After waiting a long 15 Months to start IVF 4, I just got my result back HCG not even 2! I am so messed up in the head right now and so Confused! I ate well, i made more eggs than i have ever in the past! my hormones were great! I thought this was the one!
They have all been fresh cycles and paid by us for negatives! Do i even want to think about a 5th one! No, not now anyway I just feel that life has been squeezed out of me! my husband is a wreck in one room and I am just thinking what the hell do i do now? Adoption? keep going through this shit? i just dont know where we go through here. I have prayed so so hard to the Lord that the Angels must have said to God give her a break shes prayed so hard!! I mean nothing at all, never had a chemical a 'might' nothing.. been married over 5 years never used contraception had 4 Failed IVFS and NEVER BEEN PREGNANT
I was on everything! Clexane injections, Asprin, Steriods, Intraplids, Estrofem, Progestertone, All 11 embryos had PGD, full biopsy, the 'best' went back and a No I am shaking as i type.. (the money we paid for the additional stuff and the head embryologist telling us we had a grade 1 beauty in us!!) Where is that grade one beauty now!!!?? coming out of me in the next few days?? seriously!!?? The happiness ALL the optimism! leaving the clinic floating thinking this is it for us!!?? giggling with the nurses asking them do they have good feelings about my cycle!!?? and them saying 'yes your cycle has been perfect!' All that was just bull shit!! My arm is so purple and sore being connected to the drip for 3 hours thinking its nutrients for my baby! What baby!!?? like a fool hobbled around the house thinking i was pregnant! like a fool i would show my husband baby stuff we will get! like a fool i had convinced myself the baby has snuggled in well and telling myself that my skin and hair looks better, and staring at the veins on my chest swearing that i have never seen them before!! Having cold showers thinking the heat will not help the environment! Showing my husband my little bloated stomach saying it will be huge in a few months! and what for a no!! I just feel like a laughing stock! i feel that my home is laughing at me! the nurses are! i just feel like a pathetic failure!!
NOW WHAT I FOOL I HAVE BEEN! i should have known better! i should have protected myself from this day! i have been here too many times now!! i just thought MAYBE new clinic, we paid so much money and that additional stuff is what we needed??
I just feel like punching my stomach so so hard!! the same area that i have been stroking and visualising implantation, the damn zita west CD me repeating all that bull crap... I mean were suppose to be a simple case! yet its plain to see were not!
so so so so so hurt right, i am damaged mentally, physically, emotionally, i am just a mess. IVF is a messed up method when it does not work!
Doctor said test again in two days is he for real!!?? i am 14 days past egg collection 9 days past 5 day blast! and HCG is not even a 2!! Do i want to inject my belly longer with Clexane ( i dont even recognise my stomach no more!) or swallow more drugs??! No! been here and those damn number will not move! but the FOOL that I am I guess I will listen and continue to inflict pain on myself, and watch the 1.5 might be a 1.8 on Monday, who knows?
I know time is a healer, but i dont know if it can be this time! like a plastic ruler i have truly felt my mind body and spirit just snap in 2
i just want a baby, just one baby than im done..
Will i be the women that gets pregnant on her 5th 6th 7th try? Has anyone got pregnant on their 5th go? I am just 30 with 4 failed IVFS and what was suppose to be just a male factor is turning into something so messed up.
My poor husband is a mess, never seen him so so angry and upset, i have never seen him punch a door in my life and his knuckles are all red sore, and now i am worried for his mental health. Hes just took the car keys and off he went!! I pray he will be ok, It is a very shit place to be in. We are good people bursting with love, yet this today? Making a baby was suppose to be a fun, exciting time in our lives, BUT ITS NOT! I feel like saying to every pregnant women and every mother out there THAT YOU ARE SO SO SO BLESSED, Other people are killing themselves to have that experience, its such a magical thing to be a mom, and i guess it just happens to the SPECIAL ones that God deems worthy of being a mom. I try and think why not me?
Im scared to death of being that women, that IVF just does not work for. Theres a small % that it just does not happen for, and with my track record watch it be me!!
I have just come in here to vent, hoping that someone can give me hope that it will get better and their is success out there.. I am so so angry right now and upset, Really is this a joke? was this how my life was mapped out?
I just feel this weekend is going to be a long one..
They have all been fresh cycles and paid by us for negatives! Do i even want to think about a 5th one! No, not now anyway I just feel that life has been squeezed out of me! my husband is a wreck in one room and I am just thinking what the hell do i do now? Adoption? keep going through this shit? i just dont know where we go through here. I have prayed so so hard to the Lord that the Angels must have said to God give her a break shes prayed so hard!! I mean nothing at all, never had a chemical a 'might' nothing.. been married over 5 years never used contraception had 4 Failed IVFS and NEVER BEEN PREGNANT
I was on everything! Clexane injections, Asprin, Steriods, Intraplids, Estrofem, Progestertone, All 11 embryos had PGD, full biopsy, the 'best' went back and a No I am shaking as i type.. (the money we paid for the additional stuff and the head embryologist telling us we had a grade 1 beauty in us!!) Where is that grade one beauty now!!!?? coming out of me in the next few days?? seriously!!?? The happiness ALL the optimism! leaving the clinic floating thinking this is it for us!!?? giggling with the nurses asking them do they have good feelings about my cycle!!?? and them saying 'yes your cycle has been perfect!' All that was just bull shit!! My arm is so purple and sore being connected to the drip for 3 hours thinking its nutrients for my baby! What baby!!?? like a fool hobbled around the house thinking i was pregnant! like a fool i would show my husband baby stuff we will get! like a fool i had convinced myself the baby has snuggled in well and telling myself that my skin and hair looks better, and staring at the veins on my chest swearing that i have never seen them before!! Having cold showers thinking the heat will not help the environment! Showing my husband my little bloated stomach saying it will be huge in a few months! and what for a no!! I just feel like a laughing stock! i feel that my home is laughing at me! the nurses are! i just feel like a pathetic failure!!
NOW WHAT I FOOL I HAVE BEEN! i should have known better! i should have protected myself from this day! i have been here too many times now!! i just thought MAYBE new clinic, we paid so much money and that additional stuff is what we needed??
I just feel like punching my stomach so so hard!! the same area that i have been stroking and visualising implantation, the damn zita west CD me repeating all that bull crap... I mean were suppose to be a simple case! yet its plain to see were not!
so so so so so hurt right, i am damaged mentally, physically, emotionally, i am just a mess. IVF is a messed up method when it does not work!
Doctor said test again in two days is he for real!!?? i am 14 days past egg collection 9 days past 5 day blast! and HCG is not even a 2!! Do i want to inject my belly longer with Clexane ( i dont even recognise my stomach no more!) or swallow more drugs??! No! been here and those damn number will not move! but the FOOL that I am I guess I will listen and continue to inflict pain on myself, and watch the 1.5 might be a 1.8 on Monday, who knows?
I know time is a healer, but i dont know if it can be this time! like a plastic ruler i have truly felt my mind body and spirit just snap in 2
i just want a baby, just one baby than im done..
Will i be the women that gets pregnant on her 5th 6th 7th try? Has anyone got pregnant on their 5th go? I am just 30 with 4 failed IVFS and what was suppose to be just a male factor is turning into something so messed up.
My poor husband is a mess, never seen him so so angry and upset, i have never seen him punch a door in my life and his knuckles are all red sore, and now i am worried for his mental health. Hes just took the car keys and off he went!! I pray he will be ok, It is a very shit place to be in. We are good people bursting with love, yet this today? Making a baby was suppose to be a fun, exciting time in our lives, BUT ITS NOT! I feel like saying to every pregnant women and every mother out there THAT YOU ARE SO SO SO BLESSED, Other people are killing themselves to have that experience, its such a magical thing to be a mom, and i guess it just happens to the SPECIAL ones that God deems worthy of being a mom. I try and think why not me?
Im scared to death of being that women, that IVF just does not work for. Theres a small % that it just does not happen for, and with my track record watch it be me!!
I have just come in here to vent, hoping that someone can give me hope that it will get better and their is success out there.. I am so so angry right now and upset, Really is this a joke? was this how my life was mapped out?
I just feel this weekend is going to be a long one..