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[EmmyReece]

I kinda lost my opks when it came to that week where I had the wet and ewcm They're somewhere in all the boxes and I can't find them at the moment

I've always had fairly low temps, not sure if that means something, but I still have my dpo today as my temp rose again slightly

 

[MommyV]

I'm not sure Emmy it seems everybody is different but you should know in about 5 or 6days you'll either get a bfp or af which will definately confirm o one way or the other I know it is really hard I definately think that there were some months ff told me one thing but I had no signs of o I did see that you had some ewcm before o so that could be it fx'd for you

 

[Mzitalian25]

I know I have said I was coming back I have just been crazzzzzy busy with life and a wedding, I hope all of you are well here. Too much to read right now I will later, sending my love to all you girls!

 

[Butterfly24]

heya girls

here i am again, it's so lovely to see more and more bfp's on here everytime i come on

we finally got my df's spermie test back and it came back good even though we got it there 15mins late

i've been told to loose 2 stone and give up smoking, before i get anything to help becuase of my pcos - i would probably need to loose more anyway but thats my starting point . i am now on day 6 of my diet and quitting smoking, so am feeling really positive.

at least now i have something to aim for and don't feel like i'm blindly jumping through hoops and not getting anwhere lol

 

[MrsBarrowman]

Can i join pls

We are TTC and have been for the last 18mths, but to be fair not all the 18mths we have been trying as I have PCOS and both OH and I are overweight, so am wanting to get that sorted before going back to TTCing.

 

[wannabemamu]

Hi everyone!

I want to join in! Interesting I found this thread only now, I am 200lbs and 5'3" so I know I am morbidly obese by some standards. Everytime I see a doctor they say I am too fat that's why I can't get pregnant. Seeing this thread with lots of big women who got pregnant, I felt relieved. Woohooo!

AF was due 3 days ago, bled on March 26, for a day (pinkish). Hmmmm... hoping it was IB!

 

[Kellar]

Welcome to the group ladies!!!

For me at the moment...waiting for af to show her face. On friday I had alot of twinges/spasms...like I mean ALOT all day, it was very weird. I have them sometimes through out my cycle, maybe once a day. Had some cramps on and off today and ran to the bathroom thinking AF is here but nothing. I tested with fmu and BFN...was sort of heart broken. I start another round of my diet at the end of April but was sort of hoping that I would get my BFP before then. Also thought that because I lost 27lbs, that it would help but I guess not this time. Anyhoo........ Hope everyone had a good weekend!!!!!

 

[andella95]

Hello new ladies!

Haven't felt like posting much lately. I'm so scared of miscarrying...especially after a few of the ladies on bnb that I've grown very fond of have had relatively late miscarriages recently, and it's just so heartbreaking.

I wish I could be one of those carefree ladies who don't really even consider that something could go wrong, like I was with my son.

Anyway, welcome to the new ladies!

 

[StarlitHome]

to andella.
to all new ladies!

me? I'm waiting for the ultrasound place to give me a call so I can book my 18-20 week ultrasound where we find out the gender... I can't wait!

 

[lynlouc]

Hi ladies hope you dont mind me joining ,,im not sure what i way in pounds or kg's but i know im a bigger lady size 18 / 20 and have a high bmi !! This thread seems very positive and i was wondering if you'd mind telling me how long you were all trying for before you got your bfp's oh and how old you are ( im a very nosey person !! )
Think im hoping for too much as im large and old ....

 

[StarlitHome]

Hi lynlouc!
I'm 22 years old, I'll be 23 when my baby is born. Before pregnancy I weighed about... 230? 240? I'm actually not sure, but now 18 weeks in I know I weigh 250. I was trying for 4 cycles, got my after my wedding anniversary cycle.
as a positive thought - my mom and I are about the same size. She's had 9 children, and had the last two (twins) when she was just over 40 years old.

 

[BrandysBabies]

Hey ladies,

Sorry I havent been around. I didnt realize that I hadent even come here to let you all know that I lost the baby. It has been really hard emotionally as this is my first miscarriage. I have been waiting a little over two weeks for my body to miscarry naturally. I finally had my miscarriage last night. It was so bad I spent the night in the hospital. I have never been in that kind of pain in my entire life. I went through 9hrs of hard labor. They gave me morphine, which did absolutely NOTHING! God forbid, if this ever were to happen again, there is no DR alive that could talk me out of a D&C! If I didnt want to move on so badly I would seriously consider killing my OB! Lol! No seriously! We recently found out that it was actually most likely him that caused the baby to die in the first place. Whan I was 7+4 wks he had me take a vaginal medication for a slight bacterial infection. At the time I was scared to take it because the pamplet said not to while you are pregnant. I only took 3 days of it, had my scan the next day and then they say the baby was dead two days later. I was laying in bed the other night and it just came to me that 3 days after taking this stuff, the baby died, so I looked it up online and EVERYTHING i found said to never take it during the first tri as it can and most often will cause a miscarriage. I am heartbroken that I couldnt even trust my DR to keep my baby safe, but at least I know that it wasnt something that I did, or my diabetes like my DR tried to blame it on. My parents want my to pursue the issue legally, but I just want to move on and concentrate on making another baby. I will be finding a new OB, thats for sure!

 

[bigbetty]

Oh Brandy

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss, I'm sat here in tears after reading what's happened. You are being very strong about all of this, I can't believe your dr is trying to fob you off with excuses.

I am praying that it doesn't take you long to get another bfp hun, lots of love and luck to you xxxxx

 

[bigbetty]

Hi ladies hope you dont mind me joining ,,im not sure what i way in pounds or kg's but i know im a bigger lady size 18 / 20 and have a high bmi !! This thread seems very positive and i was wondering if you'd mind telling me how long you were all trying for before you got your bfp's oh and how old you are ( im a very nosey person !! )
Think im hoping for too much as im large and old ....

Hi love! You don't say how old you are but I had my little girl in January, just after my 32nd birthday.

When I got my bfp I weighed 20stone 6lbs and was a size 26/28. I had been on the depo injection for over 4yrs and after stopping it I got my period back in less than 2 months. When we started trying it only took me 6 months to get pregnant!

I had a very straight forward pregnancy apart from m/s lasting til 23wks and bad heartburn the whole way through - but I lost 3 and a half stone because of it lol!

I had to be induced because Fran didn't want to come out but I had a normal delivery with just one shot of pethedine early on and gas and air for the rest.

So I was oldish and very fat but had no problems getting pregnant and had a fairly problem free pregnancy!

My little girl is just perfect - below is the latest picture of her taken yesterday

 

[andella95]

She's cuter every time I see her! How is that even possible??

 

[bigbetty]

Aw thank you Andella! She is really starting to get a little personality now, she smiles more every day and has started hitting the toys on her cot mobile and the toybar on her bouncy chair

 

[Kellar]

She is so CUTE!!!

 

[sma1588]

brandy- omg hun im so sorry i hope u get another bfp when your ready and your little angel watches over you everyday

betty- wow she is getting so big so fast i cant believe it ......it really does seem like a few days ago she was so tiny

 

[Mustang_Love]

Brandy I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Remember to take all the time you need to heal. Grief is natural. I am keeping you in my thoughts.

Betty she really is a looker! And my goodness that smile. It must be fun to have her interacting more....

As for me, I was diagnosed with gestational diabetes on Monday. I am just waiting to hear back from the doctor for appointments about diet and blood sugar testing. I don't know why but I feel kind of angry about it.

Hope everyone else is doing well!

 

[Kellar]

Hi Lady's. Feeling alittle sad today. This should have been my last week before Mat leave. I was fine with it and getting past it and then today a co-worker, who is also my best friends sister, told me that she is 7 week pregnant. Please dont get me wrong...Im totally happy for her. They had been trying for awhile and were going to give up in July if it didnt happen by then. Feel like its never going to happen for oh and I.