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oh god that must have been so scary 
Can he not claim that on his insurance?
Yeah mum did it for me and then I got it back yesterday!
LAdies I'm so sad today - if it wasn't for my boys being around I'd be in tears. It's a long story so sorry if it goes on a bit I took Stephen to a soft play place yesterday and asked Steve to watch Henry. I got a text saying Henry was just non-stop pooping, so I phoned him up and he sounded pissed off at me. I then got home and he was going on how he wouldn't stop crying, how they didn't get a nap together cause he was unsettled etc etc. Then he kept saying how rubbish Henry was because he couldn't do anything like Stephen can and he's boring until he's 5 months old :'( I was like well fine I'll take both of them next time if you can't handle one newborn, and that I was really pissed off that he made me feel guilty for wanting to spend time with ust Stephen - plus it wouldn't have been fair to keep chasing him around and hten having to leave Henry to do so. And how stupid of me to think it would have been nice for Henry and Steve to have some quality time. Anyways, we then took him downstairs for dinner and his boss oined us and his friend Gary said about playing golf today - so I said 'oh looks like you get your own personal time again' and he said 'well you went out today' - and as Lina rightly agreed with me - taking Stephen to a play area/his play groups is not 'a break', I still have to chase him around, sort food out, do nappies, give Henry his bottles etc..... 
Anyways - he took what I said to mean that he didn't do anything when he was off for me and hte boys, which is NOT what I said! But, he's got his mate coming up next Tuesday on his ONLY day off and his day off on Wednesday he now has to spend all day in meetings - so excuse me if I get a bit funny about you not having a day off with me and the boys to help ME out. He was in a mood with me all night - even though I let him go to bed early and I got all Henry's bottles ready for his night feed at 3am and one ready incase he woke up at 6. At his 3am one, Steve went to warm it up, came back took Henry off me and started feeding him. I said I was gonna do it and he said 'it's fine I'll do it again, I do everything when I'm off - despite what you think.' IT got into a big argument and it got bad - he said he was sick of me saying he doesn't do anything........ I DON'T SAY THAT!!!!!!!! so I said I was sick of his attitude lately and hte reason I've been so down lately is because of him and how he makes me constantly feel and how I feel I'm not gonna be happy until I leave. He then goes on about how I'm not taking them with me which I said I'm not leaving my boys with him. He then said 'if only you really knew the truth about how I feel about you and if you ever leave adn take my boys with you I will track you down and beat the shit out of you'
I was so shocked...... he went to sleep and I was ust cuddling Henry in tears. This morning he asked ME to apologise for what I said and since then we've not spoken to each other until I asked him to cancel lovefilm cause it keeps taking money out and we don't need it! He then said how I do nothing and how it's always down to him and he's not going to do it. So I told him I hated him. I don't hate him but at that moment I did I dunno what to do cause if I apologise it makes me look like it's just me in the wrong - I'm supposed ot be the mother of his children and the woman he wants to spend the rest of his life with and he says he will beat the shit out of me if I ever left him with Stephen and Henry. And then, he keeps making comments in front of them saying 'Mummy's taking you two away from me'. I don't get why he's being so nasty - he's normally such a nice person
Can he not claim that on his insurance?Yeah mum did it for me and then I got it back yesterday!
LAdies I'm so sad today - if it wasn't for my boys being around I'd be in tears. It's a long story so sorry if it goes on a bit
I took Stephen to a soft play place yesterday and asked Steve to watch Henry. I got a text saying Henry was just non-stop pooping, so I phoned him up and he sounded pissed off at me. I then got home and he was going on how he wouldn't stop crying, how they didn't get a nap together cause he was unsettled etc etc. Then he kept saying how rubbish Henry was because he couldn't do anything like Stephen can and he's boring until he's 5 months old :'( I was like well fine I'll take both of them next time if you can't handle one newborn, and that I was really pissed off that he made me feel guilty for wanting to spend time with ust Stephen - plus it wouldn't have been fair to keep chasing him around and hten having to leave Henry to do so. And how stupid of me to think it would have been nice for Henry and Steve to have some quality time. Anyways, we then took him downstairs for dinner and his boss oined us and his friend Gary said about playing golf today - so I said 'oh looks like you get your own personal time again' and he said 'well you went out today' - and as Lina rightly agreed with me - taking Stephen to a play area/his play groups is not 'a break', I still have to chase him around, sort food out, do nappies, give Henry his bottles etc..... Anyways - he took what I said to mean that he didn't do anything when he was off for me and hte boys, which is NOT what I said! But, he's got his mate coming up next Tuesday on his ONLY day off and his day off on Wednesday he now has to spend all day in meetings - so excuse me if I get a bit funny about you not having a day off with me and the boys to help ME out. He was in a mood with me all night - even though I let him go to bed early and I got all Henry's bottles ready for his night feed at 3am and one ready incase he woke up at 6. At his 3am one, Steve went to warm it up, came back took Henry off me and started feeding him. I said I was gonna do it and he said 'it's fine I'll do it again, I do everything when I'm off - despite what you think.' IT got into a big argument and it got bad - he said he was sick of me saying he doesn't do anything........ I DON'T SAY THAT!!!!!!!! so I said I was sick of his attitude lately and hte reason I've been so down lately is because of him and how he makes me constantly feel and how I feel I'm not gonna be happy until I leave. He then goes on about how I'm not taking them with me which I said I'm not leaving my boys with him. He then said 'if only you really knew the truth about how I feel about you and if you ever leave adn take my boys with you I will track you down and beat the shit out of you' I was so shocked...... he went to sleep and I was ust cuddling Henry in tears. This morning he asked ME to apologise for what I said and since then we've not spoken to each other until I asked him to cancel lovefilm cause it keeps taking money out and we don't need it! He then said how I do nothing and how it's always down to him and he's not going to do it. So I told him I hated him. I don't hate him but at that moment I did
I dunno what to do cause if I apologise it makes me look like it's just me in the wrong - I'm supposed ot be the mother of his children and the woman he wants to spend the rest of his life with and he says he will beat the shit out of me if I ever left him with Stephen and Henry. And then, he keeps making comments in front of them saying 'Mummy's taking you two away from me'. I don't get why he's being so nasty - he's normally such a nice person
thanks everyone!!! and TTC... the frying pan sounds appealing!! 
xx
But, I don't really want his family being pissed off at me.... they knew I'd been drinking and it should have been one of Kelly's family members who should have been in charge of it? I haven't even told Steve I broke it - :-/ Apart from that it was a good night! Steve and I finally had a nice time togethre when the kids were asleep - was not looking forward the hangover this morning but I was absolutely fine!!!! 
