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[TTCNumbertwo]

Dare- so glad swaddling is working for you, it is the only thing that will work for Jack too! I'd love to take him into work, but I work at a high school and the thought of all those kids with germs freaks me out. Besides, most of my work friends have already been by to visit. I made it out to the craft store this morning, got stuff to make a new fall wreath for the front door, and tomorrow I have LO's 1 month appointment then heading to visit MIL at the farm to let my older son play... hopefully I'll be able to keep getting out of the house, it really helps especially since DH is away on business until Thursday!

 

[Mal]

we get out way to much. Either going out to eat, and animal event cause we work with a local rescue. Shopping or visiting. So we are out quite often. But its easier then it was the first time lol. I breastfeed but Ive got into the habit of feeding her right before I leave and then pumping and taking what i pump with me.

 

[Mal]

where is everyone hiding?

 

[DaretoDream]

lol i have no idea!

 

[TTCNumbertwo]

Im here, just been crazy busy with a flooded basement, ugh!!!

 

[Mal]

i havent been on as baby lily was just released from childrens hospital We have been in there since wednesday. Been a long week but so glad to be home. Lily had some sor tof gastrointestinal virus

 

[CharlieKeys]

aww poor lily!! Hope she's feeling better!!

 

[TTCNumbertwo]

Hi ladies, just a quick update before everyone gets up! I had DS in for his one month checkup and he weighs 13lb 9oz- off the charts. The doctor asked me what I've been feeding him which made me laugh, I said steak and potatoes, I mean really, what could you possibly be feeding a 5 week old, ha ha! I'm super pissed at DH because we've been really hectic around here cleaning up from the hurricane and he is going to the Ravens game (football) which means he'll be gone all day and probably come home drunk, ugh!!! Not to mention he was away on business all week. Meanwhile my oldest son starts sunday school today and I have to take him myself and finish staining the new door we just had installed. Okay, that's it for the complaining, All this busyness is why I've been sort of absent on here. Hope everyone is doing well- Charlie, I saw on another thread that you have a big baby boy as well- I just love my little chunky monkey!!!

 

[DaretoDream]

Im here, just been crazy busy with a flooded basement, ugh!!!

oh no!!! i'm so sorry!!!

i havent been on as baby lily was just released from childrens hospital We have been in there since wednesday. Been a long week but so glad to be home. Lily had some sor tof gastrointestinal virus

Poor lily- is she doing better now?? poor thing!

Hi ladies, just a quick update before everyone gets up! I had DS in for his one month checkup and he weighs 13lb 9oz- off the charts. The doctor asked me what I've been feeding him which made me laugh, I said steak and potatoes, I mean really, what could you possibly be feeding a 5 week old, ha ha! I'm super pissed at DH because we've been really hectic around here cleaning up from the hurricane and he is going to the Ravens game (football) which means he'll be gone all day and probably come home drunk, ugh!!! Not to mention he was away on business all week. Meanwhile my oldest son starts sunday school today and I have to take him myself and finish staining the new door we just had installed. Okay, that's it for the complaining, All this busyness is why I've been sort of absent on here. Hope everyone is doing well- Charlie, I saw on another thread that you have a big baby boy as well- I just love my little chunky monkey!!!

LOL my cousin was a large baby- i mean really really large- my aunt didn't know what to do. But she said as soon as he started walking- he got so thin because he was moving!!! But she said he would stand and his thighs would literally touch because he was so fat!! lol.

 

[DaretoDream]

afm- feeling kind of down, i feel like i can't get through to dh. He works all day, comes home, and goes on the fing computer. He holds her, and is still on the computer. OR he'll turn it off for a few minutes, i leave the room and come back and he's on it!

i went to my mom's yesterday for a bit he says 'don't be gone too long' i get home- he's on the computer, says he missed me but does he get off??? f no! he doesn't get it. All he seems interested in as far as i'm concerned is when we can dtd again- but f that. If you don't have the decency to fing talk to me when i'm here- that's not happening.

this morning at 930 i went to change baby's diaper. She shot urine straight in the air covering me, and then shot poo at the same time across the room hitting the back of her door. There was urine and poo everywhere. I'm yelling for DH to wake up- the monitor was still on so he SHOULD have heard me, and then her room isn't that far from ours- i'm yelling and yelling for help- nothing. So i cleaned it up myself then went and got him and told him to go clean the back of the door - i was nursing her at this point because she was screaming for food- and he said he can't see anything on the door. Now i'm across the room and can see the poo smear that i quickly had wiped so it didn't drip down the door and he just wanted to go back to bed.

i took a shower, and came back, he's STILL in the same position curled on the bed like a sulking child. because he got yelled at. then i ate a bit of breakfast- mind you now he's in the other room on the computer still sulking. Then I had to take the damn dog out, because he's on the computer in another world. the same dog i said i didn't want anymore- and he says when i'm about to walk out "i can take him" mind you he NEVER gets up, doesn't say it like he means it, so i just did it. he doesn't do a damn thing!

come back in- hasn't moved. I dried the dogs feet- he fed them (wow he did something) just now, he was throwing the toys for the dog- but the baby is freaking sleeping in her crib and he is LOUD when he plays so i had to call the dog in with me and tell him to lay down. Because his father is too damn stupid to think maybe we should wait til the baby is up to play that loud. Why not? because it's not his fing consequence!!! i'm pissed!

His bitch of a sister has a birthday thing today- that apparently everyone is going to and we were SORT of invited but a time wasn't given to us- so i'm not f'ing going. Everyone else is going and i'm not because you know what? i'm tired of getting last minute invites OR not invited at all! they're your fing family! And i'm not bringing my daughter to that tiny little apartment with that asshole guy that's her husband and their grubby little dirty child who's ALWAYS sick either. So if dh wants to go (please god let him go) he can go by himself. I'm so pissed off.

He gets so upset if i go out and stay out for a while- but why should i be home?! he doesn't fing talk to us!

 

[Mal]

Ya lily is doing better. Sorry dare your dealing with all this that realy sucks

 

[natalie85]

Ttc hope u get the flooding sorted hope there isn't too much damage? What happened?
Mal sorry your little girl not been too well all better now?
Dare I'm sorry your oh being a nightmare don't know what to suggest

 

[Mal]

ya she is better now

 

[DaretoDream]

thanks natalie. l had a talk with him last night- and it made everything so much better. He says he understands and will try harder. It's just frustrating sometimes you know? and when i talk about it- it seems like i am just being a loon- because when it comes out of my mouth- i feel like it's not even as big a deal as i've been feeling it was.

 

[natalie85]

Aw hun don't forget u still have a lot of hormones going crazy!!! I could totally see your point of view!!! So glad u had a good talk!!! X

 

[TTCNumbertwo]

Hi! I think we're all cleaned up from the flood (Hurricane Lee was the cause), but now we have to figure out how we are going to pay for new flooring in the basement especially since I'm not working!!! At least its in the basement, so we can let it go for awhile, I never go down there, but its where DH has his big-screen and his pool table, its his man cave!
My oldest started pre-school today, I can't believe he's almost 3 years old!!! He cried when I left, but he said he had a really good time when I picked him up. It should be nice having a few hours on tuesdays and thursdays to just cuddle with Jack!

 

[DaretoDream]

hello ladies- hoping you all are well xx

 

[MissMummy2Be]

Hey hope everyone is ok and enjoying there LO's can't believe Christian-James is 7weeks and 1day old time flys hehe

 

[TTCNumbertwo]

Hi ladies, its been ages since I've been on here- my boys are keeping me busy. How's everyone doing? Anyone trying to get baby on a schedule yet? I mostly let Jack determine his schedule, but its making me a little crazy never knowing what to expect. I was thinking about trying to sort the schedule thing out, but I have no idea where to start!

 

[DaretoDream]

I'm like you ttc- i have NO idea where to start! I have been lucky though because ava does her own scheduling but LOVES bed time- so she lets us know when it's time for bed. She starts wailing right before 9 to let us know she wants to go to bed. And she's really become an easy baby. So we are doing pretty well here. hoping it's as easy and fantastic for everyone else!!