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[KrisKitten]

If hes going to threaten that if you break up he wont see his daughter, he doesnt deserve to see his daughter.
I know you're gonna be torn with wanting summer to have a dad in her life but is this the kind of guy you want around? If he behaves this way with you then how will he treat his daughter when shes older?
Men like that are either just pure slimy, or they view women as beneath them and suitable to be treated like crap and lied to - why will your little girl be treated any differently when shes older?

xxxx

 

[AngelzTears]

I say get out of the situation now. Why continue to do this to yourself? Do you see a future with him? I say get all of this out of the way and settled now while you child is young enough to not get stressed over mommy & daddy fighting!

 

[JoJo16]

i dont think you should be with him atall! and you say you cant do it to summer. i dont see that i did anything wrong not stayin with my ex and they sound pretty similar. if anything i think i totally did the right thing. now fob doesnt see her atall but that was his choice turns out he just wasnt as bothered as he said he was. facts are he cant take summer from you and neither can his parents because technically they have nothing to do with her and wouldnt stand a chance in court. he can lie all he wants but the courts will no who is telling the truth.
i think you and him should end things and keep hings civil for summers sake because staying together nothing will get any beter but only worse and you will break in the future on bad terms and it will be worse for her. would you rather things were sorted now or wait and let things get worse and summer will be older and realise whats going on. i think you should really take some time out and decide for sure what you want cus seems to me your really confused xxx

 

[Tanara]

Okay first staying in a relationship only cause you have a child is a TERRIBLE idea. Take it from me i was with Tayes father for 2 years, 1 1/2 of which was cause we were having/ Had a child. I was in the same situation as you are, and guess what he cheated on me from the moment he found out i was having his kid. In the end i looked like the idiot for staying and putting up with his shit. I found what he claimed to be innocent messages on his nexopia and facebook which i thought nothing of cause im a very secure person, it took me a long time to see that he wasnt being faithful since i had no hard proff, nor did i think he was capable of doing something like that to me.

Leave him and get out now, noones going to take your daughter and if your there cause your scared you cant do it on your own, well guess what if hes like my ex you will end up leaving so do it now.

 

[AnnabelsMummy]

owww hun!! i agree with what most of the other girls have said you really don't deserve this and neither does summer!! you both really deserve so much more than someone who treats you like that..

and it sounds like he's using your daughter as a weapon against you, cause he knows it's your weak spot? you'd do anything to have the best for your daughter and he knows that and is playing on it.. that's really not fair on her - and as for them going for custody, over summer, they'd have to proove you're a bad mummy, and i don't think they can, the only bad thing you've done, is put up with his crap!!

summer won't blame you in the future for it, she'll understand, but how can you give her all your love, when you spend your time stressed and worried about him? she's just going to feel that stress and worry!

i know it's hard hun, and you really don't deserve the things he says.. maybe get some confidential advice?
xxxx

 

[Natasha2605]

Aw hun, he's being an absolute asshole. I know you think it's better for Summer if you's stay together but eventually she'll be able to pick up on the tension ect.Surely she'd rather have parents who are seperate when apart than miserable together. Don't let him threaten you with court action, i doubt his crap would even stand up in court. You really don't deserve this. I'd just get shot of him tbh xx