Snowball
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Everyone keep their fingers crossed that I stop bleeding by then. The hospital told me I'd stop bleeding like after a full term birth. With my other two that was 5 1/2 weeks and when we go away it'll be as near as 5 1/2 weeks you can get. I'm praying it stops so we can get back to normal!
I spoke to my midwife yesterday and she said that my stress and anxiety levels will also affect our chances of getting a bfp so from today I'm calming myself down. I know that's easier said than done but it'll be better for me anyway if I'm calmer. So I'm thinking happy thoughts (apart from if I don't stop bleeding then I'll be thinking very evil thoughts )
Also I've decided on a 'no POAS policy'. This is more a psychological thing than anything. I don't want to get myself excited over nothing if all I'm going to get is a bfn. So I've decided that as my cycle is going to be all over the place anyway, that if I even suspect I may be pregnant, I'm not going to test for a while. I don't really want to know if I am straight away. I'm so worried about forming too much of an attatchment to our next baby as soon as I get a bfp so that's a huge part of the reason why I won't. So, you guys have to keep me away from those wee sticks!
I spoke to my midwife yesterday and she said that my stress and anxiety levels will also affect our chances of getting a bfp so from today I'm calming myself down. I know that's easier said than done but it'll be better for me anyway if I'm calmer. So I'm thinking happy thoughts (apart from if I don't stop bleeding then I'll be thinking very evil thoughts )
Also I've decided on a 'no POAS policy'. This is more a psychological thing than anything. I don't want to get myself excited over nothing if all I'm going to get is a bfn. So I've decided that as my cycle is going to be all over the place anyway, that if I even suspect I may be pregnant, I'm not going to test for a while. I don't really want to know if I am straight away. I'm so worried about forming too much of an attatchment to our next baby as soon as I get a bfp so that's a huge part of the reason why I won't. So, you guys have to keep me away from those wee sticks!