Hi ladies
I know this isn't actually 'being pregnant' related but I am 26 weeks pregnant and my 4 year old has suddenly become a nightmare at bedtime so just looking for some advise or to see if anyone else has been through anything similar
My 4 year old has always been a great sleeper, he goes down at 730 with a book and a cuddle and usually sleeps all night until about 7. He might wake up occasionally for a wee or a drink but 9 times out of 10 we dont hear from him all night.
Now the last couple of weeks all of that has changed. He's going down fine still and sleeping solidly until early hours of the morning & then he's coming in to my bed for a cuddle/asking to sleep with us/asking us to get in with him/saying he's had a bad dream/needs a wee/a drink.... any excuse to be awake basically!
We got into a bad habit when he was younger of getting in with him for a cuddle if he woke in the night so i'm really keen to avoid that so every time he wakes I've just been taking him back to bed, tucking him in and telling him to go to sleep. But within 10-15 mins he's calling me again 'mummy, mummy'.... I've tried ignoring him (and he just comes back into my room again) and I've tried going back in to re-settle him but nothing seems to work.
Im finding that I'm getting really cross with him and I've tried refusing to get out of bed to take him back to he's room and made him go back by himself (which he did) but he was still back in my room again within half an hour and the more i kept putting him back the more upset he got
Im finding it really hard to not give in and just give him a cuddle in he's bed or to let him get in with us but I'm 6 months pregnant and theres going to be a new born in the cot next to my bed soon so i cant really be dealing with him in my bed too or with getting up and down all night to him & the baby!
Im really hoping its just a phase and that it'll stop on its own soon... Im also wondering if expecting he's baby sister could be playing a part in why he wants to get in with us suddenly. Maybe seeing the cot next to the bed has affected him without me realizing
The last couple of nights I've given in and got in with him and even then he's not settled properly and has either woken up by the time I've got out of he's bed or he's gone off and still been back in my room within 20 mins !
How would you deal with this or has anyone been through anything similar?
I know this isn't actually 'being pregnant' related but I am 26 weeks pregnant and my 4 year old has suddenly become a nightmare at bedtime so just looking for some advise or to see if anyone else has been through anything similar
My 4 year old has always been a great sleeper, he goes down at 730 with a book and a cuddle and usually sleeps all night until about 7. He might wake up occasionally for a wee or a drink but 9 times out of 10 we dont hear from him all night.
Now the last couple of weeks all of that has changed. He's going down fine still and sleeping solidly until early hours of the morning & then he's coming in to my bed for a cuddle/asking to sleep with us/asking us to get in with him/saying he's had a bad dream/needs a wee/a drink.... any excuse to be awake basically!
We got into a bad habit when he was younger of getting in with him for a cuddle if he woke in the night so i'm really keen to avoid that so every time he wakes I've just been taking him back to bed, tucking him in and telling him to go to sleep. But within 10-15 mins he's calling me again 'mummy, mummy'.... I've tried ignoring him (and he just comes back into my room again) and I've tried going back in to re-settle him but nothing seems to work.
Im finding that I'm getting really cross with him and I've tried refusing to get out of bed to take him back to he's room and made him go back by himself (which he did) but he was still back in my room again within half an hour and the more i kept putting him back the more upset he got
Im finding it really hard to not give in and just give him a cuddle in he's bed or to let him get in with us but I'm 6 months pregnant and theres going to be a new born in the cot next to my bed soon so i cant really be dealing with him in my bed too or with getting up and down all night to him & the baby!
Im really hoping its just a phase and that it'll stop on its own soon... Im also wondering if expecting he's baby sister could be playing a part in why he wants to get in with us suddenly. Maybe seeing the cot next to the bed has affected him without me realizing
The last couple of nights I've given in and got in with him and even then he's not settled properly and has either woken up by the time I've got out of he's bed or he's gone off and still been back in my room within 20 mins !
How would you deal with this or has anyone been through anything similar?