Hope you had a great Thanksgiving too!!! :)

:howdy: to everyone else!!

AFM: I really didn't have a thanksgiving meal to speak of (subway) - I was road tripping with my oldest to Georgia - taking her to her new job that started today... lots of tears on Sunday when we said good-bye... I just hated leaving her... and she hated me leaving... :cry:
She called me this afternoon to tell me how great her day was - I was SO RELIEVED!!:happydance::happydance:
I didn't realize how stressed out I was about her move until she called to tell me how awesome her new job is and I was overcome with tears... I could hear her happiness/relief in her voice... a weight has been lifted... I am so proud of her for taking this step - it is so scary moving across country by yourself... scary for mom too... :blush:

anyway - cd7 here - managed to screw up my clomid already - forgot to start it on the correct date... so I was pretty upset with myself... so who knows if this cycle will be worth anything or not... :growlmad:
I cannot believe it is December 1st... unbelievable...:haha:
 
Thanks tommy. :-) It won't be quite full time, but that office isn't really busy enough right now for it to be worth being there more hours. From a financial standpoint, I'd probably need to work more if I could, but I don't want to sit in my office with nothing to do when I could be with my girls. When I chose this career path, I thought I could make a decent living working part time, which was a definite perk/selling point. I'm just not sure if that will be the reality when I factor in student debt.

Sorry I've lost track but what's your status with your IUI cycle now?

Hi Orchid! Yeah it sucks to go back, but I'm actually getting a little more time this time. :-\ I'm not going to be ready though! Ugh I need to start pumping too. Even if I had paid time off though, I'd lose my patient base in my absence, so I'd be up a creek when I went back. How are you doing?
 
Whoa I missed wish's post! Not ignoring you I'll have to catch up later!
 
Quick reply from me tonight. Got scan tomorrow morning CD11 so all going well iui could be later this week.
 
Eek, how exciting!!! Will wait patiently (or not so!) for news tomorrow after your scan x
 
Just wanted to say hello to everyone! Hope those of you who celebrate it had a good Thanksgiving!
 
Hi Wish! Big sis is doing okay. She has uhhh had some attention-seeking behavior. But she LOVES to help. Anytime baby gets slightly fussy, she's like, "My sister wants me!" and tries to run to her aid hehe.

I was kinda ticked about the work thing at first. Not so much the being let go part, though the timing sucks. And I was just sort of planning out my strategy for getting there full-time...though truthfully I didn't feel good about it, just didn't see any alternative. I just think they handled it badly. The office manager (who happens to be the owner doc's wife) said she was going to tell me about it if I'd gone in to work the next day, but I think that's a load of bullpoo tbh. They knew about it and put the discussion off in hopes that they wouldn't have to do it in person. That's what I think. Being kinda relieved and open to new possibilities makes it easier to take it somewhat in stride! The thing that bothers me now is what people will think about me leaving. I hope they don't think it was a competence thing because it wasn't at all.

Subway for Thanksgiving...did you at least get a turkey sandwich?? :haha: That's hard to let your baby girl go...I'm already dreading the day! But you can be a proud mama knowing she's doing her thing and enjoying it! And you have somewhere warmer to visit when the weather is crappy! ;)

Hope 1 day late on the Clomid doesn't hurt anything. Maybe not! Maybe it's just what you needed for whatever odd reason. Good luck!!!

tommy, eagerly awaiting your update!

Hi braven, thanks for popping in! Hope you're doing okay.

:hugs: ladies
 

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