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[AyaChan]

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[FayDanielle]

I know how you feel hun, My boyfriend has been a complete ass to me a few times over the last 4 years, but I always go running back.
Men think were stupid, I always know the truth before he even tells me!

I'd just ask him straight outright, face to face, watch his reaction, you'll be pretty sure if hes lying by the reaction.
xx

 

[AyaChan]

i've tried that so many times and he always worms his way out of it.
he like makes me feel guilty and turns it back on me being all "you know i love you. why would you even accuse me of that when you know how much i love you"

 

[FayDanielle]

You shouldnt be made to feel guilty, even if he hasnt cheated, theres something or someone telling you that he has, and thats pretty stressful in itself. Ive been through it a few times hun, Ive had to fight for my boyfriend on one occasion when he met a girl from cornwall (half way down the country from me) and ended our relationship 18 month for this girl, he'd known 2 days! I fought, and I fought hard, he came running back. But my god, the pain and the stress, I didnt know if he was worth it at the time!!

But thats your babies father, if hes cheating, he doesnt deserve you or your little one.

I know its hard what to believe, but dont let him, no matter what he does, turn it back on you. Your the innocent party in the situation xx

 

[debsxhim]

Im sorry hun.
My opinion is that a girl, or guy will say just about anything they can just to make someone mad. It could be some girl that liked him, some ex, some boy who doesn't get along with him and etc. If you know the person, you should ask them why they don't mind their own business because it has nothing to do with them! If you've had trust problems with him in the past, this is probably just digging them all up and making you think. I know how it is with thinking things like that, and have had my suspcions about ex's, especially after some of the things the girls said, but whatever you decide to do, make sure its based on YOUR opinion, and what you want instead of some other persons who could be trying to pull you apart. Relationships are supossed to get harder once you have a child, so you might have to take a few emotional punches to get through it. Im here to talk if you want.

 

[pansylove]

I know how u feel hun I get people doing this all the time to me. My OH is in a band so I get girls emailing me like 'just wanted to tell you I got with your bf on his tour, thought I should tell u cus I thought it was harsh ur having his baby an he's cheating on you' the first time it happened I flipped, but now it happens so often and I can see the kind of girls doing it are desperate fans so I know it's not true. If my OH was guna cheat I know he wudnt choose girls like the ones who message me anyway!!
Some people just want to cause trouble and mess up peoples lives, they find it fun. Pity them xxx

 

[Desi's_lost]

boys are such worms. =/

 

[aob1013]

Oh Sash, what an arsehole xxx

 

[rubixcyoob.]

He seems like a royal knob tbh. If it were me I wouldn't care if he cheated or not, the fact he is making vicious lies up about you and twisting the truth (since I remember you saying HE was the one who was violent, something to do with hurting you while you were holding Summer or the likes?) to make you look like the bad one in the relationship and himself a little victim which is not the case.

You do not deserve the shit he is saying about you, cheating would just tip the iceberg if that were me.

 

[xx~Lor~xx]

What a complete knob!!!!!!! You deserve so much better hun than that hun.

xoxox

 

[AyaChan]

hes acting all sweet and innocent now.

He just goes "im learning a song for you tomorrow, and im going to sing it for you"
(he plays guitar, and hes never sang for me before even though I've wanted him to)

I hate men

STM your all better off.

Men are lying, mentally abusive idiots

 

[Youngling]

Do u really wanna be with some1 like that?
I dont think i could
xx

 

[rubixcyoob.]

Youngling has a point. Do you want to be with a guy who apparently cheats and doesn't give definate answers - just makes you feel guilty, who tells vicious lies and twists events and then can go back to acting all sweet and innocent?

 

[AyaChan]

no

but I cant do it to Summer.
Hes already told me that if I break up with him he would tell the courts I refuse to let him see her.
and even if decided against that he would stop seeing her.

And his fmaily already hate me enough, he'll tell them lies and they'll try getting her from me coz thats what they're like

I overheard him saying to them about 2 weeks ago that I "beat him about"
What I actually did was slap his leg and walked off because he was bitching about Lauren coz hes jealous I talk to her more >.<

 

[rubixcyoob.]

Aw hun
But don't worry courts won't make an order to remove a child from their mother, unless there is good reason.
And his little lies are so so pathetic.

You really need to speak to your mum or someone telling them about the things Liam says and does, it's not on at all, regardless of relationship status

 

[aob1013]

Yikes ... you need to talk to a trustworthy adult .. or a professional asap! xx

 

[rainbows_x]

Aww hun

I don't know what to suggest, you need a good talk with him and try and figure out what is best for you and Summer.

xxx

 

[hot tea]

Men treat us like idiots because they can get away with it. Guys cheat without remorse and lie because they think they can get away with it. AND GUESS WHAT, we're idiots for LETTING them get away with it!

If he's cheating, whether he admits to it or not... dump him. Do not prove him right, do not prove that he can trick you and drag you along and lie and get away with it.

Be strong and stand by your gut feeling.

 

[hot tea]

Men can be so slimy... as if he could take your daughter from you. He'd never stand a chance in court.

 

[supriseBump_x]

But yet u don't finish with him...

U know he's a dick, u no he's cheated n lied & lets face it, he's not planning on changing anytime soon.

So u have 2 choices, Stay with him and put up with all his shit, or finish with him and move on, yea he's Summers dad but that don't mean tht use have 2 stay together. Not exactly the right sorta environment for a baby to be growing up in is it.

U no i'm not being harsh (well maybe i am) but i'm just looking out for u xxxx

& he's jealous of me. Makes me feel kinda special the words 'little boy' come to mind....